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Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by myboo: 10:46am On Nov 10, 2012 |
I'm currently faced with this guys What do you think about marrying a chic from a broken home (ie her father and mother are separated)? Does it really have a significant effect on the children? The chic in question is actually cool character-wise and she is a christian. Your views would be appreciated cos i need to take a decision ASAP Thx 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by Nobody: 10:51am On Nov 10, 2012 |
come on! it's not because her parents are seperated that the same will happen if she gets married! If you love her and she loves you, I really don't see where is the problem. My parents are divorced but I don't think it's something that will prevent my boyfriend from marrying me. I don't really know how it is in Nigerian society, but in Western countries divorces are a very common thing and nothing to be ashamed of or not to be with a girl because her parents are divorced. Goood luck 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by candieangel12(f): 10:51am On Nov 10, 2012 |
Many of the greatest people in this world come from seperated families. If you really love her then go ahead and marry her. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by vivianc(f): 10:53am On Nov 10, 2012 |
If her family background did not affect her, then go ahead. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by fairygeh(f): 10:55am On Nov 10, 2012 |
It doesnt matter.its her character that is important and such people learn from their parent's mistakes and tend not to follow the path that led to their parent's broken homes. 5 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by k2039: 10:57am On Nov 10, 2012 |
Op when did the marital status of one's parent became a requirement for getting married. For Christ sake,my parent's are seperated,does it mean I wont be a good husband or Father. For the records,I know I will make a better husband and father because of what I went through,I know the effect a seperated home has on a child,I'm a victim.The last thing I want is my children going through thesame thing I went through. So,Op it has nothing to do with parents marital status,it has everything to do with the individual,you must have been friends with her enough to know her for who she is,if you are satisfied with her character,then I see no reason why you shouldnt proceed to marriage. 11 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by Agiliti(m): 11:00am On Nov 10, 2012 |
myboo: Am currently faced with this guysdepends on how she feels about her parents. but if you're trying to marry her you should know her character. funny some women from broken homes might actually be better at keeping a family than those from regular families cos they know what it feels like. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by Nobody: 11:04am On Nov 10, 2012 |
If she grew up with her mom Treat her betta than how her dad treated her mum Love her more than her mum does for her. Deres no big deal, doesn't mean dey're abnormal! 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by Mynd44: 11:06am On Nov 10, 2012 |
I see noting wrong with it. Cos her parents are separated does not mean she will want to as long as you don't treat her bad |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by MrsChima(f): 11:12am On Nov 10, 2012 |
88% of NL chatters are from broken homes...so why the fakeness 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by Nobody: 11:12am On Nov 10, 2012 |
what matters most is those wonderfull qualities that she has that made you go gaga for her.and it won't affect your children in any way.your children will be affected by the way you trained them, your actions and the enviroment they grew up in.bible says "train up a child in way he should grow and when he grows up, he will not depart from it" it wont affect your children.don't deny yourself enternal happiness all cos her parents are divorced.it doesn't make sense 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by member126910(f): 12:00pm On Nov 10, 2012 |
She is an individual, and has played no part in breaking up her parents relationship - why should it matter? |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by Mynd44: 1:27pm On Nov 10, 2012 |
Mrs.Chima:I wonder how you came about that number 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by tpia1: 1:55pm On Nov 10, 2012 |
Mrs.Chima: This is a nigerian site, that's why Either already from broken homes or planning how to break up other people's homes, or any such similar situation, yet they'll be the loudest in condemning others. and it seems everybody on nl came from a happy home where the dad always obeyed the mum, the mum had full control of the dad, and the house was mini paradise on earth. never mind the fact that adultery, fornication and juju are second nature to most of us folks! 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by slimchi2k2(m): 2:05pm On Nov 10, 2012 |
after all u said about her u still ask for our views bros marry her if she's ok for u,nt the family u we marry 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by UjSizzle(f): 2:14pm On Nov 10, 2012 |
It shouldn't matter if her family state hasn't affected her negatively. |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by Mynd44: 2:28pm On Nov 10, 2012 |
uj_sizzle: It shouldn't matter if her family state hasn't affected her negatively.That's just true 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by dBard: 2:30pm On Nov 10, 2012 |
miss-sweety86: That's why d rate of divorce is dropping over there abi @O.P. yes it does matter. The feelings of betrayal, distrust etc act as extra baggage that might manifest later on. should it stop u from marrying her.. No. but it needs t be considered n seriously too.. 5 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by dBard: 2:34pm On Nov 10, 2012 |
Mrs.Chima: ... |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by pendo89(f): 2:36pm On Nov 10, 2012 |
Mrs.Chima: lolest chima. ur funny in a crazy way If she is not broken herself I see no big deal. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by IZUKWU(m): 2:38pm On Nov 10, 2012 |
I understand your fears but did she grew up with her father or mother . Did the mother later remarry that is if she stayed with the mum . But the important issue here is did her mother succeed in making her embittered against men or has she matured to know that one needs to work on her r/ship to make a success of it.or will be men ,men the are all bad. 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by Exponental(m): 2:38pm On Nov 10, 2012 |
Most likely, it depends on d child's upbringing. If any of d parent is wayward n d child is close to d parent, it is a 75-25 thing 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by MrsChima(f): 3:05pm On Nov 10, 2012 |
dBard: Mashewwwww! |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by MrsChima(f): 3:05pm On Nov 10, 2012 |
pendo89: They are crying as if someone can literally be broken in half. |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by MrsChima(f): 3:08pm On Nov 10, 2012 |
Mynd_44: Boko Haram told me. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by dBard: 5:44pm On Nov 10, 2012 |
Mrs.Chima: |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by Nobody: 6:23pm On Nov 10, 2012 |
guy a babe from a broken go get a broken marriage wit u |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by otokx(m): 7:30pm On Nov 10, 2012 |
lefulefu: guy a babe from a broken go get a broken marriage wit u lefulefu |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by otokx(m): 7:30pm On Nov 10, 2012 |
i think you should ask the redmosquito 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by blackbeau1(f): 7:41pm On Nov 10, 2012 |
It depends on the girl.some people are affected by their parents separation .think and watch carefully |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by Ucheosefoh(m): 7:41pm On Nov 10, 2012 |
Mynd_44:u dnt need 2 ask she is an example 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Girl From A Broken Home...does It Really Matter? by Nobody: 7:44pm On Nov 10, 2012 |
It might affect her psyche,but she can still be subjected to change through loving her,and making her appreciate the joy of family living together. Most broken homes affects the kids mostly,cos growing up with a single parent aint easy at all. |
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