carefreewannabe:

Sorry, you lost me.

Sending/receiving photos is not the first, neither is it second thing you would do when trying to get to know someone.

crackhaus:
Sending/receiving photos is not the first neither is it second thing you would do when trying to get to know someone.

WOW. Someone who seems to be less shallow than the mainstream. I am impressed.

pickabeau1:


They were not necessarily docile but they recognised the necessity of large households for farming etc

Yea, that and docile.

carefreewannabe:

WOW. Someone who seems to be less shallow than the mainstream. I am impressed.

Almighty Carefreewannabe hadn't figured out that the photo requests were just a tease, a means to lighten the mood?

I'm not impressed

ok

crackhaus:
Yea, that and docile.

crackhaus:
Almighty Carefreewannabe hadn't figured out that the photo requests were just a tease, a means to lighten the mood?

I'm not impressed

I don't believe you. You are dying to see me.

carefreewannabe:

I don't believe you. You are dying to see me.

Don't hold back anything, shout it from the rooftop...I won't stop you.

The day he sits me down to tell me he wants a second wife, is the day I encourage him to marry the second wife and find a third to make it two.

pickabeau1:



LOL... if you dont mind, may i ask what could happen..
Bankruptcy due to Divorce i get but this ur post is chilly...X

It's a chilly topic.
Expect chilly posts
Infact the topic gives me the chills and shivers.

Ok it's official.
Carefreewannabe has snatched crackhaus from me.

Alright. Where's my e-lawyer. Need an e-divorce asap.

Don't even think about getting the kids.
Or the house
Or the business either.I'm taking them with me.

And you carefree have broken a BIG rule in the sisterhood. Meet me at the coven 12midnight tonight for your sanction.

cococandy: Ok it's official.
Carefreewannabe has snatched crackhaus from me.

Alright. Where's my e-lawyer. Need an e-divorce asap.

Don't even think about getting the kids.
Or the house
Or the business either.I'm taking them with me.

And you carefree have broken a BIG rule in the sisterhood. Meet me at the coven 12midnight tonight for your sanction.

Sisi, how can you think something like this about me?

He said he was monogamos so you don't have to worry.

carefreewannabe:

Sisi, how can you think something like this about me?

He said he was monogamos so you don't have to worry.

I trust you but...

Let him come and speak for himself o.
My eyes are seeing something else

cococandy:
I trust you but...

Let him come and speak for himself o.
My eyes are seeing something else

I am waiting for him to explain himself to his wife

Someone said this on another thread

I myself have zero tolerance. I also would create crazy thoughts in my head of strangling my man should i remain in that house, blowing his brains off in his sleep, looking at his face every single day. which is why divorcce is my ish!!

Do you think you can also harbour murderous thoughts if it happened to you

Im curious to what you meant exactly

cococandy:

It's a chilly topic.
Expect chilly posts
Infact the topic gives me the chills and shivers.

..

Oh someone said that?
Lmao. Girls are not smiling anymore.
Well at least you guys are realizing it's not small issue for many women.
We are now very different from our female ancestors.

Would I be murderous? Maybe. Who knows?
I don't even know.

I just know that my first reaction(which won't be pre-meditated or planned) might land him in the hospital.

If anything such 'discussions' are better held over the phone.

Ok but seriously though. Such a guy must be cool playing russian roulette with himself to sit face to face and tell madam he's bringing another woman into the marriage.
Not where I come from.
It doesn't happen or will I say it rarely happens.

pickabeau1: Someone said this on another thread



Do you think you can also harbour murderous thoughts if it happened to you

Im curious to what you meant exactly

Candy warrior princess and feisty Carefree, abeg make una let me sleep...stop bringing my attention back here

Polygamy in any size, shape, or form ain't easy... eishhh

interesting ....

you women surprise me though,,

With modernisation and empowerment, i think it should be easy for a woman to walk out of a union where she is not respected keeping her dignity rather than risk committing a crime...

what do you think?

cococandy: Oh someone said that?
Lmao. Girls are not smiling anymore.
Well at least you guys are realizing it's not small issue for many women.
We are now very different from our female ancestors.

Would I be murderous? Maybe. Who knows?
I don't even know.

I just know that my first reaction(which won't be pre-meditated or planned) might land him in the hospital.

If anything such 'discussions' are better held over the phone.

Ok but seriously though. Such a guy must be cool playing russian roulette with himself to sit face to face and tell madam he's bringing another woman into the marriage.
Not where I come from.
It doesn't happen or will I say it rarely happens.

I think so too.
And will definitely advice anyone who finds herself in such a position to do same.
Walk away.
Head held high.

But we all have heard about crimes of passion.
Even the most financially liberated of people men and women alike are not immune to it.

So if I were the man,I'd play safe.

pickabeau1: interesting ....

you women surprise me though,,

With modernisation and empowerment, i think it should be easy for a woman to walk out of a union where she is not respected keeping her dignity rather than risk committing a crime...

what do you think?

....cococandy to yoyobitters

cococandy: I think so too.
And will definitely advice anyone who finds herself in such a position to do same.
Walk away.
Head held high.

But we all have heard about crimes of passion.
Even the most financially liberated of people men and women alike are not immune to it.

So if I were the man,I'd play safe.

Always candy sweet.
Yoyobitters is just my evil twin

pickabeau1: ....cococandy to yoyobitters

hrmkz: It is very obvious women have a thousand and one reasons why they will never consent to their husband taking a second wife.

But in the eventaulity that your husband sits you down and sought your permission to allow him take a second wife, why would you allow him?

NB: just fun....maybe you can think of just one reason.

O yaaa think.

Jeez!!!!!

crackhaus:
Yea, that and docile.

I agree

Why would I allow my husband marry a second wife for fun?

If I no longer loved him, no longer to be his wife but did not want a divorce

Wifey two means freedom to live my life as I wish without strings.

Singly married

On serious note, just give him the space... 3 is a crowd

cococandy: no reason.

such a dude must not be loving his life to try and sit me down to discuss a second wife.

What if he says he wants a divorce instead if you say he can't sit u down to discuss a second wife?

Lmao.
Who wants to share a husband?

Na me go begin the divorce discussion.

Ok so over to you. Why would you marry a second wife?

luvablesam:

What if he says he wants a divorce instead if you say he can't sit u down to discuss a second wife?

cococandy: Lmao.
Who wants to share a husband?

Na me go begin the divorce discussion.

Ok so over to you. Why would you marry a second wife?

Hmmmmm......Interesting,ONLY IF WIFEY says she no dey do again!!!

Y do u hate d second wife idea?

The same reason you hate the second husband idea.

luvablesam:
Hmmmmm......Interesting,ONLY IF WIFEY says she no dey do again!!!

Y do u hate d second wife idea?

cococandy: The same reason you hate the second husband idea.

Hahahahaha. Am not in support of second anything, I even believe the concept of marriage MIGHT soon fade away.

Still your answer doesn't answer my question.

It answers you plain and simple.

Would you like to share your wife with another man?
I'm guessing no. Pls correct me if you don't mind sharing.

But going with No for now.
The same you don't want to share your woman with another man is the same reason I don't want to share my man

Geddit?

luvablesam:

Hahahahaha. Am not in support of second anything, I even believe the concept of marriage MIGHT soon fade away.

Still your answer doesn't answer my question.

cococandy: It answers you plain and simple.

Would you like to share your wife with another man?
I'm guessing no. Pls correct me if you don't mind sharing.

But going with No for now.
The same you don't want to share your woman with another man is the same reason I don't want to share my man

Geddit?

Would u live a man u LOVE so much if he says, 'coco u need a help mate' lemme get another wife?

luvablesam:

Would u live a man u LOVE so much if he says, 'coco u need a help mate' lemme get another wife?

Bros, define love