luvablesam:

Would u live a man u LOVE so much if he says, 'coco u need a help mate' lemme get another wife?

I won't leave a man i LOVE so much just because he says ''i need a help mate, lemme get another wife''

Help me God not to do the unthinkable oooo

Would you leave a woman you love so much if she says 'Sam times are hard. Let me get a man to help you with providing for the family while I service him as well'.

All your answers are same as mine.

luvablesam:

Would u live a man u LOVE so much if he says, 'coco u need a help mate' lemme get another wife?

This is an open ended question naa

Godmystrength: I won't leave a man i LOVE so much just because he says ''i need a help mate, lemme get another wife''

Help me God not to do the unthinkable oooo

bwuahahaha...@bolded, in other words?

that's why I said this is an open question, and not a yes or no, because conditions/circumstances could be involved

I already lost hope on response to these topic.

However am getting goose bump with the response so far and taking learnings.

I was actually involved in a an arguement in ivory coast, one of my friends had kids outside his marriage and kept away from the wife.
I actually told them why didn't they inform the wife and he said his not ready to die, and many people present agreed that women could kill cos of it.

But why over-react or do something that could make you end up in jail.

Is there nothing much more "sane" to do/say wheb such happen, cos we cannot totally eliminate it.

cococandy: Would leave a woman you love so much if she says 'Sam times are hard. Let me get a man to help you with providing for the family while I service him as well'.

All your answers are same as mine.

When I said help, I didn't mean finance. I meant maybe bedroom affairs,taking care of the kids,go out with him when u don't wanna go out or stuffs.

No Man would say YES Coco, cos ur comment has a financial undertone.

luvablesam:

When I said help, I didn't mean finance. I meant maybe bedroom affairs,taking care of the kids,go out with him when u don't wanna go out or stuffs.

No Man would say YES Coco, cos ur comment has a financial undertone.

so there is a man somewhere that will say yes to the above (if it was reversed) provided there is no financial undertone??

Godmystrength: I won't leave a man i LOVE so much just because he says ''i need a help mate, lemme get another wife''

Help me God not to do the unthinkable oooo

Exactly my tots as well....there is nothing a woman in love can do other than say am leaving or OK, bring her.

bukatyne:

Bros, define love

Love is what it is, A feeling!!! Could be misunderstood for lust,obsession, or infatuation.

Love is what it is.

luvablesam:

Exactly my tots as well....there is nothing a woman in love can do other than say am leaving or OK, bring her.

bring her for where...
How can i still think of staying with a man that has brought in another woman as co-wife? So many things involved o plus will he be using condom on both of us or what? SO i should now go and catch whatever jagbajantis the other woman is bring. Once another woman enters, we stop being a couple maybe flat mates.

Godmystrength: I won't leave a man i LOVE so much just because he says ''i need a help mate, lemme get another wife''
Help me God not to do the unthinkable oooo

The key word here is just because he says it. I won't even act as if i heard him saying it the first time.

He should not even think of bringing her to my home. Let him go and make her home for her somewhere else......

Godmystrength: so there is a man somewhere that will say yes to the above (if it was reversed) provided there is no financial undertone??

Some Men would do but definitely not African n Nigerians in particular.

luvablesam:

Some Men would do but definitely not African n Nigerians in particular.

So why should any African woman or Nigerian woman in particular agree to this?

Godmystrength: bring her for where...
How can i still think of staying with a man that has brought in another woman as co-wife? So many things involved o plus will he be using condom on both of us or what? SO i should now go and catch whatever jagbajantis the other woman is bring. Once another woman enters, we stop being a couple maybe flat mates.

The key word here is just because he says it. I won't even act as if i heard him saying it the first time.

He should not even think of bringing her to my home. Let him go and make her home for her somewhere else......

For those that the 'second. Wife ish' catches their fancy,they would do say or do anything to bring a second wife in

luvablesam:

For those that the 'second. Wife ish' catches their fancy,they would do say or do anything to bring a second wife in

You mean the men?

Godmystrength: So why should any African woman or Nigerian woman in particular agree to this?

Because it had always been the Norm. Trace your family history a bit,u would discover that ur grand-uncle or someone had more than just a woman as wife. Honestly.

Am not in support of plenty wives please.

luvablesam:

Because it had always been the Norm. Trace your family history a bit,u would discover that ur grand-uncle or someone had more than just a woman as wife. Honestly.

Am not in support of plenty wives please.

okay...... how many is plenty??

Godmystrength: You mean the men?

Sure I mean Men.

Godmystrength: okay...... how many is plenty??

More than one

luvablesam:

More than one

good.

Godmystrength: good.

Buh u know people differ in what they choose to want?

luvablesam:

Buh u know people differ in what they choose to want?

of course they differ in choices.

luvablesam:

Sure I mean Men.

good for them then. as for me, i have prayed to God not to let me have anything to do with such kind of men and i know he answered my prayer.

one thing is SURE. there is NO reason/condition/circumstance he can present that will be ENOUGH to make me ACCEPT a 2nd wife.

Godmystrength: good for them then. as for me, i have prayed to God not to let me have anything to do with such kind of men and i know he answered my prayer.

Only modern greedy men would want a second wife except they are muslims. Although av seen a situation were a woman asked d hubby to marry a second wife.Av seen some above 32yr old chics say they would rather be a second wife than remain single for ever(not as a result of societal pressure,mind u)

U wanna know how I truly feel?

[quote
author=luvablesam]Only modern greedy men would want a second wife except they are muslims.
Although av seen a situation were a woman asked d hubby to marry a
second wife.Av seen some above 32yr old chics say they would rather be a
second wife than remain single for ever(not as a result of societal
pressure,mind u)

U wanna know how I truly feel? [/quote]yes i want to know.

Godmystrength: yes i want to know.

U av already made conclusions about what I think honestly.

luvablesam:

U av already made conclusions about what I think honestly.

was it in sync with what you think?

Ok would you say yes if it wasn't a financial offer?
More like if she wants to bring in another man to help you relieve of you of some fatherly responsibilities. Be around for the kids when you're off on business or work and they need a father at the moment.
going out with her when you don't wanna go out, and bedroom affairs.
Just because of the love she has for you you know


Keep beating about the bush eh.

luvablesam:

When I said help, I didn't mean finance. I meant maybe bedroom affairs,taking care of the kids,go out with him when u don't wanna go out or stuffs.

No Man would say YES Coco, cos ur comment has a financial undertone.

That boat has sailed uncle sam.
So asking me what I have against a second wife is the most 'ridunculous' question ever.

Anything you have against a second husband is what I have against a second wife.

luvablesam:

Because it had always been the Norm. Trace your family history a bit,u would discover that ur grand-uncle or someone had more than just a woman as wife. Honestly.

Am not in support of plenty wives please.

Godmystrength: was it in sync with what you think?

Nah,not what u think. Wait a minute wat do u think?

cococandy: That boat has sailed uncle sam.
So asking me what I have against a second wife is the most 'ridunculous' question ever.

Anything you have against a second husband is what I have against a second wife.

Speak for urself Coco,am sure u ar a very jealous lady!!!LOLzzzz

luvablesam:

Nah,not what u think. Wait a minute wat do u think?

well.... What do you think my conclusion is?