I can't help but have this thought of settling down with the wrong lady, hence the question:

Have you ever thought that you would have been better off with someone else, instead of the person you are married to?


# Would appreciate honest answers.

striktlymi: I can't help but have this thought of settling down with the wrong lady, hence the question:

Have you ever thought that you would have been better off with someone else, instead of the person you are married to?


# Would appreciate honest answers.

No.

My queen remains the best thing to happen to me in this life.

If there is life after death, I pray to meet this pearl of inestimable value.

NO.

The only thoughts that keep coming to my head most time we have issues is ''why is he like this? why is he behaving like this?''
and not ''how i wish i wasn't married to him but someone else''

Yes






Don't ask Mi why

maborukoje: Yes






Don't ask Mi why

WHY?

OP that is majorly the situation after 2-3 years of marriage, that question will always creep into your mind.

Everything still boils down to how you handle it.

Emmm....current status single


future status...single

was born...single

will die....sinngle

Sincerely, yes. When I have issues with my husband but when the mist clears, the guy fit win husband of the decade.

maborukoje: Yes






Don't ask Mi why

Marriage is getting kinda scary.

I sure know I'll never marry any of my 'exes' if given a second chance. As for my baby, I'll marry her again without thinking twice.

Never o!
I nor even wan marry atol atol!
It really does not matter!

No matter who it is. . . . . .MARRIAGE IS WORK!

It is only sweet in OLD AGE! . . . . .AND DURING THE COURTSHIP PHASE!

In between the courtship and the old age phases. . . .HMMMMMMM! Only JEHOVAH NI "INSHI" ALLLAH can save!

Not yet married but scared i might loose it on the way. Fear of getting bored

There are times when one sincerely wish such,but just think of it as no one is perfect. Mind you if you ignorantly transfer to that someone else,bet me someday u will still wish to be wit either the former or another 'someone else' marriage is a work on its own,it requires tender care

Larrysky: Not yet married but scared i might loose it on the way. Fear of getting bored

how?

Juzzybabe: There are times when one sincerely wish such,but just think of it as no one is perfect. Mind you if you ignorantly transfer to that someone else,bet me someday u will still wish to be wit either the former or another 'someone else' marriage is a work on its own,it requires tender care

Food for thought.

No No, my hubby complements me. Five years down the line and I am glad I said Yes to him. He is not perfect though and neither I my but I love the way he loves me.

striktlymi: I can't help but have this thought of settling down with the wrong lady, hence the question:

Have you ever thought that you would have been better off with someone else, instead of the person you are married to?


# Would appreciate honest answers.

Yes,because I didn't take my time to know him better nd it cost me a lot

Hehehehhehehehehehehhehehehe

When things are good, they the best bt if any little thing goes wrong, u start blaming ursef why u married.


I THINK am married sha

Juzzybabe: There are times when one sincerely wish such,but just think of it as no one is perfect. Mind you if you ignorantly transfer to that someone else,bet me someday u will still wish to be wit either the former or another 'someone else' marriage is a work on its own,it requires tender care

You just nailed it. Marriage is a work. That 'someone else' may not still give you all you want if given the opportunity.

ooooooooooooooopwetty dats me for you

egopersonified: Sincerely, yes. When I have issues with my husband but when the mist clears, the guy fit win husband of the decade.

honestly d last issue btw my hubby n i makes me ponder on many things. i was convinced i made a mistake marryn him and regrets sets in. buh wen i brought d iss here and so many people adviced me and i started WORKING on my marriage, its been fun after then. just hope it continues sha.

Honestly yes.been married for 6 yrs wit 2 lovely kids.initially I thanked God everyday dat I married my hubby(we dated from our 200 level in uni).but my once lovin hubby hav changed since he travelled abroad n started makin money(had nothin when I married himy.he kills me emotionally everday wit d hurtful tins he tells me over d phone.as I write dis now,my eyes r swollen from cryin as a result of d hurtful tins he told me yesterday.so at times I wish I had married someone else.but then the big question is would dat someone else'been better?anyway its only a wish cos despite everytin he's been doin 2 me, I still luv him so so much n dat is what pains me most.(My inability to stop lovin a hubby dat is causin me so much emotional pains)

Hmmmmmm.
The word Marriage is scary sha.

...the thought of not being with my wife brings me out in a cold sweat.


TV

^{**oh Lord my God**}

i can feel your pains sweethrt, trust me i no how it feels. one thing i have always told myslf is that my happiness depends on me. i stoped killing myslf with the very thought that makes me unhappy and started concentrating on what makes me happy. life is too short to to be sad, so cheer and work on ur marriage.

saponification: Honestly yes.been married for 6 yrs wit 2 lovely kids.initially I thanked God everyday dat I married my hubby(we dated from our 200 level in uni).but my once lovin hubby hav changed since he travelled abroad n started makin money(had nothin when I married himy.he kills me emotionally everday wit d hurtful tins he tells me over d phone.as I write dis now,my eyes r swollen from cryin as a result of d hurtful tins he told me yesterday.so at times I wish I had married someone else.but then the big question is would dat someone else'been better?anyway its only a wish cos despite everytin he's been doin 2 me, I still luv him so so much n dat is what pains me most.(My inability to stop lovin a hubby dat is causin me so much emotional pains)

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i can feel your pains sweethrt, trust me i no how it feels. one thing i have always told myslf is that my happiness depends on me. i stoped killing myslf with the very thought that makes me unhappy and started concentrating on what makes me happy. life is too short to to be sad, so cheer and work on ur marriage

saponification: e Post

i can feel your pains sweethrt, trust me i no how it feels. one thing i have always told myslf is that my happiness depends on me. i stoped killing myslf with the very thought that makes me unhappy and started concentrating on what makes me happy. life is too short to to be sad, so cheer and work on ur marriage

. Thanks dear.I am just tryin to do dat( stay strong) for d sake of my kids

You guys are scaring me o! Ahan! We wey neva marry make we no marry again? ...... cos honestly some comments are giving me d creeps!

Hell no, i married the only person that I can stay married to.

The op said honest answers please.

Erm...years after I must have crossed the bridge, I'll be able to tell and hopefully my answer to the op won't be in the affirmative. For now, I'm an observer

Zehner: You guys are scaring me o! Ahan! We wey neva marry make we no marry again? ...... cos honestly some comments are giving me d creeps!

If you wish to get married someday, then stop thinking this way of being scared, else you'll never marry. Marriage is never a bed of roses, just pray it wouldn't be full of thorns either, considering human imperfections. Just ask God for a partner whose imperfections and inadequacies you can cope with...Daz alllll

saponification: Honestly yes.been married for 6 yrs wit 2 lovely kids.initially I thanked God everyday dat I married my hubby(we dated from our 200 level in uni).but my once lovin hubby hav changed since he travelled abroad n started makin money(had nothin when I married himy.he kills me emotionally everday wit d hurtful tins he tells me over d phone.as I write dis now,my eyes r swollen from cryin as a result of d hurtful tins he told me yesterday.so at times I wish I had married someone else.but then the big question is would dat someone else'been better?anyway its only a wish cos despite everytin he's been doin 2 me, I still luv him so so much n dat is what pains me most.(My inability to stop lovin a hubby dat is causin me so much emotional pains)

Very touching! The Lord is your strength.

tobechi74: Emmm....current status single


future status...single

was born...single

will die....sinngle

Why?