cococandy: I hope the woman got back her money.
That's my concern

ndidibabe: 42 year old bride? What has she been doing with her life?? WTF!!!!

aisha2:

So many have served God and not gotten good spouses. Being unmarried is not a curse or punishment from God.



Thank you. Healthy debate is lost, people forget that other have a right to their views and only through constructive debate would they see things a little from your own view

slap1: And don't forget I started with MAYBE. Just plain deductive reasoning.

ndidibabe: 42 year old bride? What has she been doing with her life?? WTF!!!!

bosun11:



madam tracey......dairis God oooo....do the needful

aisha2:

Unfortunately this has gone to the front page where kids can come in and start cursing.
Please go to the marriage counseling thread let's continue
Mention my name there are kindly repeat the question I will respond fully

Elantracey:

what's the needful

nairalandbabe:

Uzor Emmanuel, a 45-year old married man with three kids played a fast one on a 42-year old lady, Victoria Adeleye at the Ikoyi Marriage Registry Lagos state, Southwest Nigeria.

Emmanuel who had proposed to marry Adeleye at the registry dumped her at the court premises and disappeared with her N4 million. The wedding was subsequently called-off following Emmanuel’s disappearance.

Friends of the couple, who attended the wedding ceremony were left shell-shocked as marriage officials cancelled the wedding.


A source told our correspondent that the relationship between, Adeleye and Emmanuel blossomed after they met at a church in Isolo.

Unknown to Adelye, Emmanuel was married with three kids. He told her that he was still single and needed to marry since he was growing old.

Adeleye who was also eager to get a husband, showed interest and became an intimate friend with Emmanuel.

Shortly after courtship, Emmanuel proposed to marry her and she accepted. He reportedly moved into Adeleye’s flat at Bola Adeyinwa street Aswani, Isolo where they started living together as a couple without the knowledge of their pastor and members of the church.

To cover their tracks before the church, Emmanuel suggested to Adeleye they need to go to court to consummate the relationship legally.

Adeleye agreed and brought out some money with which they used to facilitate the marriage but on the day they were supposed to tie the knot, Emmanuel carried out the last of his plans.

The duo had arrived the registry with close friends but while they were waiting for court officials to commence the ceremony, Emmanuel excused himself and went outside the registry. From there he fled with her money and did not return to the hall.

The suspect was later arrested following a tip off. He then confessed that he had a wife with kids and he was only interested in Adeleye’s money.

He was charged before Isolo Magistrate’s court for obtaining under false pretence and stealing under the Criminal Code.

When he was arraigned, he pleaded not guilty. The presiding Magistrate, Mrs F.M. Kayode granted him bail in the sum of N500,000 with two sureties in like sum.

He is remanded in prison custody at Kirikiri, Lagos pending when he will fulfill his bail condition.

The matter was adjourned till 2 October 2014 for trial.

Police sources said his wife refused to show up to facilitate his bail, saying what he did to the woman was bad.



http://www.pmnewsnigeria.com/2014/09/03/marriage-tragedy-man-dumps-lady-at-ikoyi-registry-steals-her-n4m/
http://xmoentertainment..com/2014/09/groom-dumps-bride-at-registry-escaped.htmlre news

I knew it was too good to be true..


As soon as I saw the Thread of Armed Robbers that pray before robbing people and read the names of the perps, I knew it was only a matter of time before the Mods evened out the playing field with a thread where the perp was from the East.



I guess all is well now on Nairaland.


@ Topic.. Why did she need 4 Million Naira for Court Wedding?! Or where they planning an Owambe style celebration afterwards?!

The Gods are Wise..

Elantracey:


Yea I know , its even in the bible that some are born not to get married but God knows that's not me and for those people it MIGHT be for some reasons you know , God doesn't think the way we do.

Elantracey: I pity the woman



but what was she doing till 42

Elantracey:


Yea I know , its even in the bible that some are born not to get married but God knows that's not me and for those people it MIGHT be for some reasons you know , God doesn't think the way we do.

JuanDeDios:
*carries her up gently and pecks her forehead, smiles and speakes slowly*
Life is not regular. It has no formular. People go through things for no fault of theirs. My dear girl, when you grow up you will understand.

Yossykit: women and this their egotistical nature sha. Who are kids or are you older than all the nairalanders. I have been following your post since, i really like the way you treated issues but this one is pride and self exaltation which is very bad. Not judging anyway, only correcting you.

Godmystrength: I don't agree with this..... So are you saying that any unmarried woman above 35 is under spiritual attack or the architect of her own problem??

Nobody is going to insult you. It is just a healthy discussion unless you decide to take it to the next level......

pcguru1:

Not everything is spiritual, sometimes people have personal reasons not to get married, or sometimes it could do with the economy of a nation and much more unknown reasons. I don't think you're experienced enough to understand why some people don't get married. Sometimes it's just like that I know of a beautiful lady with no spiritual attack still unmarried at 40. The reasons differ it's just that we live in a country where we are brainwashed by religion that everything must be spiritual.

ndidibabe: Story story.... I am a 32 year old mother of two handsome boys. As you lay your bed, so you will lie on it. When most girls should be busy 'shaping' their life by having a good Education , building a career and getting closer to God, thereby making themselves 'marriable' , they were busy jumping from one Boy's room to another cooking, washing clothes and fuc...ng as in the case of idowuigbo and her friends on NL. How dem wan see correct Husband marry?

ndidibabe: Story story.... I am a 32 year old mother of two handsome boys. As you lay your bed, so you will lie on it. When most girls should be busy 'shaping' their life by having a good Education , building a career and getting closer to God, thereby making themselves 'marriable' , they were busy jumping from one Boy's room to another cooking, washing clothes and fuc...ng as in the case of idowuigbo and her friends on NL. How dem wan see correct Husband marry?

Elantracey: I pity the woman



but what was she doing till 42

aisha2:

Congratulations, God keep your home but please be less judgemental of the unmarried.

M4gunners: Let me come in here.To your quastion yes.Any unmarried woman above 35 years of age, contributed to her problems.You can't tell me from her early age of 20 till date no serious Man has come her way.Either She was then selective or busy looking for money no time for serious relationship then.

bosun11:



...i prayed for you somewhere where i mentioned u up...or maybe u don't like prayers?......

aisha2:

Congratulations, God keep your home but please be less judgemental of the unmarried.

ndidibabe: Story story.... I am a 32 year old mother of two handsome boys. As you lay your bed, so you will lie on it. When most girls should be busy 'shaping' their life by having a good Education , building a career and getting closer to God, thereby making themselves 'marriable' , they were busy jumping from one Boy's room to another cooking, washing clothes and fuc...ng as in the case of idowuogbo and her friends on NL. How dem wan see correct Husband marry?

siobahn: Righteous woman, no need to call names. We know you are the 1st cousin of our Lord Jesus Christ so you are without stain.

ndidibabe: Story story.... I am a 32 year old mother of two handsome boys. As you lay your bed, so you will lie on it. When most girls should be busy 'shaping' their life by having a good Education , building a career and getting closer to God, thereby making themselves 'marriable' , they were busy jumping from one Boy's room to another cooking, washing clothes and fuc...ng as in the case of idowuigbo and her friends on NL. How dem wan see correct Husband marry?

SAMBARRY: I'll come back when I am done with this meeting

ndidibabe: Story story.... I am a 32 year old mother of two handsome boys. As you lay your bed, so you will lie on it. When most girls should be busy 'shaping' their life by having a good Education , building a career and getting closer to God, thereby making themselves 'marriable' , they were busy jumping from one Boy's room to another cooking, washing clothes and fuc...ng as in the case of idowuigbo and her friends on NL. How dem wan see correct Husband marry?