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Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by kilokeys(m): 9:09pm On Sep 08, 2014 |
cococandy: Have you written your will? cococandy, married?.. i no fit skip funnycation commit adultery o.. but if he is just a bf.. yinmu.. i am up for d challenge. |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by Ruthia(f): 9:20pm On Sep 08, 2014 |
assana: U r just a clown assana: U r just a clown 1 Like |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by Ruthia(f): 9:23pm On Sep 08, 2014 |
free2ryhme:4 ur mynd 1 Like |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by pablus: 9:23pm On Sep 08, 2014 |
NOT wrong. your age and motivation are factors. the key is to be compatible enough to become a family unit. better if he's in good shape and healthy compared to you. as you get older, age gap becomes less revelant. |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by lat55(f): 9:37pm On Sep 08, 2014 |
I used to think I would only date/be with a guy between 1-5yrs older than me, but as I grew older n dated a few, I realized I would much rather end up with someone 10yrs and above. Although age doesn't determine maturity but more often than not, as a gal, you are more mature than a guy in ur age bracket. As a strong willed woman with a quest for continuous learning, an older man comes with a lot of experience, our conversations will be more intriguing. Since he has lived a while, I can look through his track record and easily trust his leading. Plus, let's face it, there ain't nothing better than good old loving. Older guys are just more sensitive. Just like wine, older is better . 3 Likes |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by Nobody: 9:50pm On Sep 08, 2014 |
It's mainly Nigerians that worry about their kids growing up with them. When I left the shores of Africa my mentality changed for the better. People wondered why my sister inlaw had no child after years of marriage. They asked my mum if all was well, my mum told the few that managed to ask to mind their business. It was strange to me as well, Haba after how many years and they said they were still planning. She was 22 when they got married. When the woman felt like she was ready...she started popping them out like no mans business. It works well for some and doesn't for others. But please don't say you wanno grow up with your child what happens if you cannot conceive for years after marriage? It's the worst reason to get into marriage early. 1 Like |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by coogar: 9:54pm On Sep 08, 2014 |
jennykadry: It's mainly Nigerians that worry about their kids growing up with them. When I left the shores of Africa my mentality changed for the better. People wondered why my sister inlaw had no child after years of marriage. They asked my mum if all was well, my mum told the few that managed to ask to mind their business. It was strange to me as well, Haba after how many years and they said they were still planning. She was 22 when they got married. When the woman felt like she was ready...she started popping them out like no mans business. na bushman mentality dey worry them. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by Nobody: 9:55pm On Sep 08, 2014 |
Nice one, @ OP I would only remind you that after menopause, women get this increase is sexual urge due to reduction in estrogen. When your hubby is already ten years down the line, it could be a struggle to stay satisfied with just him. At least if he was still doing fifties maybe he can manage to perform, but at sixties, I think that's when men see it as something that happens once a month. So it's not just about love, chemistry and energy for sex matter too. |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by Bifwoli: 9:55pm On Sep 08, 2014 |
If you marry a partner who is 10yrs older or more then that is not a soulmate,he is a sponsor 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by Nobody: 11:05pm On Sep 08, 2014 |
Well... I've read some comments here and some opinions are good while others are fallacious. If you ask me, as long as there is UNDERSTANDING, age is not really a barrier, whether the man is older than the wife or vice versa I would however like to correct something ...... Maturity is not a function of age alone but what you are exposed to, and what responsibility you currently carry. In the days of old, women mature quick because they were given responsibility at an earlier age (managing the home) among others, but it isn't exactly so today. What makes a man mature in my opinion is how much he takes charge of his life, the leadership trait he possesses as well as being meaningfully employed. and hardworking. This could be any man of adult age. the 26 year old who takes care of his younger ones financially and provides guidance to them is more mature than a 35 year old living off his father's money via inheritance without any responsibility. P.S. The ladies here opening their craw craw mouth to say that their age mates are immature, most of them's brains are still wearing Pampers, and it is even filled with shit. Abeg make una no vex, as I dey type this post, I dey suffer side effect of my drugs, na why my comments no correlate 1 Like |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by ChildofChukwu(m): 11:46pm On Sep 08, 2014 |
McWhillion: Why not, my wife to be is still in junior secondary school |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by 3RNEST(m): 12:43am On Sep 09, 2014 |
frankly speaking 10yrs too much...."like" if na true i dey talk!!! 1 Like |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by NobleG1(m): 2:28am On Sep 09, 2014 |
Ruthia: Is it wrong for a lady to marry a man 10 years older than her? If yes or no please explain. Ask yourself this; Is age more important to you than having someone who loves you? Whichever answer you have for the above question is solely your choice. Mind you, small age gap doesn't garrantee a good marraige. |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by Legendoscar2: 4:24am On Sep 09, 2014 |
aisha2: Do you love him? You avoided the most probable reason...He has a deep and heavy POCKET!!! |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by EBUBEDIKE1001: 5:04am On Sep 09, 2014 |
What matters is the love not age ,i strongly believe that age has less to play in marriage,it should be pure on love ...... |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by Nobody: 5:54am On Sep 09, 2014 |
“At times our own light goes out and is rekindled by a spark from another person. Each of us has cause to think with deep gratitude of those who have lighted the flame within us.” Albert Schweitzer The person that rekindled my light is 22 years younger than me. I will walk to the end of the earth for her. Find your soulmate, life's too short. |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by free2ryhme: 7:16am On Sep 09, 2014 |
Ruthia: 4 ur mynd |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by SHOCK7(m): 7:25am On Sep 09, 2014 |
cococandy:Hi coco,i noticed in some other thread & I thought we just had 2 get acquainted.i forgot 2 say looking LOVELY. |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by Nobody: 8:04am On Sep 09, 2014 |
lofty900: considering the fact that women age faster than men especially after child birth, its perfectly ok to marry a man 10yrs older unless u wanna look 10yrs older in 10yrs time So true but the love wont the strong sha in ny opinion |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by cococandy(f): 8:14am On Sep 09, 2014 |
Thank you How are you today? SHOCK7: |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by Ruthia(f): 8:19am On Sep 09, 2014 |
I succeeded in getting d responses i needed, nd also made front page as well...... +winks+ i'm elated, 1 Like |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by Ruthia(f): 8:21am On Sep 09, 2014 |
Tnx 2 y'all, both for and against........ Nd tnx 2 d oga @ de top.... Seun 1 Like |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by Nobody: 8:52am On Sep 09, 2014 |
gina134:my dear, the love will be strong depending on the guy. Some old guys still have style and good packaging. But a Naija man will want to dominate the wife |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by cecidore: 10:01am On Sep 09, 2014 |
Bianca married Ojukwu and he was old enough to be her father all because of "love". the choice is yours whatever makes you happy, go for it. |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by modeller(f): 10:09am On Sep 09, 2014 |
Age is jes noba lyk we all know, wat rili matters is love, understanding and respect 4 each other |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by fancylyn: 11:00am On Sep 09, 2014 |
bukatyne: |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by Psoul(m): 11:12am On Sep 09, 2014 |
There is nothing wrong in marrying a man 10yrs older. Am 15yrs older than my wife, We love ourselves so much. I treat her like my Baby, she sees me as his Hero. I kw she will still look very pretty and young when we grow old. i kw I will still appreciate her by then 1 Like |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by SHOCK7(m): 11:42am On Sep 09, 2014 |
cococandy: Thank youWell apart from dis neck pain i'm having,i'm kinda fine.Pls whatz 'ur fb page? |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by ukandi1(m): 1:34pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
bukatyne: i think that u are getting it twisted here. D issue is d age difference between them, not when d first child arrives. D child arriving at whatever age shud not be part of d equation. Celine dion is 29 yrs younger than her husband of many yrs. I am 8yrs older than my wife but she looks much older just after 1. My dad is 13yrs older than my mum but believe me, my dad is still a guyman unlike my mum who now has dis grandma looks( although she is ) when compared with her husband. Plus or minute 15 yrs is still okay. My humble opinion. |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by cococandy(f): 2:09pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Sorry about that.take some pills you'll be fine. SHOCK7: |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by hadizadeezy(f): 2:13pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
I can marry a man dat is 10years olda dan I am and a man dat is 10years younger.. Our level of tinking and understanding differs with dat of men, theirs is lighter and ours is very strong Marryying a man dat is 5 years older might be a prob cos our inventorys might difer which would make me the HEAD of the home(he's automaticaly in soup) |
Re: To Marry A Man 10years Older by BlossomP: 2:17pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Atmmachine: You're 32 & your husband is 42.And what if u were 20 and ur spouse was 22, but to date u do not yet have a child of your own? 1 Like |
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