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Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by iluvweed(m): 5:15am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by Opiosko: 5:30am On Oct 04, 2014 |
chimmy2: This is a question that have been bothering me: why do women want more kids? In almost all the young families I know, when the man wants two or at most three children; his wife wants four or more. There are loads of variation to this scenario but in almost all cases, the wife wants more kids than the husband. And my question is why? Why that desire for a larger family in terms of no of children by the female folks.I think there is a mixed up of issues here though they are interwoven.... Are u saying that women affirmatively want more children?... or that they will add more when the hubby has said we are done?.. In the first case, i don't think it's true....The second issue (i guess it's ur main point) What happens here is usually a failure of contraceptives or family planning. Men are usually ingorant abt this unplanned pregnancies mostly due to their expectation of the woman to master her circle....and then blame the woman in an attempt to absovle themsevles of responsibility for the mistake.......if any man know say him no want pikin again, make him go sterilise himself. This message na from Federal Ministry of Health. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by lordnammy(m): 5:32am On Oct 04, 2014 |
dridowu: I WANT more children |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by Provie(m): 5:42am On Oct 04, 2014 |
The Op is right. The reason is that here in Africa, infertility is largely seen as a woman's problem; and the society sees infertility not just as inability to have any child but also the inability to has more dan one or two. So the woman will want many kids in order to prove her fertility and ward of any backyard insinuations that she is not fertile. My thought though. |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by Provie(m): 5:44am On Oct 04, 2014 |
The Op is right. The reason is that here in Africa, infertility is largely seen as a woman's problem; and the society sees infertility not only as inability to have any child but also the inability to hav more dan just one or two. So the woman will want many kids in order to prove her fertility and ward off any backyard insinuations that she is not fertile. My thought though. |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by boboLIL(m): 5:51am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Nat only women,,, me too,,, ah want like nine cute kids atmost to mai name.....reason: God permiTted us to go in d world and multiply....so if lyF dae, God's favour con dae too,,, kids go dae...... 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by kmoneyman: 5:55am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Yomieluv: Why won't they want more,are they the one taking care of the financial aspect?So on point |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by Ojestas(m): 6:07am On Oct 04, 2014 |
slimpoppa: maybe because they are not the ones footing the bills.I disagree. They even foot more than the bills. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by buJu234: 6:12am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Cos she is not the one bringing the school fees na.... Woman only suffer once I.e 9 months pregnancy but d man suffers for a long time until the child is financially responsible. Little reason women live longer than men 8 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by makzeze: 6:30am On Oct 04, 2014 |
engineerd: Cause their pus5y is forever WET and constantly running like a water fountain.....this is offensive. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by Jeezuzpick(m): 6:32am On Oct 04, 2014 |
I wonder too..... The wife wants one more after two difficult pregnancies that ended in Caesarian Sections.......!!! My mind can't deal with it right now. |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by tiarwale: 6:36am On Oct 04, 2014 |
patrickdarlins: my birthday its today...happy birthday to me!!!emmm op...d matter tire me oo...i confuse self....later i go tell u why....meanwhile....its my birthday...+fp tinx....am so happyHappy Birthday. |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by Nobody: 6:40am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Give birth to kids u can nurture n nt large number u can't afford to take care of. I wonder how people with harsh living conditions fend for their 4 to 5 kids. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by Nobody: 6:44am On Oct 04, 2014 |
The fear of the le mother-in-law is the beginning of wisdom. Unless you want one nkechi brought from the village specifically to help you do your child birthing duties |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by pheesayor(m): 6:51am On Oct 04, 2014 |
All those blaming the man should remember it is the duty of the man to knack and the wives have ways of getting them to do so. It also the duty of both to agree to family planning and the method but this depends on the wife to succeed because once she refuses to do what she's supposed to do and there's intercourse then pregnancy is very possible. OP apologies if I derailed |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by beeevan: 6:52am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Her neighbor has 3, she needs 6 to beat her neighbor's record. I would have loved plenty kids if I could just buy and not birth them . 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by gbaskiboy: 6:56am On Oct 04, 2014 |
slickyb: hehehehe.. I can't even shout concerning dis issue. I luv kids a lot nd I hope to give birth to nothing less dan 6 children by God's grace. future hubby I hope ur listening oh . hahayeah that is a good idea! Hope ur back is wide enough to back them. So funny, hope u are enjoying ur holiday? |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by Emodeee: 7:02am On Oct 04, 2014 |
y r d women wanting on dis thread? |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by NickiRoman: 7:04am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Stop generalizing,Not All Women want more kids. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by timilehing(m): 7:04am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Because taking care of the kids financially is not their responsibility 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by MizTyna(f): 7:05am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Not every woman. I want just 2kids! Finish! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by Fourwinds: 7:07am On Oct 04, 2014 |
well dis question is best for d women. I think women just like kids around them if it means producing children throughout their life time. it is joy to them while we men look at our pockit |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by Nobody: 7:07am On Oct 04, 2014 |
From what I've seen, it's men who tend to want more children. Side comment: Try finding someone who doesn't want kids at all. It's damn near impossible. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by Mintayo(m): 7:09am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Not all women! Again,not all women! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by Nobody: 7:12am On Oct 04, 2014 |
They do cuz they belief the children are stable lovers and they see them as a better option. The more the children they have, the better they think their old age is secure. That's why u'll notice that once a woman starts bearing children, she gradually transfers her love to the children from the husband. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by steffans(m): 7:12am On Oct 04, 2014 |
this is d 2nd time this topic will make FP in less than a month. |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by Nobody: 7:15am On Oct 04, 2014 |
[quote author=buJu234]Cos she is not the one bringing the school fees na.... Woman only suffer once I.e 9 months pregnancy but d man suffers for a long time until the child is financially responsible. Little reason women live longer than men[/quote The man of GOD has spoken. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by WoodcrestMayor(m): 7:15am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Me na 3 I want o! Hw we go do am? MizTyna: Not every woman. I want just 2kids! Finish! |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by liyalla(m): 7:20am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Direct answer... I am a man. I want more kids. |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by Feedmemore(f): 7:22am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Oduduwaboy: Same here. At topic, as for me i only desire 2 kids maximum 3 not more than. |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by ifekemmie(f): 7:25am On Oct 04, 2014 |
I dnt believe this! All i no is spacing of children. Most women dnt space their children much. Rush n rest,lol. As for much children, is not possible with all d pains we pass thru,all i know is after aving d no of children, u may av one unknowingly due to no family planning! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Generally Want More Kids? by 2good(m): 7:26am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Ojestas: I disagree. They even foot more than the bills.m I am very sure by 100% that you are not married otherwise you won't make the above comment. |
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