I spoke to my Nigerian Ex-Boyfriend for the first time in almost a year (we do text each other sometimes) and it seen as if he wants to to give it another chance,  I am not sure if i should because he broke up with me because his friends were hitting on me


For those who haven't got anything positive and worth saying to say it best not to post a comment!!!

the question is, do u want to?

u should only go back if u want to and if u r completely sure and if u hav gotten over what caused u guys to break it off in the first place. . .

going back with doubts and/or bitterness would be pointless

sounds Hot to me.

im not sure if i want to but all i know is that i loved him when he ended it and i still do have strong feelings for him, I DOUBT THAT I WOULD FEEL COMFY AROUND HIS SO CALL "FRIENDS" AFTER WHAT THEY DONE

you know you want to.

an inflated ball does not bounce once except it is prevented from doing so

e no get the thing wey make the friends dey toast you? if de guy sef tell dem say u be better pikin wey im like, dem no go ever toast you.

i am also wondering if the age cap makes sense i recently turned 22 and he is 30-31

@ KarmaMod

No i know him so well, its not all about sex when it comes to him,

if u hav doubts then it wont work

If you are not sure about it or have doubts forget it.

Tope, na your face be this?

I go call you shortly after gym.

JamaicanQT:

@ KarmaMod

No i know him so well,  its not all about sex when it comes to him,  

Things change within a year

who called?

JustGood:

Tope, na your face be this?

I go call you shortly after gym.

lol. . . . na my face
cal me after gym?

Isnt JustGood married with kids?

KarmaMod:

Isnt JustGood married with kids?

I thot so too

He left you the first time because of his friends? What next? You'd get back with him and he'd leave you for his parrot? Be careful o.

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His friend hit on her and he left her go because of "hos before bros", the same "bros" continued to call her after the breakup trying to hook up

Not sure why anyone would return to that

LondonCool:

What is wrong if he is allowed to make that phone call? Why are we being presumptous just because JustGood is presumed to be married?

shouldnt you be where "the money is"?

If you're not careful, you'll soon start replying in Romance. Wouldnt wanna tarnish your money making reputation now, would you?

well we usually text each other to see how everything is going,  no calls though,  I text last night and said "Hey Seun  Se dandaa ni o? hope you're fine" nordia

LMAO @

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What is wrong if he is allowed to make that phone call? Why are we being presumptous just because JustGood is presumed to be married?


shouldnt you be where "the money is"?

Being friends is different from going back to a relationship with him. You say you still have strong feelings for him, fair enough, you are only human. But if you go back to him, he will hurt you again and you will hate yourself.

JamaicanQT:

well we usually text each other to see how everything is going,  no calls though,  I text last night and said "Hey Seun  Se dandaa ni o? hope you're fine" lisa

I could be wrong but if he were serious, those texts would haev turned to calls by now

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Good for you

@Poster
Whatever you decide to do pls be careful

LondonCool:
Anyway, I've got lots of positive contribution and idea's to make here so I can't really tarnish my reputation here.

I'll be the judge of that!

what up with LondonCool? Has he got some money making issues MONEY MONEY MONEY that's all he be thinking bout ooo

If you go back into it. Go into it with your eyes WIDE open. And you two need to have a serious discussion, none of this texting mess and work to keep the communication clear because that is the main thing that bleeps up relationships.

Yeah, but don't give in so easily.  Make him sweat a bit.  You have to show him that you will not be taken for granted.  You also have to show him that you have other options.  If you give in right away, he will think that you've been waiting all year for him to return.  He is not worried about you talking to his goofy friends.  But he would be more alert if he knows that you have real prospects and decent guys who want to date you.

Never give a guy the impression that you've been waiting for him, even if you stayed home all year crying over the lost of him, remain focused on your life. He really should be begging you back and going crazy at the thought of losing you.  If he's not at that point yet, then take things slow and meet other men.

Yeah, I agree with the poster above.  Stop texting.  Anyone can hide behind a text message.

Shouldn't this be in romance section?

Do whats in your heart and head.

How old is he?

32 or so