You are in your late 20s and early 30s and almost
all your friends are married; including that ugly,
short and fat Jane! Yet you think you are a good
wife material, but you are still single and getting
really worried. Well, MAYBE guys are not looking
your way because you are guilty of a number of
these offenses:
1. YOU ARE TOO HAUGHTY. Typically, you will
quickly size up a guy and bring him down with
intimidating looks and sarcastic responses. Well, I
suggest you marry yourself.
2. YOU ARE LOOKING FOR MR. PERFECT. You
want a rich, well-built, neat, romantic,
hardworking, honest, God-fearing, faithful, dark,
tall and handsome gentleman from a good
background who has a good job, drive a good car
and loves you unconditionally. I’m afraid that
perfect guy you read about in a romantic novel
doesn't exist. Wake up gurl. You’ll never find a
perfect guy – anywhere. Just like you, everyone
else is imperfect. Accept that fact or marry the
guy in your novel.
3. YOU SMELL DESPERATE. Men have a special
ability to smell desperation in a woman. Men find
that odor very offensive and avoid it like a plague.
You need a man so badly. Unfortunately for you,
the more desperate you are, the less attractive
men find you.
4. YOU PAY TOO LITTLE ATTENTION TO YOUR
APPEARANCE. You don’t want to look like a bitch.
So you always dress down, doesn't wear make
ups and are unkempt. You are just pathetic. Even
stunningly looking ladies are still in the husband-
haunting market; and you really think a guy will
leave all the attractive women and come for you
because he’s “good guy”? Haven’t you been told
that men are visually stimulated?
5. YOU PAY TOO MUCH ATTENTION TO YOUR
APPEARANCE. The fact that men are visually
stimulated doesn't mean they are unreasonable.
Some men may make awkward choice of a sex
partner, but when it comes to a life partner, men
are painstakingly selective. If not, you’d be
married by now. Every man dreams of marrying a
decent lady, not some bitch who won’t mind
going naked on the street to get cheap attention.
6. YOU ARE SEXUALLY INSENSITIVE. Each time he
talks about sex, you act as if he has just
committed a crime, because you are a virgin or
you don’t want to appear promiscuous. Normal
men like sex. I'm not saying you should sleep
around or engage in premarital sex, but don't act
as if sex is not important. When you do, that’s
when men say things like “there’s no chemistry”,
“I don’t feel her” or “we don’t connect”. In other
words, your insensitivity to his libido repels him.
7. YOU ARE TOO BORING. If you could choose
between two guys with equal qualities in all
ramifications except that one is boring and
another is interesting, which of them will you
rather pick? The interesting one of course! So why
do you think if he has to make a similar choice,
he’ll prefer the boring you to an interesting lady?
You excuse yourself by saying “I’m the quiet
type”. Being an introvert is different from being
boring. No man looks forward to a boring home.
8. YOU NAG. This is by far one of the most
annoying behaviors a lady can exhibit. All in the
bid to get him do what she wants, when she
wants it and how she wants it, women typically
become nags to achieve their ends. This is rather
selfish and insensitive. No matter what you hope
to achieve, nagging will drive men far away from
you.
9. YOU ARE INSECURE. It is normal for women to
need constant reassurance. What is not cool
however is for them is to make their guys’ lives
impossible because of deep-rooted lack of self-
confidence. Insecurity is an awful but common
issue amongst many women. No matter what the
guy does, it hits their weak point. If he looks
there, he’s checking out another girl. If he’s busy
with work, he doesn't love you. If forgets an
important date, he doesn't care. If a lady calls
him, he’s cheating. That way, you will drive every
man in your life away, and quickly.
10. YOU ARE TOO STUBBORN. Being principled is
an admirable thing, but being unreasonably
unbending is unattractive. All in the name of being
principled, you go around with a lousy air of
sauciness and you want a million guys to come
asking you out? Your very long list of do’s and
don’ts a BIG minus. You are unbendable,
unreachable and unteachable and you actually
pride yourself about it. Well, I got news for you;
you are going to be single for a long time.
Dear ladies, we are not fighting you. Truth just has
to be told. Be smart and learn.
Modified: you can add yours

hmm, fp b4 i say my mind

I'm coming

Nairaland

Okay

Gals take note

this space is occupied

u be GOD?

true talk.

But another sweet truth is that, women are just too many. Most of the married ones were randomly selected from the "plenty"...

You are on point Op... expecially about the Nagging one.

Canme4u:
You are on point Op... expecially about the Nagging one.

noted chief

sommyblaze:

noted chief

for ur craw craw mind

Very true. Many ladies need to read this. It would atleast save a lot of pastors the stress of counselling the numerous numbers of husband-seeking ladies that have flooded churches.
I recommend front page, mods

lupey:
Very true. Many ladies need to read this. It would atleast save a lot of pastors the stress of counselling the numerous numbers of husband-seeking ladies that have flooded churches.
I recommend front page, mods

I pray the mods do what is needful.