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How Do You Forgive Someone Who Caused You So Much Pain by floxynigeria: 7:29am On Oct 28, 2014 |
How do you forgive someone who caused you so much pain in the past? Someone who was supposed to be there for you but was not there when you needed them the most. This person is close to me but try as I may I am not at all comfortable around this person. Sometimes I don't even feel like speaking to this person. Born and bred-up in a family of 13 b d last of all. Life has not b friendly, struggle here n dia just to survive even y in d university. To crown it all, 2 years ago i lost my parents, at dis time it looks like d whole world was on of me. I manage to over come the pain of my parents death. While in 3rd year in d university, i made up my mind not to call dem asking dem 4 money or anything. "I maintained my words" They (sisters/brothers) are not bothered if am in existence, if i have b able to secure a job, if am leaving under d bridge. To be honest I am finding it so hard to act lovingly or to call them. Please good nairalanders I need advice on how to truly forgive and forget about what this they did to me in the past. I want to let the past be history but I am finding it difficult. |
Re: How Do You Forgive Someone Who Caused You So Much Pain by Nobody: 7:33am On Oct 28, 2014 |
Have u read ur bible lately? |
Re: How Do You Forgive Someone Who Caused You So Much Pain by braintext(m): 7:39am On Oct 28, 2014 |
[size=38pt]REPENT!!![/size] |
Re: How Do You Forgive Someone Who Caused You So Much Pain by Nobody: 7:47am On Oct 28, 2014 |
ohh sweetie I feel ur pain, I really do so sorry.. are u a christian? if not.. accept Jesus into ur heart and start going to any nearby church.. God will help u hun and u have to forgive them even tho they left u... I know its hard, but u have to. I pray they come back to their senses. sorry abt ur parents.it will all be alright dear if u are living in abuja, there is a group called brekete family, they help people who are in bad condition.. maybe u shud see them. that's if ur in abj. I will pray for u God will help u and everything will be alright |
Re: How Do You Forgive Someone Who Caused You So Much Pain by Nobody: 8:48am On Oct 28, 2014 |
Please try to forgive them, you don't know what they have been passing through as well, life is full of challenges, take this as the challenge you have faced in life. |
Re: How Do You Forgive Someone Who Caused You So Much Pain by sule5727: 9:48pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
It is easy to forgive but is not easy to forget so pleasssssssssse.... try to forgive and forget ? |
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