Cutehector4u:
But ur topic reads a lonely girl...how sure are we dat ur not a ritualist

Cutehector4u:
But ur topic reads a lonely girl...how sure are we dat ur not a ritualist

Cutehector4u:
But ur topic reads a lonely girl...how sure are we dat ur not a ritualist

joywendy:
Wisest no make me laugh with this your post.

people are going to take this wrongly.

i wish you the best of luck

many people don't believe in such term here 'platonic'


be ready for the bashing that's going to come out from this thread.

TheWisest:
I swear, some guys find it painful to be "just friends" with ladies. I understand though.

TheWisest:

Thanks Joy... My heart's clean on this one. Expecting calls instead. What's wrong with risk?

joywendy:


yeah seriously.

something must always be involved.

if you have a male friend that u are close too. someone will automatically think you guys are dating or one person actually has feelings and just leaving in denial.

djeezy:
Preying on a shattered and lonely girl

TheWisest:


Called "The Friendzone". I always tell guys to state what they want from the beginning so as not to feel victimized. A guy and a girl can be friends. It s just easier for some than others.

TheWisest:


Called "The Friendzone". I always tell guys to state what they want from the beginning so as not to feel victimized. A guy and a girl can be friends. It s just easier for some than others.

joywendy:


it doesn't work oh.

some guys will say they just want to be friends in the long run start saying things like they have feelings and want to date even after saying it from the beginning that u don't want such. later they will open mouth and say friend zoning. smh.

so my dear it is better to be alone than follow those kinda peeps. but just a few guys like yourself and others that are the exception.

different things for different folks though.

myopinion

TheWisest:


See Joy, I know what you're talking about and I have a philosophy: NO MATTER WHAT goes wrong in a f/ship or rl/ship, THE GUY CAUSED IT. You girls have no blame. I dont even believe in the friendzone thing sef. I fell in it once in my rookie days, then I found out it was MY fault. A guy is supposed to say how he wants things to go. If he wants f/ship, he directs it there. If he wants sth else, it s in his hands. Ladies ARE NOT GUILTY. Point!

Mizchief:
what's the fuss about?
Why can't men and women be just friends ?
Though attraction is not a choice, acting on it is a choice

Most of my close friends are male and I really don't get the sense they are hanging around for sex
They are more like brothers


I'm all for the honest-to-goodness, totally platonic cross-gender friendship

joywendy:


Thank you!!

it just doesn't work that way in real life situations.

we are a few out of many who thinks in this direction.

Mizchief:

I don't get
What doesn't work that way in real life situations,Cross-sex friendship?

TheWisest:
Dear Mizchef and Joy, abeg let's try to educate my homeboys more, anywhere u can. In the Guycode community, I ll be lynched but the guy-girl f/ships to me have been the sweetests more than any romantic flings I've had. In the name of being a guy, guys form a lot. Many of them are secretly looking for just a friend, someone they can confide in rather than just sleep with. But this thing called ego ehn... Anyways, guys lets just stop forming. And Joywendy, didn't know women also get friendzoned too! Might explain one or two incidents in my life.

joywendy:


yes

it works but in very few situations due to the mentality of most people around here.

TheWisest:
I swear, some guys find it painful to be "just friends" with ladies. I understand though.

jomile:
hmmmm.....sounds weird

05984901JE:
Any one up for chat realy need a friend....