Well i mean no disrespect to parents but its high time things are done in a more modernised way,parents should learn to stop arguing and fighting in front of their children cos it sure has a negative influence on them.And they should also try and teach their children about sex at their early stages in life.I have a lot to say but i want the house to join me on this

as i have 4 kids and value there opinion i will give you the same carry on

hmmm, not when i have mine.

You made a very good point.
I hope you do not forget it when you have children

Naslala:

Well i mean no disrespect to parents but its high time things are done in a more modernised way,parents should learn to stop arguing and fighting in front of their children because it sure has a negative influence on them.And they should also try and teach their children about sex at their early stages in life.I have a lot to say but i want the house to join me on this

What is Modern about not arguing in front of kids? You must mean the reverse because argument in front of kids came with what you call modernisation.

The sex education thing . . . Carry go. . . but not practical o!

I agree with your point it is really damaging to kids to see parents rip each other apart verbally and physically. Like Kajad said it also came with what we call modernisation how true that is.

Sex at an early age, yes, i personally will but it won't be as advised by government, i will be careful not to also advocate or encourage teenage sex. I have my reasons and lets hope the work i put in from the moment i pop them out to the time they hit puberty pays off and they are smart and well rounded


I don't beleive in a written system on child rearing, i think parents should use their initiative and wisedom(if they have any) in child rearing. In the UK where government passes laws continuosly on how you should rear kids, and we now suffering from it, kids running amok and turning wild. In a way the old fashioned ways aint too bad, just need a lil tweaking here and there.

Well you have a point, but sex education is not actually something with parents in Nigeria, some parents might never really talk sex with their kids until they grown and they expect them know about it for marriage and so on.
where do they expect them to learn it.

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