lekkie073:
If I slap u, ur destiny go reset...

Richiy:
That is not the problem. The problem is that you married someone you don't know anything about.

She comes from a good home, she is very humble (how did you know), she is a virgin, she is very traditional and she is beautiful. So, let us marry her.

You married her and now she has seen the "light" and wants to explore.

All am saying is that most of them abroad marry for all the wrong reasons.

Btw, Op that post is too long.

tit:


ibrahim marry four wives.
he was using divide and conquer with them
you never marry one wife finish,
you dey compare yoursef with ibrahim.

Aigbofa:


You are right. But some are successful still.

Tolexander:
ya, it's a live or die part of life.

tit:


yes, i read it.
and i am divulging a secret secret to you men.

all women know this. that is why when you first marry us, we do anything you say.

you stop cooking, you stop sweeping, you even stop going to the market.
we pick small quarrel with you and you start coming in the midnight hour.
before you know it, you are a stranger in your own house.
and we are in control.

if you doubt me, tell you wife that you will cook this evening.
notice how she will react.
that means you want to be incharge again.

lekkie073:
who be Ibrahim
abeg na Abraham me set talk o..
not Ibrahim

lekkie073:
who be Ibrahim
abeg na Abraham me set talk o..
not Ibrahim

Lordlexyy:
I agree with you. Greed and lust most atimes are responsible for this. If marriage is an institution, idealy the foundation demand a solid work or support. But rushing down just to 'pick' any available woman on the advise and scouting of your family will always boomerang. The age difference many times is scary. And to think their are more mature and responsible African or Nigerian women there who appreciate the value of marriage is a cause for concern. Overall, the western law on marriage and divorce is harsh enough to push men over perpetual bachelorhood.

tit:


is the same person:

moses = musa
abraham = ibrahim
peter = bitrus
john = yaya
jesus = isah
david = dauda the sexy guy
solomon = suleiman



adam = adamu

Richiy:


Spot on bro. Nobody takes time to know anybody. That style might have worked in our parents generation but it is not advisable with the vanity of today's world.
So, stop coming back home to pick the current village belle and then start ranting how she z not who you think she is, when you don't even know her in the first instance.

Richiy:


Spot on bro. Nobody takes time to know anybody. That style might have worked in our parents generation but it is not advisable with the vanity of today's world.
So, stop coming back home to pick the current village belle and then start ranting how she z not who you think she is, when you don't even know her in the first instance.

tit:
all these men are losers.
as a man you are supposed to cook, clean, pay rent and take care of your house-hold.
you are supposed to bath and dress-up your children by yourself.
your wife is only a helper, a servant.
if you leave your wife to do all those things, and tomorrow she does coup and takes over the house,
you start crying.
DO NOT LEAVE YOUR HOUSE FOR THE HELPER/THE SERVANT.
DO NOT BE LAZY AND DO HOUSE WORK.

Aigbofa:


What if Simon have a lot of debt? She's going to inherit some of it too.
I've heard of cases where the woman thought she was going to get a house only to get a huge mortgage she couldn't pay.

Lordlexyy:
They rush down to marry women that they can lord over against love. Where love is absence there's bound to be chaos. It's a marriage of interest and covenient where the woman is trained to support the man's life style at her expense.

tit:
all these men are losers.
as a man you are supposed to cook, clean, pay rent and take care of your house-hold.
you are supposed to bath and dress-up your children by yourself.
your wife is only a helper, a servant.

if you leave your wife to do all those things, and tomorrow she does
coup and takes over the house,
you start crying.
DO NOT LEAVE YOUR HOUSE FOR THE HELPER/THE SERVANT.
DO NOT BE LAZY AND DO HOUSE WORK.

tit:
all these men are losers.
as a man you are supposed to cook, clean, pay rent and take care of your house-hold.
you are supposed to bath and dress-up your children by yourself.
your wife is only a helper, a servant.
if you leave your wife to do all those things, and tomorrow she does coup and takes over the house,
you start crying.
DO NOT LEAVE YOUR HOUSE FOR THE HELPER/THE SERVANT.
DO NOT BE LAZY AND DO HOUSE WORK.

bigFOOTcaveMAN:
In the mountains we maintain harem of females who serve us with food and sex when we return from game hunt. Females who dont meet this obligation are clubbed mercilessly and relegated to slaves. I dont know where you wall dwellers learnt how to be so soft to the extent of arguing with mere baby-borners

tit:


did your holy book say you should leave your house to your servant?

"Yes I have killed the woman that messed up my life; the woman that has destroyed me. I am at Shalom West. My name is David and I am all yours.” Those were David Ochola’s words during his 911 (U.S. Emergency Number) call to authorities after shooting dead his 28 years old wife, Priscilla Ochola, in Hennepin, Minnesota. The 50-years old husband was tired of being “disrespected” by his wife, a Registered Nurse (RN) whom he had brought from Nigeria and sponsored through nursing school only to have her make much more than him in salary - a situation which led to Mrs. Ochola “coming and going as she chose without regard for her husband.” The couple had two children – four years old boy and a three years old girl. . . . . .
www.saharareporters.com/2014/01/22/epidemic-nigerian-men-killing-their-nurse-wives-us-abiodun-ladepo

atlwireles:
The day Nigeria men learn to treat their wives like they want their mothers and sisters treated, our homes will have less problems.

ISpiksDaTroof:
Wow, I can't believe I'm agreeing with this demon...

Nigerian men are mostly very chauvinistic and egotistical. They need to learn how to treat women like jewels. Nigerian women also need to learn how to stop acting like men. Both parties are usually very aggressive and rarely have "soft" sides to them.

tit:
all these men are losers.
as a man you are supposed to cook, clean, pay rent and take care of your house-hold.
you are supposed to bath and dress-up your children by yourself.
your wife is only a helper, a servant.
if you leave your wife to do all those things, and tomorrow she does coup and takes over the house,
you start crying.
DO NOT LEAVE YOUR HOUSE FOR THE HELPER/THE SERVANT.
DO NOT BE LAZY AND DO HOUSE WORK.

SirShymex:


Are you implying that naij women are transvestites with little willies?

Eziachi:
I cannot recall how many marital problems involving Nigerians in the U.K that I knew that failed from those that went home, both male and female to marry someone they barely knew back home, only for both to realise that they have made a huge mistake.
My advice to the young generation is always to marry someone you knew a bit and who knew you a bit too and as you embark on a journey of life time discovering each other. As after 40+ years of marriage my wife still surprises me.lol
I left home after the war to arrive in England after my 20th birthday, and prior, I never had a girlfriend, never kissed girls, talk less of sleeping with anyone for the first time.

So I knew nobody of the opposite sex intimately back home enough to come home and marry, hence my mother insistence that I come home and get a wife sounded foreign to me then.
And I was right to defy my mother and marry a young, intelligent and very loving white Scottish girl I met through a friend.
And 40+ years lady, she is still my wife and the only woman I have ever kissed and slept with. A mother and grandmother of my beloved children and grandchildren.
A good wife or a good husband is not about where they come from, it’s about marrying your best friend, who will jump into the ocean for you because he/she loved you. In conclusion, most Nigeria women abuse the law set out to protect women against abusive men, use it to destroy their own life and that of their husband, thinking that it’s liberation, only to realise years later what a fool they’ve been and Nigerian men that think that a wife means a servant and dare not treat their wife as they will treat themselves and end up messing their marriage up.

the right to own and control her salary,