I saw this on facebook and decided to share it here cos it may be of benefit to our ladies in the house.

A MOTHER’S NOTE TO HER DAUGHTER


Dear Janet,
Your father and I are proud
at the woman you are
becoming. Watching you
every day from when you
were a toddler to this age
has been one of my greatest
moments. Now that you are
of age, I found it very
pertinent to leave you with
this note. Read it always and
let it guide you always.
1. Understand what it
means to be a woman
because you are going to be
a woman all your life.
2. If you must show off,
show off what you have in
your head not what you
have on your chest or what
you have at the back.
3. Be accessible to men but
hard to sleep with.
4. Study hard, work hard;
pay your bills through the
works of your hand not by
works of your waist
5. Love yourself
unconditionally.
6. Love fellow women too.
Do not pull a woman down.
7. You are not better than
anyone, and no one is better
than you.
8. it’s not the quantity of
friends that matter. It’s the
quality. Choose wisely
9. Don’t gossip. Except with
me. I love it when it’s with
me.
10. Take responsibility for
your actions and apologize
when you’re in the wrong.
11. If he makes you cry
anything but happy tears,
he’s not worth it.
12. Don’t sleep around with
men. It is not worth it.
13. Don’t let a day go by
without listening to good
music. Not music that abuse
your womanhood.
14. If you’re not married to
him, don’t have sex with
him.
15. I hear rules are meant to
be broken. I do not agree
with that. Rules are rules.
Don’t break them.
Remember this when your
friends suggest otherwise.
16. If you’re not
comfortable talking about it,
you shouldn’t be doing it.
16. Make out time to learn
how to cook other dishes
beyond the ones you learnt
here. If you can, go to a
catering school. This is very
key. The experience will be
useful in the future.
17. Learn how to say “NO”.
Make sure your NO doesn’t
sound like “YES” or “Stop it,
I like it.”
18. Read lots of books.
19. When people talk to you,
LISTEN to them.
20. You don’t need a
boyfriend to be complete
21. Never, ever bite your
nails.
22.Do not take sex lightly.
Never do casual sex, it is not
worth it.
23. When in doubt, ask
questions. Don’t assume.
24. Never be intimidated by
other people’s achievement.
Don’t get jealous either.
Work hard for your own.
25. Smell nice always. I
mean Always
26.Take pictures, take
plenty of them. Be proud
you are a woman.
Your loving mother,
Christy
Your comments will be appreciated.

@lagosconvo
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Convo.

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Hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Lol at "never bite your nails".......
Nice sha

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BreezyRita:
Lol at "never bite your nails".......
Nice sha

once had it as a habit.

Stephxoblessed:

once had it as a habit.

I still do!

Always use Onga to Cook your stew

BreezyRita:

I still do!

BreezyRita:

I still do!

shocked

Steph.. Your mother and I stayed up all night to make this up for you.
And you just exposed it to the world!!
We are not happy.

DesChyko:
Steph.. Your mother and I stayed up all night to make this up for you.
And you just exposed it to the world!!
We are not happy.

lols,Am so sorry dad but i guess there is more love in sharing.Nigeria ladies needs it as much as i do.

AgapeCharis:
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Spacebookers association

Stephxoblessed:

Spacebookers association

Incase

Howdy

AgapeCharis:

Incase

Howdy

just dey

Stephxoblessed:

just dey

awight...will b back to ur post soon

Stephxoblessed:

lols,Am so sorry dad but i guess there is more love in sharing.Nigeria ladies needs it as much as i do.

Lol.. You got me

Hmmmmmm

How more can a mother advice a daughter? Love u mum!!! Waiting for the letter dad wld write.

Articul8:
How more can a mother advice a daughter? Love u mum!!! Waiting for the letter dad wld write.

Am looking out for a thread with that title from you.