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Am I Alone In This? by Impulse80(m): 8:53am On Nov 08, 2014
Okay I really don't know how to go about saying this but I've got to say it anyway. The thing is i easily get bored with girls, no girl can hold my attention no matter how hard she or i myself try.
It never bothered me before but I'm now a final year student and i haven't had a relationship that appealed to my mind. Kind of makes me wonder how my life after school would be.
So guys and girls does anyone feel like how i feel? just this year alone I've tried starting something with up to 5 girls but each time it's the same old story. my attention just drifts away and I stop calling for no reason!

Ps I'm not Gay or anything before some gays will come and start typing rubbish, i do have friends with Benefits. So are there people like me out there?
Re: Am I Alone In This? by iceberylin(m): 9:04am On Nov 08, 2014
This one is strong shocked
Re: Am I Alone In This? by Nobody: 9:12am On Nov 08, 2014
bro, go to MFM for deliverance

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Re: Am I Alone In This? by Nobody: 9:20am On Nov 08, 2014
Impulse80:
Okay I really don't know how to go about saying this but I've got to say it anyway. The thing is i easily get bored with girls, no girl can hold my attention no matter how hard she or i myself try.
It never bothered me before but I'm now a final year student and i haven't had a relationship that appealed to my mind. Kind of makes me wonder how my life after school would be.
So guys and girls does anyone feel like how i feel? just this year alone I've tried starting something with up to 5 girls but each time it's the same old story. my attention just drifts away and I stop calling for no reason!

Ps I'm not Gay or anything before some gays will come and start typing rubbish, i do have friends with Benefits. So are there people like me out there?
mate wat u need is a babymama
Re: Am I Alone In This? by sheunfemix: 9:25am On Nov 08, 2014
There is no need for deliverance jare. I felt this way too while I was dating. @ a point in every relationship, the guys just bore me out. Like seriously, I begin to find dem annoying and irritating. Even hugs made my skin crawl till I'll drop d bombshell. "I'm no more interested"

Well all dat happened till I met a guy and I felt if he leaves me I'ld die. Then I tout twas cos he was my first(if u knw what I mean). So when we separated for some reasons, we found out we cudnt do without each oda. So now we are married and I love him die cheesy.

Things changed for me cos he had what odas dint have. Dreams, hardworking, intelligent and so manly!! He takes the bull by the horn. Firm and above all God fearing. OP when u find d woman dat has d qualities u truly want I believe you'll want to stay with her for ever smiley
Re: Am I Alone In This? by swtchicgurl: 9:26am On Nov 08, 2014
sholexy21:
bro, go to MFM for deliverance

fine boy

@OP, desist from fornication, maintain life's focus, be free and find love.
Re: Am I Alone In This? by Oahray: 9:50am On Nov 08, 2014
Op, I think you haven't figured out what you want from that special girl yet. You are still a bit impulsive, moved primarily by outward stuff like looks. When you get closer, you realise you want something more, but you aren't even sure what it is. The fact that it is recurring means that the problem lies with you, in your expectations.

Start by defining your expectations, and observe carefully before going in for the kill. Even vessels containing trash can be beautiful from afar.
Re: Am I Alone In This? by philantoxx(m): 9:53am On Nov 08, 2014
bro derz nufin to worry about
especially wen your priorities are straight
who says having a gf before u grag is a core
Re: Am I Alone In This? by Impulse80(m): 10:13am On Nov 08, 2014
b1327:
mate wat u need is a babymama
Baby mama kwa?
philantoxx:
bro derz nufin to worry about
especially wen your priorities are straight
who says having a gf before u grag is a core
i know just that if i can't keep a relationship for a month then how am i going to get married and stay married?
Re: Am I Alone In This? by Impulse80(m): 10:28am On Nov 08, 2014
Oahray:
Op, I think you haven't figured out what you want from that special girl yet. You are still a bit impulsive, moved primarily by outward stuff like looks. When you get closer, you realise you want something more, but you aren't even sure what it is. The fact that it is recurring means that the problem lies with you, in your expectations.

Start by defining your expectations, and observe carefully before going in for the kill. Even vessels containing trash can be beautiful from afar.
Thanks man I think you are right to an extent. My heart keeps looking for something but i haven't quite figured out what it is, But then I'm not really attracted to just beauty.
Being an introvert i don't always go out of my way to chase girls around.
Re: Am I Alone In This? by Impulse80(m): 10:39am On Nov 08, 2014
sheunfemix:
There is no need for deliverance jare. I felt this way too while I was dating. @ a point in every relationship, the guys just bore me out. Like seriously, I begin to find dem annoying and irritating. Even hugs made my skin crawl till I'll drop d bombshell. "I'm no more interested"

Well all dat happened till I met a guy and I felt if he leaves me I'ld die. Then I tout twas cos he was my first(if u knw what I mean). So when we separated for some reasons, we found out we cudnt do without each oda. So now we are married and I love him die cheesy.

Things changed for me cos he had what odas dint have. Dreams, hardworking, intelligent and so manly!! He takes the bull by the horn. Firm and above all God fearing. OP when u find d woman dat has d qualities u truly want I believe you'll want to stay with her for ever smiley
Thanks ma'am
Re: Am I Alone In This? by Princecalm(m): 10:42am On Nov 08, 2014
You are still roaming in infatuation @ op
Re: Am I Alone In This? by Nobody: 10:52am On Nov 08, 2014
Impulse80:
Baby mama kwa? i know just that if i can't keep a relationship for a month then how am i going to get married and stay married?
yes mate
Re: Am I Alone In This? by Nobody: 11:03am On Nov 08, 2014
When the time is ripe you will surely undergo a radical change or metamorphosis emotionally, sexually and otherwise. For now focus on what's important and your academics.
Re: Am I Alone In This? by philantoxx(m): 11:08am On Nov 08, 2014
Impulse80:
Baby mama kwa? i know just that if i can't keep a relationship for a month then how am i going to get married and stay married?
wen u meet your soul mate(with emphasis)things will fall through smoothly.
your instinct will direct u,no rocket science will.

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