I Dare Not!!!!!!!!!
I can scream the house down tho.

:d :d

Are those smileys or 'cryleys'?

Now I see it's mixture of both smiley and cryley.

only u

If he puts his hand on me (hit, or slap) first than best believe that he will be seeing stars. I am nobody's punching bag so if he hits me first than yes i will slap the shit out of him and break his balls while at it.

she best not

lai lai

May God Forbid it in my marriage.

Hmm, I wont attempt it at all unless I'm ready to walk away from the marriage. Slapping ur husband will only lead to domestic violence assuming the two don't get a divorce. When there's a later arguement in the marriage the man will probably respond with his fists rather than words.

Mai Suya:

in the western world[b] I believe [/b] it quite normal for a woman to slap her husband, and the funny thing is that he usually will not retaliate. In fact he would be considered a weakling should he do so - he is expected to 'take as a man'. The Africa woman on the other hand is unlikely to do such an act because apart from the religio-cultural deterrents, and judging from the response so far, the husband will almost certainly retaliate. . .

You believe incorrectly.

SLAP ke!

I fit slap ma papa be dat o

I can't try it

Most ladies are not violent

of cos not
never
God forbid
Infact Abomination

do me i do you god no go vex

moses say if someone slaps u turn around and slap them back and thats exactly what i will do if it comes to that .

and yes i will slap him if it comes to the occasion

sistawoman:


You believe incorrectly.

Is that so? then you have to excuse my shortsighted conclusion, which was based mainly on what I see on your numerous soaps (bold and beatuiful, young and restless, etc), in which a female hits the male (whether boyfriend or husband) and the latter makes no attempt to retaliates but rather gapes idiotically at her. But then again, arn't them soaps supposed be reflective of the society?

Mai Suya:

Is that so? then you have to excuse my shortsighted conclusion, which was based mainly on what I see on your numerous soaps (bold and beatuiful, young and restless, etc), in which a female hits the male (whether boyfriend or husband) and the latter makes no attempt to retaliates but rather gapes idiotically at her. But then again, arn't them soaps supposed be reflective of the society?

Lets see what would I believe about Nigerians if i believed everything I saw on TV:

Uneducated
Slutty women
No shoes
Egotistical, chauvinistic men
Women with no critical thinking ability
Hungry/starving children and women (never see starving men)
AIDS infested men and women
Women who are afraid of their shadow



Thank God not all of us believe everything we see on TV. Thank God that I actually did some research on my own and know that most of the above is false.

I dont even watch any soaps here in America. There are other channels you can watch like CNN, MSNBC, A&E, Discovery, etc.

sistawoman:

Lets see what would I believe about Nigerians if i believed everything I saw on TV:

Uneducated
Slutty women
No shoes
Egotistical, chauvinistic men
Women with no critical thinking ability
Hungry/starving children and women (never see starving men)
AIDS infested men and women
Women who are afraid of their shadow



Thank God not all of us believe everything we see on TV. Thank God that I actually did some research on my own and know that most of the above is false.

I don't even watch any soaps here in America. There are other channels you can watch like CNN, MSNBC, A&E, Discovery, etc.

It not acceptable.

Even if u do it and tell people about it, majority will fault you. . . . . even if your husband was d wrong one. Its not just right.

sistawoman:

Lets see what would I believe about Nigerians if i believed everything I saw on TV:

Uneducated
Slutty women
No shoes
Egotistical, chauvinistic men
Women with no critical thinking ability
Hungry/starving children and women (never see starving men)
AIDS infested men and women
Women who are afraid of their shadow



Thank God not all of us believe everything we see on TV.  Thank God that I actually did some research on my own and know that most of the above is false.

I don't even watch any soaps here in America.  There are other channels you can watch like CNN, MSNBC, A&E, Discovery, etc.

DAAAAAAAAAAAAMMMMN!!!!!!!!!  some pretty unflattering stereotypes IMHO!!. egotistical, chauvinistic MEEEE??

Sure glad you 'did some research on your own'. PHEW

Nonetheless I get your point.

Why should i give him an excuse to beat me up, i can never do that. Moreover am not a physical nor agressive person.

Not when she sees how thick, long and fat my palms are,  She must be ready to join michael Jackson in plastic world of fashion club

honeric01:

Not when she sees how thick, long and fat my palms are, She must be ready to join michael Jackson in plastic world of fashion club

uhmmmm! words of a wife beater! God bless you brother!!!

Wumine:

uhmmmm! words of a wife beater! God bless you brother!!!

Me? Wife beater? where u see the wife? i never even marry talk less of beating wifey, my papa no teach me like that, i am only warning any "soon to be wife" to always check how thick their partner's palm is before they try such a thing,

i dare not think of doing that

@sistawoman

ur point is?
that slapping a man may lead to nothing?

It all boils down to one's upbringing, communication and self-respect.

If during courtship both parties are made to understand that no matter what the provocation may be, slapping each other is a definite No-No, then there would be less chance of that happening.

Respecting one's elders and spouse is part of our African upbring which is ingrained in most of us from childhood - so slapping your hubby is viewed as a taboo.

I personally would NOT do it to my husband as I respect myself too much and would therefore not expect that to be done to me,

However like most things in life, there are people who would deviate from the norm and in which case, it would be advisable for the "would-be-husband-slapper" to:

1. First size up the physic of her man
2. Ensure that there is a clear route for escape (i.e either the front or back door)

biolabee:

@sistawoman

ur point is?
that slapping a man may lead to nothing?

Do you mean me? or someone else?

this is what i said regarding this:

only if i am ready for him to slap me back or leave.

I would never disrespect him no matter the situation because menwell their slaps hurt more.

if it is something that he deserves being slapped for then i will just tell my Dad as he sees my Dad as his own since his has passed on

sista perfectly understood

i trust my wife!!!