wow , this is interesting and there's definately gonna be a lot of lessons to learn.



finally a fresh story i could follow.



weldone standd

GOOD MORNING STANDD.

Nice one Strandd; easy to read; kudos

Wow...this story is beautiful,it really Touched my soul....more grease to ur elbow standd

Honoured the invite

you're doing great, you're telling a story and we can understand and relate with it.

Weldone

Nice story! Fine writer.

Wow! Nice and touching story.........
I know you won't disappoint.... Keep it up Standd

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BreezyRita:
Wow! Nice and touching story.........
I know you won't disappoint.... Keep it up Standd

Thanks dearie

Pukka36:
Nice story! Fine writer.

Tanchu

princesa:
Honoured the invite
you're doing great, you're telling a story and we can understand and relate with it.
Weldone

Yaaaay! Thanks fiery princess

Vickthoriah:
Wow...this story is beautiful,it really Touched my soul....more grease to ur elbow standd

Nagode

Bantino:
Nice one Strandd; easy to read; kudos

@strandd Dalu

Xsenga:
GOOD MORNING STANDD.

Xsenga dearie... Awayu

Thanks to everyone for following.
Elantracey, Semitunde, xcapizt, destinozil, Jennimma, FrancisTony.

Thanks to y'all that believe in me.
I will try not to disappoint

standd:
Thanks to everyone for following.
Elantra.cey, Sam.itunde, xcapizt, destination.nozil, Jennifer.mma, France.ncisTony.

Thanks to y'all that believe in me.
I will try not to disappoint

Standd you REALLY have talent and I can't wait to see where that takes you, I'm guessing into the clouds.

speechless


thats how you make me feel

..........I am saddened anytime I read this story. but the truth is I can't resist the novel. Standd,you are a genius!!...........

Hmmmmm...standd! i stand for you.
The poem thingy? i like it. Kudos

Tell me this story isn't a real life one ...... Please!

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*snifs and shake head in a pitiful manner


Ella what you did to your is nah good buh i pray That pastor heals you. Standd you try.
Want to know how it ends.

Hmmm,Life!

I haven't even finished the story and I'm close to shedding tears.
Never mind. It's been a while I did that and it's kinda therapeutic for me.
God bless you standd.

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*teary eyes* I wish this story is fiction. I feel for Ella

She was just a teenager...

I've heard some pretty crazy, first hand, real life stories myself and I catch myself wondering if what I heard is the basic truth or exaggerated.

This world is a sick, fvcked up place.

Sometimes beauty is a curse.

The fact dat dis story is non-fiction makes it heart breaking...
I dnt blame Ella at all...The circumstances she found herself in were to much 4 her to comprehend nd therefore made it impossible 4 her to handle...
Evry1 in her life is to blame (Her mom most especially,, nd d agbaya uncle who took advantage of her innocence.... He sure knew he ws harming her )...
I just hope she gets cured of whatever disease she myt b suffering frm....


standd,,u did well wt d story,, vry plain nd interesting... No much twist, yet captivating... I cldnt stop till i got to ur vry last update... Waiting 4 ur nxt update

morning standd , howdy
Wow !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I woke up this morning to check my Nairaland account , I stumbled on this post , and I made sure I read every post on this thread #sobs#
A first I taught it was one friction , what so ever only 4 me to realise it ain't . I like your courage for sharing this ....
Hope you don't mind my questions
Here they are
1. Ella what sort of illness could that be that would make such a lovely sweet girl to stink like that ?
2. How did you guys really meet cause am confused ?
3. Why a pastor when there are specialised gynaecolgist world wide ?
4. When she knew that ,what she was doing with her uncle was bad , why didn't she tell her supposed dad then and there ?

Mmmmm this really bad , so when you do look @ people don't look @ them that they are really ok cause really they have problems



Prayer ==>
Father lord all the females in my life now and I future may they not see such occurrence in JESUS name




Amen AMEN AMEN AMENOOOOOOOOOOO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


This sad

The only person to blame is the mother. Definitely not her and definitely not the father.

She was quite young to know what was happening to her and its not like she had anyone else to turn to. I'm pretty sure her mum was in on the molest by the so called uncle. There's more story that meets the eyes from her angle trust me. Deep rooted history, debts or promises...

The father leaving them shouldn't be such an issue, its life, shiit happens and I've seen people who made it regardless.

If there's any justice in this world, then the mother deserved to be hanged!

The mother is the one to blame for leaving her daughter in the hands of that so-called 'uncle' John. I really feel for Ella and cant even begin to imagine the pain she's gone thru. @Standd, thanks alot for this story and i really hope all works well for ella

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stuff46:
*snifs and shake head in a pitiful manner


Ella what you did to your is nah good buh i pray That pastor heals you. Standd you try.
Want to know how it ends.

Thanks. Will finish the story today. Hoping I don't give in to sleep sha.

Plaitex:
The mother is the one to blame for leaving her daughter in the hands of that so-called 'uncle' John. I really feel for Ella and cant even begin to imagine the pain she's gone thru. @Standd, thanks alot for this story and i really hope all works well for ella

Thanks for reading. But I don't think Ella's mother should take all the blame

princesa:
The only person to blame is the mother. Definitely not her and definitely not the father.
She was quite young to know what was happening to her and its not like she had anyone else to turn to. I'm pretty sure her mum was in on the molest by the so called uncle. There's more story that meets the eyes from her angle trust me. Deep rooted history, debts or promises...
The father leaving them shouldn't be such an issue, its life, shiit happens and I've seen people who made it regardless.
If there's any justice in this world, then the mother deserved to be hanged!

Hmmmmn. I actually blamed Ella when she told me the story though.

stuff46:
*snifs and shake head in a pitiful manner


Ella what you did to your is nah good buh i pray That pastor heals you. Standd you try.
Want to know how it ends.

Thanks. Will finish the story today. Hoping I don't give in to sleep sha.

Plaitex:
The mother is the one to blame for leaving her daughter in the hands of that so-called 'uncle' John. I really feel for Ella and cant even begin to imagine the pain she's gone thru. @Standd, thanks alot for this story and i really hope all works well for ella

Thanks for reading. But I don't think Ella's mother should take all the blame

princesa:
The only person to blame is the mother. Definitely not her and definitely not the father.
She was quite young to know what was happening to her and its not like she had anyone else to turn to. I'm pretty sure her mum was in on the molest by the so called uncle. There's more story that meets the eyes from her angle trust me. Deep rooted history, debts or promises...
The father leaving them shouldn't be such an issue, its life, shiit happens and I've seen people who made it regardless.
If there's any justice in this world, then the mother deserved to be hanged!

Hmmmmn. I actually blamed Ella when she told me the story though.

Hanasbay:
morning standd , howdy
Wow !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I woke up this morning to check my Nairaland account , I stumbled on this post , and I made sure I read every post on this thread #sobs#
A first I taught it was one friction , what so ever only 4 me to realise it ain't . I like your courage for sharing this ....
Hope you don't mind my questions
Here they are
1. Ella what sort of illness could that be that would make such a lovely sweet girl to stink like that ?
2. How did you guys really meet cause am confused ?
3. Why a pastor when there are specialised gynaecolgist world wide ?
4. When she knew that ,what she was doing with her uncle was bad , why didn't she tell her supposed dad then and there ?
Mmmmm this really bad , so when you do look @ people don't look @ them that they are really ok cause really they have problems
Prayer ==>
Father lord all the females in my life now and I future may they not see such occurrence in JESUS name
Amen AMEN AMEN AMENOOOOOOOOOOO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This sad

I think my previous posts should answer you questions.
But I really don't know why Ella opted to see the pastor but I know that she confided in an older cousin who promised to take her to the powerful MOG.

My final post will clear the doubts too.

Omavik:
The fact dat dis story is non-fiction makes it heart breaking...
I dnt blame Ella at all...The circumstances she found herself in were to much 4 her to comprehend nd therefore made it impossible 4 her to handle...
Evry1 in her life is to blame (Her mom most especially,, nd d agbaya uncle who took advantage of her innocence.... He sure knew he ws harming her )...
I just hope she gets cured of whatever disease she myt b suffering frm....
standd,,u did well wt d story,, vry plain nd interesting... No much twist, yet captivating... I cldnt stop till i got to ur vry last update... Waiting 4 ur nxt update

Thank you for following

xcapizt:

She was just a teenager...
I've heard some pretty crazy, first hand, real life stories myself and I catch myself wondering if what I heard is the basic truth or exaggerated.
This world is a sick, fvcked up place.
Sometimes beauty is a curse.

Yeah. The world is a fuvked up place. That much I know.
Thanks for following
I saw your the mentions and I promise to start a new diary as soon as I give birth to a bouncing baby gal

At the age she was violated she was too young to effectively protect herself from it and it's clear that she was confused about the whole ordeal, especially since Uncle John was a fine blend of the devil and the guardian angel. I blame the failure mostly on the mother because it seem to me that she wasn't completely ignorant of what Ella was passing through in the hands of Uncle John, she just feigned obliviousness.

Yeah, Ella grew older and would have come to herself and make restitution but, Standd, she was addicted to a lot of things, sex was only one of them. If you have any idea what addiction is you'll know that it's not something that one can't easily just wake up and break cold turkey one faithful morning. One needs rehabilitation. Support. Accountability. And most importantly, LOVE.

But who was there to help? Nobody. Her mother didn't quite make the effort to have a relationship with her in the first place, she never really played her role as a mother to her. The fulani boy played his part as a lover pretty well, in fact he was too good to be true sef... but I can't give him any blame for leaving to further, he had his own life to live.

Let's keep talking. I pray you get the strength to complete the story today so that all of us on this thread can really discuss well.

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