SHE is the daughter of a pastor whose church kicks against marriage with pregnancy. Her wedding is in a month's time and the invitations for the church wedding are out and have been circulated.
Now the doctor confirmed her to be one month pregnant. she wants the pregnancy terminated so that she can do the church wedding but her husband-to-be kicked against her intention. he insisted that he can not kill his baby because of wedding and that he will not show up for the wedding if the woman aborts the pregnancy. the woman also insists that she also will not do a church wedding with pregnancy. both of them have not reached an agreement despite the fact the wedding arrangement is still going on. their is confusion. please, advise on what you think they should do.

why d hell would she want to do sumthin so stupid?!!

she should go and see people getting married with 7 month pregnancy, white dress and all!

if d wedding really is a month a way and she isnt more than a few wks pregnant, she can go ahead with it, no one would notice unless she tells

Kai!!

If she felt so strongly about not getting married when pregnant then why did she do the do? or is it immaculate conception?


Is church wedding more important than a human life?

Christians of nowadays ,

I think she is either a religious fanatic or she is a hypocrite.

When she knows her church frowns at getting pregnant be4 marriage then she should hv zip up, she shld not abort it ooo

if she knows she doesnt want to be pregnant and wed, why da hell did she den open her legs? gosh, ppl cant use their common sense. she beta go and get married, besides, one month pregnancy wont be showing,

How silly. Who is going to prove that she did not just have an early delivery. There are simple ways to handle this without being so drastic. How does she know that she will be able to conceive again. People just like to play with thier destiny. I have to agree with the man in this case. She is not using wisdom.

one month? She would hardly have a bump talkless of showing.

what a retarded decsion

AMAKAONE:

Kai!!

If she felt so strongly about not getting married when pregnant then why did she do the do? or is it immaculate conception?


Is church wedding more important than a human life?

Christians of nowadays ,

Christians of nowadays or Christ users of nowadays. have mercy dear Lord

Team Husband!!

I agree with his decision!!

if she is that religious then she wouldnt have slept with her fiance before marriage
the pregnancy is only in the early stage and it wont even show during her wedding unless she tells people,its better to keep the baby and abortion is not allowed religiously ,she is not a true christian for requesting an abortion.

Angolobabe:

if she is that religious then she wouldnt have slept with her fiance before marriage
the pregnancy is only in the early stage and it wont even show during her wedding unless she tells people,its better to keep the baby and abortion is not allowed religiously ,she is not a true christian for requesting an abortion.

thank you Angolababe, i think she may just be trying to cover a possible shame for her dad and maybe herself if people find out that the daughter of a pastor wants to wed with pregnancy.

She should carry the pregnancy to term then and marry after she gives birth

Imagine, sinning against God to please the church elders. Who is being worshiped here? Jeez.

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If she was so religious she wouldn't have opened her legs in the first place. Nonsense. That man has every right to give her that ultimatum. And indeed he shouldn't marry her if she goes against his wishes. That's outright asinine. Another thing, how does she know this might be the only baby she will ever have?! Some people are so hypocritical.

the guy is right . why would she abort the pregnancy? The pregnancy is just a month old, the foetus(nt even a baby yet) would not show its fist through the tummy, let alone the whole body . My dear bride- to- be, remember every lady is hoping for what you want to loss (wedding) . So, save your marriage, ur life & ur baby. I wonder which sin is greater, getting pregnant or aborting, as a pastor's daughter?

Two wrongs dont make a right.

Tell her not to abort.

I fully agree with the man, he should not turn up if the pregnancy is going to be terminated, abomination.

If they cannot both agree, then go and get married in a registry. Its has happened and nothing can be done about it, if she terminates she may be never get pregnant again.


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Obviously,the lady doesn't know anything about the bible.

If they cannot agree, then maybe they should rethink getting married.

Truly, a fish can marry a bird but the problem is: where will they build their house? is it on the tree or in the water? this is a case of no compromise.

she is just a hypocrite ! haba, she wants to appear good infront of people abi ? hissssssss
for her to even suggest aborting the baby,if i was her husband to be, i would think twice going ahead with the marriage at all.

Angolobabe:

if she is that religious then she wouldnt have slept with her fiance before marriage
the pregnancy is only in the early stage and it wont even show during her wedding unless she tells people,its better to keep the baby and abortion is not allowed religiously ,she is not a true christian for requesting an abortion.

na wetin i be wen talk ooo, his kind of christian wen dey hid do the thing,, god don catch her, abeg make she no kill that baby oooo, becos god go vex more.

Jesus said if any of you have not commit the same sin like dat of this woman the person should be the first to stone her and nobody.

Not that that i encourage her pregnancy before marriage but is church wedding is the license to happy home or kingdom of God

Now she is 4weeks pregnant and because she wanna play holier than thou infront of the church memeber so that they will hail her, she wanna commit murderer,

Why do you think God punish David for his sin? is not because of the aldultry he commited really but because he murdered the husband.

i love the husband dicision, abort the pregnancy and no wedding. since she dont think about the shame wen she open here leg she should not think about it now cuz God dont forgive murderer

Leave the curch member with the calculation of the month of your pregancy when you give birth that is their problem after all there is nobody that didnot have a skeleton in his cupboard even the so call Men of God. that is why the bible say all have sin and comeshort of the glory of God. What i think the couple should do is to seek for forgiveness not abortion

Well she can abort all she wants. But I hope she understands, God don't like ugly. Also, she will not be getting married. What a shame. She is getting married anyway, keep that baby. What is wrong with these women. But I couldn't have said it better than the above poster.

Let them cancel the wedding after delivery they can do the wedding. I am not in support of aborting the baby or else another one will not come. As for the man he is real man.

Abii ooooooooo. why did she open her legs in the first place?

someone who thinks of doing an abortion just so she could do a church wedding is obviously NOT ready yet ti become a parent and wife, so let her go ahead and have the abortion.

Shes got a lot of growing up to do. Abortion and church wedding in the same sentance. Ha, whatever, sad.

I say "NO SHE CANT"