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RomanceRe: Do Ladies Love Men Who Beat Them? by 2016Deity(op): 2:56pm On Jan 05, 2016
Sept20:
No but we love a man who has the ability of scolding us when we do something wrong
Well, the scolding go soon turn to slap, then "GBOOOOOOOSSSSSSSAAAAAAAA"
RomanceRe: Do Ladies Love Men Who Beat Them? by 2016Deity(op): 2:54pm On Jan 05, 2016
Ayoemrys:
yes they do
Why?
RomanceRe: Do Ladies Love Men Who Beat Them? by 2016Deity(op): 2:53pm On Jan 05, 2016
StefanSalvatore:
It's crazy but dat women 4 u, dey r a very complicated set of creature

D guys dat would pound n kill dem r d ones dat dey would run to
huh tongue
RomanceRe: Do Ladies Love Men Who Beat Them? by 2016Deity(op): 2:52pm On Jan 05, 2016
superstarDikk:
There is never a place for violence in a relationship....But bro some women like pushing their husbands or boyfriends to the point of physical abuse....I once swore that I will never hit a woman (n so far I've not) but after witnessing what an uncle of mine faces in d hands of his wife, I'm thinking twice about my promise....
Well, make a pledge to always whoop their greasy asses
Nairaland GeneralRe: Complete List Of Nairaland Super Moderators. by 2016Deity(op): 2:49pm On Jan 05, 2016
ibroauthen:
Proof
huh huh
RomanceRe: Do Ladies Love Men Who Beat Them? by 2016Deity(op): 2:43pm On Jan 05, 2016
braivheart:
Yet they'll continue in the relationship

Why is that? If I may ask.
Same question I ask
RomanceRe: Do Ladies Love Men Who Beat Them? by 2016Deity(op): 2:41pm On Jan 05, 2016
midassultan:
Some do but i am totally against it.
Women can be weird sometimes, why remain with someone who beats the hell out of you?
RomanceRe: Do Ladies Love Men Who Beat Them? by 2016Deity(op): 2:37pm On Jan 05, 2016
YourMain:
No. They don't. It's disgusting. The poor girl is probably terrified. The only way she'd love him more is if he's made her feel so low about herself that she honestly thinks she needs him in her life.
I wish you can understand.
They've been dating for 6yrs. Even if he use jazz hold am, the jazz for don expire na huh
RomanceDo Ladies Love Men Who Beat Them? by 2016Deity(op): 2:31pm On Jan 05, 2016
Before reading and commenting, I'll like to tell you all that I'm strongly against beating women


A have this friend who have been in a relationship with a girl for close to six years, they live together and he might probably marry her but there's a problem, he beats her up at the slightest provocation.

If I'm to estimate, I'll say he beats her at least once in 2weeks, but the amazing thing is the girl seem to love him more after the beatings and its weird.

I've tried to talk to my guy about beating his gf but he said that if he doesn't beat her, she wouldn't be loyal and that the beating doesn't in any way strain the relationship and that they make love after beating her.

I've also heard people saying that ladies love men who beat them, the question here is, DO LADIES LOVE MEN WHO BEAT THEM?
RomanceRe: Question Of The Day by 2016Deity: 2:13pm On Jan 05, 2016
alwelldinho:
Ladies, if your man beats you
up like this in public, what will
you do? Guys, is this the right
way to treat your woman in
public?
Be honest ooh!!!!
He's flogging her and not beating her.
That's the right thing to do when she misbehaves, and besides they tend to love guys who whoop their asses
Nairaland GeneralRe: Complete List Of Nairaland Super Moderators. by 2016Deity(op): 8:39pm On Jan 04, 2016
ibroauthen:
I lie huh huh huh
Maybe
Nairaland GeneralRe: Complete List Of Nairaland Super Moderators. by 2016Deity(op): 5:56pm On Jan 04, 2016
ibroauthen:
Lol... is one of them
huh
Nairaland GeneralRe: Complete List Of Nairaland Super Moderators. by 2016Deity(op): 2:37pm On Jan 04, 2016
Monalisa185:
were you asked in a job interview?
I just wanna know
Nairaland GeneralComplete List Of Nairaland Super Moderators. by 2016Deity(op): 2:18pm On Jan 04, 2016
I've been a member of this forum for some time and the only super moderator I know is Lalasticlala, is he/she the only one or are there others?

Pls help, the info might be useful someday.
Nairaland GeneralRe: See What Someone Tweeted About Governor Rochas Okorocha. by 2016Deity(op): 3:31pm On Jan 01, 2016
KingEli:
That's a bad wish bro......Instead of praying for Rochas' dead why not pray for him to repent of whatever sin you think he is committing as governor....Nobody holy pass
Na dem sabi.
Maybe na Buhari sef go die
Nairaland GeneralSee What Someone Tweeted About Governor Rochas Okorocha. by 2016Deity(op): 3:03pm On Jan 01, 2016
I was on twitter when I spotted this tweet.

But how can someone wish another person death on the first day of the year?

Nawa o


https://twitter.com/TRENDS_NG/status/682922413118631936

Lalasticlala come and see o

RomanceRe: She Doesn't Want Me To Hit It Again, What Do I Do? by 2016Deity(op): 12:45pm On Jan 01, 2016
@Lalasticlala pls help
RomanceRe: She Doesn't Want Me To Hit It Again, What Do I Do? by 2016Deity(op): 12:11pm On Jan 01, 2016
KingEli:
Oga relax....na babe she be....Tell her u were having the same thing in mind......when next she comes to ur house,,treat her like ur sister...don't make any sexual move towards her.......infact if she is on d bed,,go sit on d floor....If she comes to d floor,, go sit on the couch...When Mr Konjinus hold am,,,na she go call u tell u say 'baby, I've changed my mind let's have sex'......
Thanks for the funny comment tho but this isn't funny at all
RomanceRe: She Doesn't Want Me To Hit It Again, What Do I Do? by 2016Deity(op): 12:10pm On Jan 01, 2016
sammade:
Na new year resolution, I hope she can keep it till the end of the year
huh huh huh
RomanceRe: She Doesn't Want Me To Hit It Again, What Do I Do? by 2016Deity(op): 12:09pm On Jan 01, 2016
PushMusic:
She wants to stop because you're not doing something right Bro!
What is it that I've not been doing right for over 8 months?
RomanceRe: She Doesn't Want Me To Hit It Again, What Do I Do? by 2016Deity(op): 12:09pm On Jan 01, 2016
seggzz:
Maybe she is tired your sex style. How many styles do you use on her? Do you always romance her?

My second thought, she must have seen a better option
We spend time on pre-intimacy and she loves it, I'm confused
RomanceRe: She Doesn't Want Me To Hit It Again, What Do I Do? by 2016Deity(op): 12:08pm On Jan 01, 2016
biz2get:
May be She found a better player with an amazing inch wink wink wink angry grin
I hope not. Pls
RomanceRe: She Doesn't Want Me To Hit It Again, What Do I Do? by 2016Deity(op): 12:07pm On Jan 01, 2016
Estharfabian:
LoL!grin

You had better start learning howtah masturbate!grin
the cookie's Locked till 2017!!grin

That's out of the question, I can't masturbate
RomanceRe: She Doesn't Want Me To Hit It Again, What Do I Do? by 2016Deity(op): 11:57am On Jan 01, 2016
Estharfabian:
And why must everything revolve around SEX??undecided

huh huh huh
RomanceRe: She Doesn't Want Me To Hit It Again, What Do I Do? by 2016Deity(op): 11:56am On Jan 01, 2016
cruzita:
op give her space too and very soon in timaya's voice *she go concur*
You think its gonna work like that?
RomanceRe: She Doesn't Want Me To Hit It Again, What Do I Do? by 2016Deity(op): 11:55am On Jan 01, 2016
EroticAngelina:
u welcome.
smiley
RomanceRe: She Doesn't Want Me To Hit It Again, What Do I Do? by 2016Deity(op): 11:55am On Jan 01, 2016
Decker:
Most times when I read cases like this, I am quite surprised because when I was in a relationship, my girlfriend and I talked about anything. She was open when communicating with me and vice versa. If she wanted to make a decision concerning our relationship, she would tell me why.

I brought this up because I don't see the reason why someone will be in a relationship with someone and the both of them would not be able to communicate effectively. One doesn't just wake up and make a decision without giving concrete and reasonable reasons for making that decision.

OP, have you asked her reason for deciding to not want to have sex anymore? She owes you the right to tell you why she chose to make that decision.

How can you get her to change her mind when she hasn't even told you the reason? My advice is that you sit her down and ask her why she doesn't want to have sex with you, when she tells you her reason then you can act accordingly.
Thanks for your reply, first of all, I didn't say it was a no sex relationship, rather I said it wasn't a no sex relationship and again we talked about everything but she travelled and called me to tell me that, I asked her why but she said she just wants to stop, we'll talk about it well when she comes back but I just need advice just in case someone here have experienced such.

Thanks again
RomanceRe: She Doesn't Want Me To Hit It Again, What Do I Do? by 2016Deity(op): 11:48am On Jan 01, 2016
EroticAngelina:
3 times a week?!?! no wonder she got tired.

my advice, sit her down and get her to tell u why she really stopped.
Buh if u really love her like u claim, u gots to adjust to the new 'no-more-pussyyy-for-u' lifestyle smiley
She travelled but will be back soon, I'll try and ask her when she comes back. Thanks
RomanceShe Doesn't Want Me To Hit It Again, What Do I Do? by 2016Deity(op): 11:40am On Jan 01, 2016
Hello Nairalanders,I'm wishing you all a happy and prosperous new year.


I'm writing this piece because I'm confused and need your help.

There's this girl that I've been dating for the past 8 months, I love her so much and our relationship isn't a "no-sex" relationship which means that we have sex approximately 3 times per week.

On the new year eve, she called me and told me that she doesn't wanna have sex again, I asked for the reason for the decision but she said she just wants to stop having sex and I said ok.

Ever since she said that, I've been confused and don't know what to do.

I love her so much and I'm not impotent which means I like sex as well so I need your advice.


What should I do?
How can I get her to change her mind?
Do you think she wants "out" of the relationship?


Please help a brother.

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