Serenity22:
if he channels all the romance and energy he spends on the other girl on his wife don't you think he wouldn't have to go out in the end?

But he is quarreling with his wife remember? Both of them 'aren't talking' and no one want to admit he/she is at fault. He has to channel that romance energy somewhere and since wifey isn't receptive at that time...

And yes, like you said if he was irresponsible in dating, he will be irresponsible in marriage even if his wife is an angel. That is why I say the runsgirl or his wife has never been his problem and will never be, its him

Yes this holds if he was already previously a womanizer.

5minsmadness:

But he is quarreling with his wife remember? Both of them 'aren't talking' and no one want to admit he/she is at fault. He has to channel that romance energy somewhere and since wifey isn't receptive at that time...

ok, so because he is quarelling with his wife he is justified to commit adultery? and you still say I should blame the run's girl when he willingly agreed to be led like a sheep to the slaughter

Serenity22:
ok, so because he is quarelling with his wife he is justified to commit adultery? and you still say I should blame the run's girl when he willingly agreed to be led like a sheep to the slaughter

I didn't say he is justified to do anything anywhere. I am saying that he does not carry the blame alone. If you are a married couple and there are lapses in your relationship you don't leave it to fester and boil, you sint ignore the man for too long, you sort it out immediately. Even if the husband forms romance for his wife at that time some women will still ignore the man in a bid to show stubbornness. If they make it a habit they shouldn't be surprised if the man strays.

otukpo:
A well brought up girl from a decent home would not date a married man.

Lies.

obowunmi:


Lies.

Even you?