silvoice:
At what stage do you think a man should take full financial responsibility of his fiancee?

The man should be responsible when the girl starts "pleasuring " him.

What goes around comes around!
Father stops supporting girl.
In a few years the parents will be old.
When they come begging support from girl and husband that is the time to remember.

tobechi74:
Yes

zubby29:
a wise man will support his daughter even wen dey are not under d same roof again,yes she may not bear d same surname as u are,bt dat dosnt stop her from being ur daugther,notin can change dat

worry359:


The man should be responsible when the girl starts "pleasuring " him.

What goes around comes around!
Father stops supporting girl.
In a few years the parents will be old.
When they come begging support from girl and husband that is the time to remember.

SAMBARRY:
if you as a man you are alive, Hale and hearty. Your thinking faculties are complete and you're not an ! Mbec! Le and under your nose your wife mother is giving her daughter money you should be ashamed of yourself because you have given her ACESS AND THE FULL RIGHT TO DISRESPECT YOU, TALK TO YOU ANYHOW AND MEDDLE IN YOUR BUSINESS. in fact they will soon tell you they are having family party and they need you to come and wash plate.the day you say but I am a man na.that is when you have stepped on the cobras tail . All the insults you have never heard you will hear it.sotey your wife's younger sister will throw plate at you if you are not careful to wash it clean bottom line they will turn you to family house boy.

zubby29:
oga i dnt understand u,i will take good care of my children male/female weather or not dey are livin wit me or not

silvoice:
At all, u don't seem to undastand dis post. They are about to get married. Do u think is right 4 d parents to jus withdraw their surport, simply becos a man want's to marry her?

SAMBARRY:
then tell her to finish school or education. Get every thing she has to get from her father till she's able to stand on her feet if she's able to do that then she can marry

Sophyrocks:
The answer is No. Its not right. As long as your daughter isnt married yet, engagements break everyday, weddings can be called off, she is still under your roof therefore you are still responsible over her. It somewhat portrays the daughter in bad light, like some sort of burden on her fiance. After the wedding, the responsibility lies on her husband.

silvoice:
At all, u don't seem to undastand dis post. They are about to get married. Do u think is right 4 d parents to jus withdraw their surport, simply becos a man want's to marry her?

silvoice:
question stil not answered why are we avoiding the real question. Let me rephrase: yes or no. Is it right for parent's to stop financing their daughter because she's getting married?

silvoice:
u got d gist. Very useful comment

silvoice:
At all, u don't seem to undastand dis post. They are about to get married. Do u think is right 4 d parents to jus withdraw their surport, simply becos a man want's to marry her?

lertee:

A parents should never be tired of sponsoring a daughter even in marriage as long as they are capable

Unless they want to punish her for rushing into marriage without completing her education,then the parents will be like "since you are ready to get married then go meet the man deceiving you,he will continue from where we stopped"

silvoice:
At what stage do you think a man should take full financial responsibility of his fiancee? A scenario is playing out somewhere where his marriage to this lady has been fixed and both family is preparing for the occasion. the problem is that her father has stoped financing her academics to the extend that she's considering droping out of school. Do u think is just for d fiancee to take full responsibility now, though he's yet to complete the marriage process or jus surport his girl until she become his wife? That's why, i ask : Is it right for parent's to stop financing their daughter because she's getting married?

EfemenaXY:


Let her finish schooling, get a job, and save up!

Gosh what's the rush? Especially when the key player(s) is/aren't ready?

Nigerians and their never-ending sense of entitlement!

silvoice:
good advice at a wrong time. Jus asking simple question, not advice. okay?

cintia:
Once a girl is getting married , the fiancee should take love her responsibilities or he leaves the girl to finish her studies and make her decision afterwards. It's a very simple matter and the guy shouldn't complain

EfemenaXY:


Let her finish schooling, get a job, and save up!

Gosh what's the rush? Especially when the key player(s) is/aren't ready?

Nigerians and their never-ending sense of entitlement!

silvoice:
so is right 4 u to abandon ur daughter simply because a man want's to marry her. If she eventually drop from school do u think she wil be happi wit u in future?

Again, right or wrong: op don't need advice, he's asking simple question.