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A Child Not A Bride by Daniceasarb(m): 9:50pm On Dec 04, 2014
A CHILD NOT A BRIDE

I lost my childhood, my dignity, my pride
all on d altar of marriage,
I was now a wife, a woman
so I was told.
'He is ur lord' said my mother
'Respect him & his needs' said my father
With pomp & pageantry, I was taken,
to my new home, a place of uncertainty.

How I wish 2 once again play unhindered,
but dat was not 2 be,
I was now a wife , a woman
so I was told.
Stayed indoors, waiting for my husband,
to take his marital rights, but how can I take all of him?
Cry I did, plead I dis, but no one cared.

At school my heart was, to learn I yearned,
A doctor I dreamed 2 be,a lawyer I dreamed 2 be,
But here I was but a child bride.
How I longed 2 be a free woman,
How I longed 2 live my dreams,
How I wished to be educated,
But I was now a Wife, a woman
so I was told.

With every push, tears fill my eyes,
with every thrust, pain fill my heart,
with every touch, I loathe him more
But I was now a Wife, a woman,
So I yielded 2 his every desires.
With every yielding of mine,
Went shattered dreams of mine,
Leaving in it wake, a sore & painful future.

Who will tell him dat a child I was, not a bride.
Who will rescue me frm dis nightmare?
Who will free me frm dis bondage ?
I am a CHILD, REAR me not MARRY me.

Dedicated 2 Wasila Tasi'u, Nigeria's 14 year old child bride facing death penalty & 2 other innumerable child brides.

Dani B(Dark Poet)

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Re: A Child Not A Bride by ammyluv2002(f): 9:51pm On Dec 04, 2014
Awww....I'm touched
Re: A Child Not A Bride by Daniceasarb(m): 9:52pm On Dec 04, 2014
Mods, fp pls cool
Re: A Child Not A Bride by Nobody: 9:52pm On Dec 04, 2014
Thanks for sharing.

cry cry cry
Re: A Child Not A Bride by Daniceasarb(m): 9:53pm On Dec 04, 2014
Uwc
Re: A Child Not A Bride by KanwuliaJara: 9:54pm On Dec 04, 2014
Hmmmmmm
So many problems to be solved by that una "GOD"!
He actually "rested" on the 7th day? undecided

LAZZZZZZZZY OAF! kiss
Re: A Child Not A Bride by Daniceasarb(m): 9:57pm On Dec 04, 2014
KanwuliaJara:
Hmmmmmm
So many problems to be solved by that una "GOD"!
He actually "rested" on the 7th day? undecided

LAZZZZZZZZY OAF! kiss

Re: A Child Not A Bride by KanwuliaJara: 10:02pm On Dec 04, 2014
Daniceasarb:



You should be blaming that you "God" or "Allah" for ALL THINGS POSSIBLE ABI? wink
Re: A Child Not A Bride by Daniceasarb(m): 10:04pm On Dec 04, 2014
It's not about me, hope u figure it out
Re: A Child Not A Bride by NaNaYaaah(f): 1:19am On Dec 05, 2014
Aww this kid dont deserve death...i still have tears in my eyes..
Do people ever think of the pain that girl endured...her innocence taken away from her...
She has been through what most old women havent gone thru...
God forgives and dont condemn..no one has the right to kill her cry oh my soul cries out for her sad
Re: A Child Not A Bride by Daniceasarb(m): 3:29am On Dec 05, 2014
NaNaYaaah:
Aww this kid dont deserve death...i still have tears in my eyes..
Do people ever think of the pain that girl endured...her innocence taken away from her...
She has been through what most old women havent gone thru...
God forgives and dont condemn..no one has the right to kill her cry oh my soul cries out for her sad

U are so right NaNaYaaah, she must have reached d limit for her to have thought of such option

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Re: A Child Not A Bride by Daniceasarb(m): 3:44am On Dec 05, 2014
Mods fp pls
Re: A Child Not A Bride by pweetyz(f): 5:17am On Dec 05, 2014
op you're blessed..i hope God helps them though

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Re: A Child Not A Bride by Daniceasarb(m): 5:20am On Dec 05, 2014
pweetyz:
op you're blessed..i hope God helps them though

Tanx.. Amen
Re: A Child Not A Bride by KillerBeauty(f): 6:08am On Dec 05, 2014
I'm just sharing tears here cry cry cry

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Re: A Child Not A Bride by Daniceasarb(m): 6:30am On Dec 05, 2014
[quote author=KillerBeauty post=28605908]I'm just sharing tears here cry cry cry[/quote
Here's some tissue paper
Re: A Child Not A Bride by helen4(f): 11:06am On Dec 05, 2014
How i wish someone can stand up for her, she's just 2 young to go through this. Human right activist should do something. The law law can punish her in another form but definetly not death. Hope someone will go to her rescue from untimely death.

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Re: A Child Not A Bride by mesoade(m): 7:35pm On Dec 05, 2014
This is so so inhuman . . If she was condemned under an islamic law . . Then, there is no difference between islam and satanism.

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Re: A Child Not A Bride by mesoade(m): 7:38pm On Dec 05, 2014
Seun,ishilove, therealmrstan . . Pls do the needful,this thread is too meaningful not to make FP
Re: A Child Not A Bride by Daniceasarb(m): 8:20pm On Dec 05, 2014
Mods fp pls
Re: A Child Not A Bride by Nobody: 8:38pm On Dec 05, 2014
Hmmm i'm touch.
Mod fp page please,these is better than celebrities gist on frönt page daily.

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