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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Badgers14: 4:36pm On Dec 09, 2014 |
@Blesie, I believe your story that its real, this is my opinion. everyone has different experience about sex, personally, I didnt know that people could get pregnant and have a baby when they have sex until my JSS2. because at church the priest always ask for women looking for fruit of womb to come to the altar for prayers, I honestly thought that was how it was done until my inter-science class in Jss2. that being said, so many references you made like sucking his ding dong and him preferring certain positions. they are not bad at all, those things come with experience and eventually you will come to enjoy it. let me share my personal story with, my exGF, our first sex, she layed on her back like i will just slide in my dongoyaro, I started with licking her kittens, she was very shocked and surprised like WTF am I doing , but she went ahead and enjoyed it when she climaxed she was very shocked like , what just happened, she was very happy and a little bit shy like she peed on herself kinda thing, I forgot to mention, this was her first sexual experience. She was shocked as well when i asked her to suck my dong,her word, "babe why are you doing this to me" she probably felt that was not right, I replied, "doing what?, i just licked your kittens" and she kept quite. I believe what am getting at here is that people have different sexual exposure based on where and how they grew up. also understanding between both partners goes a long way too, because people will be acting based on what they already knew or have experienced. Secondly, his roughness, everyones differs on this, some like it rough, some like it slow and steady. if you could adjust to his style, chop am clean mouth nothing do you , if not wait on his happy times, there will definitely be a time he is happy and calm with you, sit him down and tell him how you feel about him being rough, you like it slow and steady or ..... however you like it. Am confident he will understand. lastly, do not involve the pastor or family just yet, remember after everyone talks to him, they will leave and its going to be both of you left in the house. you could also pray about it too. Good luck!!! 5 Likes |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by johncreek: 9:17pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
Badgers14:When u were licking the kitten was it sweet? |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Beey(f): 3:00pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
johncreek:Being physically tall or developed doesn't guarantee mental maturity.Some are 6ft tall but have the brain of a 6 month old.#myhumbleopinion. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by johncreek: 6:41pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
Beey: |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by upuphim(m): 6:38pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
I’ve pondered over your story if not ordeal although one sided as we did not hear from your hubby. You people agreed on terms which serious minded born again Christians practiced without the driving force of prayer. You got to hotel room on your wedding night without prayers of thanksgiving together. On the Sunday of your first appearance as married couple to church, there was no prayer still, not to talk of Bible reading. I see you people as nominal Christians hence, the devil capitalize on those set conditions before wedding to launch his attack. My fellow Nairalanders that support premarital s.x are not Bible believing Christians. I married with those conditions and I happily celebrated my 18years marriage few months back. My wife and I have no regret and many other believers I know that practiced those conditions especially virgins. Never consider divorce as an option as God hates divorce no matter the fact that even Pastors are divorcing their wives. Read Malachi 2:16 in New International Version of the Bible. Your hubby actually did not love you but was after what you religiously withheld for years from him hence, there is no pre-intimacy in his dictionary. I advice you to turn to God in repentance, ask for forgiveness and sincerely plead with God to intervene in the matter. Ask for those who are against marrying virgins, I pray they will never drive tear-robber car in Jesus name. Let such person say Amen. Keeping your body till wedding night builds confidence, trust and ability to withstand temptation and maneuvering by the opposite s.x. Why do most wives cheat, is it not because of their so called sweet experience with their Exes? Everyone both men and women reacts differently in bed just as we are all emotional different. I rest my case and wish you a successful married life. 1 Like |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by poik(m): 6:12am On Jan 22, 2015 |
blesie: This is the problem with our women. Imagine-' we used to use him to get free lunch and go to that cinema-he won't ever disaPpoint. So while you were enjoying his money, he wasn't a maniac. Only now he's taking his pound of flesh back. I am sure tha man has a side to this story too that will be interesting. Just keep begging him till he softens up. If not something I woulda said u deserve what you are getting. 1 Like |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 1:53pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
Beey: , Chei! U re so so funny ..hehehehehehehehehehhehehehe |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 2:01pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
upuphim: Chei! Thank God u made it clear dat u re married, if not I for marry u, , joking, true talk |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by 2goodbobo(m): 4:01pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
akuko |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 6:48pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
I don't think this story is for real. But, in case it is. The issue is not; 1) that he is a maniac, 2) that he is bad or wicked, 3) that he rapes you, 4) that he abuses you, 5) that he doesn't like you. The issue is not about shifting blames either. The issue is that HE IS PUNISHING YOU for all your previous pride, abuses and insults. Am not saying he is right in punishing you or that it is good to punish someone, but sometimes you need to punish people so they can change. And you really need to be punished but not in this barbaric way. Since he is punishing you, he will soon stop, if he perceives convincingly that you have learnt your lessons and thoroughly repented and changed your views about "using men". I don't think your man is bad and wicked either, if he is, he would have beaten you blue - black by now. He just wants you to realise your foolishness. Yes! You were young and foolish. So my humble advice to you are; 1) Don't involve anybody or talk to anybody, pastor or whoever. He will feel you are reporting him and gets worse. Remember, he can leave the church. 2) Repent thoroughly, give your life to Jesus Christ, be born again and continue asking God to forgive you and intervene. 3) Do everything he asks you to do as far as it is not a sin. Sucking him off, I don't think its a punishment or a sin. 4) Try and start surrendering to his seemingly rapes easily. If possible start lovingly raping him in return. Buy a good lubricant and always put it in especially at night since you won't predict when he will pounce on you. 5) Continue asking him for forgiveness. Men finds it very annoying when you use them. Yes! They do. Preach, talk, talk, preach lovingly and romantically, about his need to put the past where it belongs, in the past. And bend down put his hands on deck so that you two will work on your marriage and make it better. 6) Forgive him thoroughly for all these shits and make sure you don't revisit them or punish him too, when he changes. If you do am sorry for your marriage, it will collapse totally. For other ladies, that are happy when you think you are using a man, learn lesson from this. Men are smarter! Yes they are. You can only use a good guy who has decided to be good. If not stories abound of woes on women who thinks they can eat their cake and have it. Remember, some people have gotten acid bath. So if you like a guy, show him love from the start, make it easier for him and lovingly persuade him to forget about pre-marital sex. Especially, during courtship. Personally, for me I don't encourage girlfriend - boyfriend rubbish. It is a sin. Ladies you should throw away this mentality of hard to get, and being full of yourself. If you like a guy, work with him, show him respectful love from the start. If you don't like him, tell him no, mean it and keep it at no, forever and go your way. I have offered my widows mite. God bless you all! |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by estheremma(f): 9:10pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
faithugo64:read inbetween d'lines,dis is fiction guys |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Beey(f): 5:38pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
zaragal:Lol,thank you. |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Prettyenit18(f): 5:42pm On Apr 02, 2016 |
Pray |
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