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Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date by ghost1718(m): 8:22am On Dec 06, 2014
I’m not trying to encourage women to be gold diggers nor write broke guys off as useless because sometimes me dey broke grin grin. This is just an advice from
a guy who have tasted
both sides and found that a
broke guy who is in
relationship is not being
true to himself. To be honest, most of what
we have heard about
relationship are
unfounded. Nobody will
love you for who you are
when you don’t have shi shi. That’s just the truth. Even the independent
ladies who don’t want
your money will want
someone who’s settled in
their life. For them, finding
a partner is about finding someone who fits into
their lifestyle and plans for
the future. That includes
things that cost money. Below are the reasons
why broke guys should
forget dating for now.
1. You are not ready for it. You may want it but
honestly you don’t need it.
You need to be thinking of
a master plan. You need to
re-prioritize your life and
get busy with something. Anybody who is having
some major financial
struggles needs to be
focused on getting that
together, not dating. get
your act together THEN date.
2. You Ego Will Be Bruised Money does matter in our
society, way too much. A
person’s ability to eat and
look good and get
medicine in time of need
and take care of your woman are the things that
makes one a man. Think
about it, she called you on
phone and asked for
money and you gave her
the same answer. “I no get”. Then you found out
much later that she
somehow got the money.
You ask and was told that
she got it from another
guy. Your heart is darned if he is one of her admirers
that you are aware of.
3. It Is A Distraction A broke guy needs all the
time in the world alone to
sort out things and having
a woman who will add
some few loads to his
already bent shoulder will do him no good. Don’t tell
me he needs a woman’s
support because a good
female friend supports one
more than his girlfriend.
You don’t need that extra load.
4. You Will Be Cheated On You read me right. Girls
have the habit of getting
bored of things quickly,
this is due to who they
are, which is coupled with
the pressures of society. Society always wants
them to get the newest
and latest thing, so one
day she will get tired of
hoping and waiting and
accept that guy who has been disturbing her. She
may not tell you about it
because she wouldn’t
want to hurt you so you
end up being cheated on.
5. You Will Be FriendsZoned She likes you but cannot continue to
date you because you
cannot take care of her
needs. So she would
friendzone you in other
not to lose you completely. At least there is something
you are good at and she
will keep your friendship
because of that. Women
are smart walahi
6. She Won’t Feel Loved Since traditionally men are
the ones that pay for
dates, it is impossible then
to prove your love when
there is no shi shi. How can
you surprise her? How can you take her out on a date
or buy her gifts? How can
you say you love her when
she cannot rely on you
when she is broke?
7. You Will Be Dumped Not because she doesn’t
love you but because You
are not the right material
for a woman who has
marriage and raising a
family in her agenda. You may be lucky to get
someone who will stand
by you but a goal without
a deadline is just a dream.
She will eventually get
tired of hoping and give up. Your Bottom will be
dumped. Sorry I know that all people
deserve to be loved no
matter who or what they
are but money is very
important in every
relationship so I think a man that cannot afford to
date needs to wait

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Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date by braintext(m): 8:48am On Dec 06, 2014
Another copy and paste...
Try separate and bold each points
Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date by Otutu1(m): 10:04am On Dec 06, 2014
Broke this broke that. We are broke today doesn't mean we will stay that way. Broke guys, I say go ahead and date for this one reason, When its comes you can tell real from fake. This world has so many variables

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