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Did you join nairaland to share this with us?
Well, if you're christian, go and see your pastor. You need deliverance.

what kind of help exactly do u want?? money or koboko cos i m sure its not advice

Do not gratify the desire of the flesh. You can do all things in Christ dat strengthens thee. Do not be overcome by evil but overcome evil with good. God help thee.Amen

I am a long time member of Nairaland, but of course you do not post this kind of things with your regular moniker.
People will judge rather than advice.

Ayobami97:
Did you join nairaland to share this with us?
Well, if you're christian, go and see your pastor. You need deliverance.

pleasehelpme201:
I am a long time member of Nairaland, but of course you do not post this kind of things with your regular moniker.
People will judge rather than advice.

Owk, I think I've help you.

I am not poor (I work) so it is not about the money, but I won't deny that I got tempted by the money.
As for the koboko, I have resisted sexual advances from exes and other men in the past. To be beautiful and sexy and still remain a virgin at 27 is no small feat. The temptation from men has always been there.
The problem now is that, I am the one with the strong s*xual desire..I can seem to control my urge. I do not know why.
I guess the advice I need is how to overcome this big temptation...it is big trust me.

dotmanxp:
what kind of help exactly do u want?? money or koboko cos i m sure its not advice

Don't do it. Just jerk off, simple!!!....Or better still, get married; You're 27 and ripe for marriage.

Pm me kennyexcel12@gmail.com.

Sent you a mail

Hkenny:
Pm me kennyexcel12@gmail.com.

leave that enviroment may b go back to uk.. the people u mix with are affecting u.

Amen

I am alone here, I am a tourist. It is expensive changing my flight ticket at this festive period.
Maybe I will just take the bus. I hope it helps.

thegoodone2:
leave that enviroment may b go back to uk.. the people u mix with are affecting u.

Maybe I will just leave Amsterdam. I wake up very wet...it is that bad. I wanted someone who would just help me ease off the tension without actual intimacy, but maybe if I start now I won't be able to stop. But I do hope that this situation is really caused by environment and not hormones, because if it is hormones that means leaving Amsterdam will not help.

sigmundfreud:
You are in an "enabling" environment...in your mind, you know you can't overcome this and would have if the guy had agreed to protection.
Sexual urges are normal, its what you do with it that makes it a sin or not. Its time to tell yourself again why you have chosen to remain a virgin.
Find people of like minds and discuss. Throw yourself into something...and try not to dwell on the thought. It won't solve your problem but it gives you time to find a solution.

The reeds give[b][/b]
way to the
wind and give
the wind away-
A.R. Ammons

OP, SINCE I'M SET FOR MARRIAGE WHY DON'T WE HOOK UP. JUST TRY TO HOLD YOURSELF BECAUSE THIS IS TEMPTATION AND YOU WILL A VERY HAPPY PERSON IF YOU RESIST THIS DEVIL.

BE YOURSELF AND COMFORT YOUR HEART WITH THE WORDS OF GOD IN THE BIBLE.

JUST SEND MY A PRIVATE MAIL THROUGH MY NAIRALANDS PROFILE.

BE STRONG.

By questioning my Christianity I think you are being judgmental.
That I am a christian does not me I do not have sexual urges and temptations. That I am a christian does not mean I do not know what sex and other sexual activities are.
What I am saying is that I have been having a strong sexual desire in the past 4 days that threatens the belief that I have held this past years.
" Someone to help you ease off tension" is a case of eating my cake and having it, which although I still technically remain a virgin, but I do not remain chaste according to my christian beliefs.
Temptation is not a sin dear, until I have fallen for it.
I guess the reason I came here is because I want people who will discourage me without judging me.
It is easy to call my pastor or christian friends to share my experience, but they know me and might begin to look at me in a different way.
Forums like Nairaland help people to share their experiences and problems without being judged personally.
So yea you can judge me, but since you do not know me personally, it won't get to me.

sigmundfreud:

" Someone to help you ease off tension" makes me question your "christianity" claims but let's leave that. Your hormones will always be there and you have to learn how to control the "flesh". You won't say your hormones drove you into the arms of another man when you are married and your husband is not around?

A LOT IS TAKING PLACE IN YOUR MIND.

Slow down, cut the links with your new friends, don't visit those places again.
Every environment has a prevailing spirit.
If its possible after amesterdam, go back to Uk, Going to Paris Might make it worse.

Above all, change your itneries.

Thanks.

ideology:
A LOT IS TAKING PLACE IN YOUR MIND.

Slow down, cut the links with your new friends, don't visit those places again.
Every environment has a prevailing spirit.
If its possible after amesterdam, go back to Uk, Going to Paris Might make it worse.

Above all, change your itneries.

B

My dear, let me suggest that you desist from yielding to the temptation. I have discovered that the majority of this kind of stuff happens in isolation, which means, u've been by yourself a long while thereby giving room for this stuff to grow on ur mind.

Let's look at this again. You will be going to a location in Amsterdam to take off your clothes and have a man play with your privates. There is likely to be camera (s) there in a disguised form that you are yet to know of.

These are people you don't know and who will likely have no compulsion about releasing the video and pictures to the world. Believe me, men would gladly watch your video online and jerk off to it. Then there is the possibility of someone important to you watching it.

There is also the possibility of you jumpstarting a bad habit. Let me show you how it will go down. 1st, you'll enjoy it. You will have that explosive release and then you are calm. Following immediately after the release will come the horrible feeling of guilt. You will hate yourself, hate the man that took you to those heights and find that your conscience convicts you. Being a practising Christian, u'll now have to face the ugly reality of having wronged your God, provoking divine wrath and all those other stuffs u already know befall wrong doers.

Now, here is the twist. You'll do it again. And again. And again. This dark art will take hold of your soul, deadening your conscience in that direction.

The truth is, anything you can do in your privacy that has no immediate consequence you are most likely going to repeat. Habits own us, we don't own them. It will eventually ruin your active relationships and poison your marriage.

You are tempted my dear, but you have not yielded. Control your body and deliver your own destiny. I do not judge you, because I am also human; I counsel you as one who has once fallen.

ehnnm, what kind of protection is needed even giving a BJ? As in, the guy should wear a condom before you start sucking?

Thank you.
Yes I have been alone for a while now, so maybe the thoughts have been building up and became stronger in Amsterdam where I am more alone with no friends.
I have deleted my account with those websites and also deleted the email account I opened for that purpose.
I will leave Amsterdam today, though I forfeit my flight ticket, it may be for the best.
Thanks for reemphasizing what I already know but was too weak to apply, it helped.

zizazizu:
My dear, let me suggest that you desist from yielding to the temptation. I have discovered that the majority of this kind of stuff happens in isolation, which means, u've been by yourself a long while thereby giving room for this stuff to grow on ur mind.

Let's look at this again. You will be going to a location in Amsterdam to take off your clothes and have a man play with your privates. There is likely to be camera (s) there in a disguised form that you are yet to know of.

These are people you don't know and who will likely have no compulsion about releasing the video and pictures to the world. Believe me, men would gladly watch your video online and jerk off to it. Then there is the possibility of someone important to you watching it.

There is also the possibility of you jumpstarting a bad habit. Let me show you how it will go down. 1st, you'll enjoy it. You will have that explosive release and then you are calm. Following immediately after the release will come the horrible feeling of guilt. You will hate yourself, hate the man that took you to those heights and find that your conscience convicts you. Being a practising Christian, u'll now have to face the ugly reality of having wronged your God, provoking divine wrath and all those other stuffs u already know befall wrong doers.

Now, here is the twist. You'll do it again. And again. And again. This dark art will take hold of your soul, deadening your conscience in that direction.

The truth is, anything you can do in your privacy that has no immediate consequence you are most likely going to repeat. Habits own us, we don't own them. It will eventually ruin your active relationships and poison your marriage.

You are tempted my dear, but you have not yielded. Control your body and deliver your own destiny. I do not judge you, because I am also human; I counsel you as one who has once fallen.

your feeding your mind with a lot of things.The best advice is what the scripture says and what you want.always be prayerful.

pleasehelpme201:
Thank you.
Yes I have been alone for a while now, so maybe the thoughts have been building up and became stronger in Amsterdam where I am more alone with no friends.
I have deleted my account with those websites and also deleted the email account I opened for that purpose.
I will leave Amsterdam today, though I forfeit my flight ticket, it may be for the best.
Thanks for reemphasizing what I already know but was too weak to apply, it helped.

My dear, I salute your courage. You'll come out stronger, believe me.