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How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by olunifemi(f): 9:16am On Aug 19, 2006 |
if u happen 2 know ur man has a mistress,how will u handle her or d situation? |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by Idekeson(m): 4:52pm On Aug 19, 2006 |
Welcome her to the family. Less sexual responsibility for you |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by kiki(f): 4:57pm On Aug 19, 2006 |
i don't think i can handle somthing like dat so i'll rather leave him to figure out what he wants |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by mamaput(f): 9:21pm On Aug 19, 2006 |
I have friends that are going through that now.(the age is right) If the man is bent on keeping her there is nothing they can do about it. They stay or they go. Funny enough its Africans. The wife will rent and rave the police will come and go. Because no one will say whats going on. Or why they are fighting. Till they are fed up of fighting. 1 Like |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by chinani(f): 10:22pm On Aug 19, 2006 |
My husband has a mistress!?! . . .didn't even know I was married. . . [center]Just wanted to make everyone smile [/center] |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by chinani(f): 10:27pm On Aug 19, 2006 |
Well firstly, I'd stopped having marital relations with him. I guess my self drive is really high, I'd leave him so I could find someone else to have marital relations with. Kicking him out of my (our?) house would somewhere in there. If I was older & filthy rich, I'd buy a loft & move myself in. One day he'd come home & be very surprised. . . |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by olunifemi(f): 11:28am On Aug 21, 2006 |
chinani:but b4 he comes back? |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by mamaput(f): 11:52am On Aug 21, 2006 |
It mostly happens to women with half grown kids |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by chinani(f): 4:22am On Aug 22, 2006 |
olunifemi:I meant that I'd do this slowly over several weeks but uh yea it's not really a realistic game plan. On the realer side, I'd just do what was best for me. |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by Oracle(m): 4:39am On Aug 29, 2006 |
I guess you have to go down on your kness and tell God
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Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by iice(f): 5:17am On Aug 29, 2006 |
hmmmmm |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by Busta(f): 11:47pm On Aug 29, 2006 |
Pray i don't have to deal with any. |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by Eurphoria(f): 9:56pm On Sep 01, 2006 |
well, i guess i'll say she is welcome to him, if i have kids when this happen, i'll just pray and hope that once the novelty wears out he'll do thesame to her, once a cheat always a cheat. I have no time for cheats,i'll leave him. My mother taught me that, she didnt stand for it and now she is in such a loving marriage with another, there is absolutely no need to put myself through crap for any mortal. |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by chinani(f): 12:02am On Sep 02, 2006 |
True talk Euphoria. |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by izoneb(f): 6:34pm On Sep 22, 2006 |
Chinani!!!!!! True talk Euphoria?mmmmm i keep wondering.Is there a guaranty that the next husband wouldn't do something worse?If u find yrself there pray and be good.God will turn him around. Just look good and get busy!Make sure you take good care of yourself.With his money though! As for the mistress,let her be the fool act like she's inconsequential. |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by Oracle(m): 6:51pm On Sep 22, 2006 |
Thatz right, prayer is the only thing to do remember PRAYER CHANGES THINGS |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by Brownsuga(f): 6:56pm On Sep 22, 2006 |
This is every woman's nightmare, I will not handle the mistress at all, I will handle him, ie once confirmed i will leave him. Period. |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by kinzolic(m): 6:57pm On Sep 22, 2006 |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by kiki(f): 11:03pm On Sep 22, 2006 |
so u got to wait for him to change plssssssssssssssssss sorry can't wait for no man cos he is a man i got to suffer |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by damygurl(f): 11:20pm On Sep 22, 2006 |
first of all b4 i get married d guy gon know me very well. all my likes and dislikes wat makes me tick and wat makes me go crazy. I'm gon be giving him wat he wants so he's not gon look elsewhere 4 it. but lets just say it happened i don't have beef with d gurl cept 4 if she knows he's married and still went out with him anywayz then she gon know wat crazy really looks like. i don't respect women who gon be dating other peeps husband. and d guy better not come home d day i know cuz i'm not gon be responsible 4 wat i do. after i'm done the so called mistress gon be d one dumping him and if a guy i love would hurt me dat way then we not 4 each other. he better get a good lawyer too. |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by windywendy(f): 12:42am On Sep 25, 2006 |
I won't handle anyone. I'll just simply "dash" him to her and get myself a better life. No cheat is worth the effort, and life's much too interesting to live in misery . And yeah, he'll be needing a good lawyer too |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by olunifemi(f): 4:34pm On Sep 26, 2006 |
:d |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by ThoniaSlim(f): 1:17am On Dec 10, 2006 |
tough question,it should be how do i handle both of them |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by olunifemi(f): 2:51pm On Dec 11, 2006 |
damygurl: ThoniaSlim:so,how?? |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by ThoniaSlim(f): 9:54pm On Dec 11, 2006 |
You really don't want to know ,anyway never mind cause am not telling you. |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by Ugwumba(m): 10:01pm On Dec 11, 2006 |
Clearly a lot of the ladies here (except maybe mamaput) nefer marry. i no dey easy oh!!! just pray that it does not happen - all the 'gra-gra' no go solve the problem. 1 Like |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by mukina2: 10:06pm On Dec 11, 2006 |
i'll find a gun and shoot her for taking my place without my permission |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by ThoniaSlim(f): 4:38pm On Dec 12, 2006 |
haba how many times would you tell us any way congrats |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by Eurphoria(f): 10:06pm On Dec 13, 2006 |
why shoot her? did she rape your husband? or did he accidentally slip his willy in her kitten? or maybe she pursued him til he was too weak to run and she had her wicked way with him. Please no man is worth going to jail for and i would never lower myself to the point of getting physical with another woman over his thrifling ways now no way |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by diyobdw(f): 12:26pm On Dec 14, 2006 |
@Eurphoria AM with you 101% No body steals your man it always his choice or greed! @ the topic it not easy but i would have to talk it through with him and get the situation clear. But no matter my reaction she wont feel the heat from not to talk of the fire. but slow and steady the guy would taste every letter of "Mental torture" .Though it will take God's grace, if he is not willing to end the relationship (Usually gragra no dey work ) |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by mukina2: 12:34pm On Dec 14, 2006 |
euphoria . .i guess you are right . . no damn man is worth going to prison for . . truth is i'll leave both of them and move on with my life |
Re: How Will U Handle Ur Husband's Mistress? by diyobdw(f): 12:56pm On Dec 14, 2006 |
Why leave both of them ? what if the the misteress is for a short while. esp'y when Men fall in and out of thier weakness no saint anywhere 1 Like |
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