I can see lies here....

sister, sorry will be ur name if ur man later find someone that does it better.But if I may ask why swallow? why can't he pour it inside there? I mean where its made for..... for productive. Abeg save ur marriage jooo.Don't wash ur dirty lineal and spread in public.

Kachisbarbie:
That nigga has tey in the game.
That's a lowkey p*rn star...lols. He should have allowed you start enjoying the BJ first, then probably start having "weird sexual fantasies" e.g swallowing cum.

There is nothing more you can do than talk to him. Don't make it look like he asked for the worst thing in life. You can infer comparisons e.g he should imagine giving you head when you're menstruating or something. . He would use his tongue to count his teeth.

U know too much about this, do u swallow cum?

KeenOne:

LOL

I think its very unfair if you compare the average African woman to her Western counterpart in bed. You have to put factors like cultural training into consideration. African women are traditionally meant to be receptive during sex, discouraged from exploring and almost a taboo to suggest and/or engage in other forms of sex considered "slutty for a homely woman". so how about you cut 'em some slack?

True!! and African women are also taught to be respectful and obedient wives to their husbands but somehow these African women are beginning to imbibe western lifestyles like feminism, divorce etc so why not the sexual attributes?

So I don't think culture matters that much any more, they're just going to take what soothes them and leave the rest.

emmyrichie:
I suspect something is wrong with the husband.

There is nothing wrong with him, he is just wild and love s3x like every other man not pretenders. There is nothing wrong with oral s3x with ur husband or wife.

[quote author=phemmyutd post=30635694][/quote]

Well...the Bible also states you should be having anal sex before marriage or to avoid conception. Not a word of a lie. References below.



http://www.sexinchrist.com/index.html

Anal Sex in Accordance with God's Will

Are you saving yourself for your wedding night? The Devil wants you to fail, that’s why he puts stumbling blocks in your way. But God wants you to succeed, and that’s why he has given us an alternative to intercourse before marriage: anal sex. Through anal sex, you can satisfy your body’s needs, while you avoid the risk of unwanted pregnancy and still keep yourself pure for marriage.

You may be shocked at first by this idea. Isn’t anal sex (sodomy) forbidden by the Bible? Isn’t anal sex dirty? What’s the difference between having anal sex before marriage and having regular intercourse? Let’s address these issues by debunking some myths about anal sex and God's will.

“I thought the Bible said anal sex was a sin.”

This is a common misconception. Anal sex is confusing to many Christians because of the attention paid to the Bible’s condemnation of homosexual acts. However, it’s important to realize that these often quoted scriptures refer only to sexual acts between two men. Nowhere does the Bible forbid anal sex between a male and female.

In fact, many Biblical passages allude to the act of anal sex between men and women. Lamentations 2:10 describes how “The virgins of Jerusalem have bowed their heads to the ground,” indicating how a virginal maidens should position themselves to receive anal sex. Another suggestive scripture tells of a woman’s pride in her “valley” (referring to her buttocks and the cleft between them) and entices her lover to ejaculate against her backside: "How boastful you are about the valleys! O backsliding daughter who trusts in her treasures, {saying,} ' Who will come against me?' (Jeremiah 49:4) And in the Song of Songs, the lover urges his mate to allow him to enter her from behind: “Draw me after you, let us make haste.” (Song of Solomon, 1:4)

“Isn’t anal sex dirty?”

The Bible says, “To the pure, all things are pure.” (Titus 1:15) The Lord created your body, and no part of it is imperfect or unclean. God also created our bodies for pleasure, and anal sex is just one of the many ways, including standard sexual intercourse, that we can enjoy this pleasure and share it with a partner.

Although the anus is used for elimination, in reality it is not as dirty as you think, especially after a shower or bath. Elimination is also a natural process of our God-given bodies, so our conception of the anal area as dirty has more to do with our own psychological hang-ups. If the idea of direct contact with this area is still distasteful to you, the male can wear a condom as a barrier

tell him to do d vice versa for u during ur period to prove his love to u.

that must have be painful

I will divorce my husband


if he tells me to suck his dic-k

bugativeron:
@OP MouthAction itself is not bad. but forcing to you swallow his semen is mean and demeaning. I am a man i will never support that. Please resist it as much as you can and if he fails to reason along with you, report him to some body that he listens to and respect. You are not a LovePeddler and dont allow yourself to be treated as such. If on your on volition you want to do it, good. But for you to be forced is cruel and I suspect something is mentally wrong with your husband. Watch it

I agree that his behavior is completely unreasonable but I just have such an issue with this reporting your spouse thing. Especially when it is things that should be your issue alone. I think that's why I support using faceless forums like this one to get opinions. There has to be some sort of compromise. Is she even willing to perform MouthAction? I'd prefer they talk to a sex therapist than take the "reporting" route. I feel that issues should always be kept within the marriage but I understand that that is unrealistic for many marriages. Telling a pastor or a family member tends to backfire. Maybe I am just too protective of things that matter to me. What if we work it out and then whenever I see this person I will wonder if he or she is wondering if I swallowed cum today LOL. Please it's too much

Jackeeh:



Sorry Sis. I can only imagine what you're going through. First off don't, and I repeat, don't report your man to anyone. You will further embarass him and make matters worse. Also don't take advice from NL gals who tell you they will never swallow milk. Sister believe me; they have done worse. And most of them(if not all) are still single. Your man has a sexual fantasy he hid from you. He should have told you buh he didn't. So let's not cry over spilled milk. Talking about spilled milk, your man's "spilled milk" isn't poison. Swallowing it won't kill you. It actually contains protein blah blah blah. Some tips to help you : have some chewing gum or sweet in your mouth when you're giving him a bj( e.g tom tom). When he spills, instead of dwelling on d taste, just gulp down the stuff as fast as possible. In other words, swallow it at once. Don't delay. If he still insists you swallow, you can also hold the tip of your nose tight while you swallow. Hmmmmmm all these just for semen. Odiegwu!!! Well, what am I trying to say here? Save your marriage. Do all you can to save your marriage. The day he meets another lady who can swallow not only spilled milk but the joystick + balls, no amount of prayers will bring him back to you. And I won't be surprised if that "other woman" turns out to be one of these ones shouting, God forbid! I can't do it!!! Mtchwwwwww. At least your life isn't in danger. He's not hitting you. Finally whether u choose to swallow or not, protect your marriage at all cost.

like the bible said,the tongue of d wise dispenses knowledge,any other advice here dat doesnt fall in line with wat u jst said is rubbish....poster abeg dnt mind doz guls pretending here,trust me,behind close doors,they swallow their boyfrnd's cum & even begs him to shagg their shit hole

pinkycute:
Swallow his fluid Hell NO!!.. I can't do DAT to prove my love for any man ( What nonsense ) well, since the table has turn around and he don't longer talk to you as before or act in a Christianity ways.... Please just ask him, if he can eat ur shit for love and see his respond

Are U sure U can't swallow his speerm ?? I don't trust many of you gals. U can be proving tough in NL but if you come across Idris Elba and he asks U to swallow his fluid, you will happily do it.

Many ladies in NL will do it and drink his urine on top of that. Abeg make I hear word joor. (But I don't support him for "forcing" his wife.)

Your Born Again Brother na bombastic bastard.

He go dey carry olosho like say tommorow no dey.

Sograced:
These are some of the challenges that comes in marriage, but you've got to stand and save your marriage......and it takes sacrifice to do that, pls try and give him what he wants and you lld observe that with time..he wouldnt bother you with this method anymore.

if she is of the view that bj is wrong. then him licking her clit is wrong too.. her swx life looks straight forward and boring to me. well she needs to talk to him. probably find another way of turning him on in bed.

maxdozie:
Hahahahahha...
That Dude married U nah!!
Make him happy

In essence he did a big favour by marrying her abi!!! ! Rubbish!!!! !

After sucking your own boyfriends dick, you want to discourage others from doing the same...

Gynacologist:
oboi abeg no vex whch one b 69?

Yeye dey worry you.. number 69 na the number wey come after 68 and before 70

kallmemrB:
Nairaland ladies be like "God forbid" online but singing lolipop with their BF **licking licking licking it like a lolipop**

EXACTLY!!!

Jackeeh:



Sorry Sis. I can only imagine what you're going through. First off don't, and I repeat, don't report your man to anyone. You will further embarass him and make matters worse. Also don't take advice from NL gals who tell you they will never swallow milk. Sister believe me; they have done worse. And most of them(if not all) are still single. Your man has a sexual fantasy he hid from you. He should have told you buh he didn't. So let's not cry over spilled milk. Talking about spilled milk, your man's "spilled milk" isn't poison. Swallowing it won't kill you. It actually contains protein blah blah blah. Some tips to help you : have some chewing gum or sweet in your mouth when you're giving him a bj( e.g tom tom). When he spills, instead of dwelling on d taste, just gulp down the stuff as fast as possible. In other words, swallow it at once. Don't delay. If he still insists you swallow, you can also hold the tip of your nose tight while you swallow. Hmmmmmm all these just for semen. Odiegwu!!! Well, what am I trying to say here? Save your marriage. Do all you can to save your marriage. The day he meets another lady who can swallow not only spilled milk but the joystick + balls, no amount of prayers will bring him back to you. And I won't be surprised if that "other woman" turns out to be one of these ones shouting, God forbid! I can't do it!!! Mtchwwwwww. At least your life isn't in danger. He's not hitting you. Finally whether u choose to swallow or not, protect your marriage at all cost.

Op.. read this.. understand it and thank the dude later

Blackbeauty:
Your husband has been watching porn big time..."born again" indeed!!anyways,u hv to manage him eh...thats why u shud not marry any one without confirming how compatible u are sexually..yes...i said it!!or else d marriage u are saving it for wil scatter faster than a pack of cards because of this same issue..d men that claim to be spiritual and wud agree to no sex. before marriage are even far bigger peverts than those that club and womanise...my two cents is either u swallow it or get ready to lose him to another woman..cos every woman just has to be a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets.I work a legal mediator for matrimonial cases..truth be told,sexually related disputes are the root cause of many divorces..so,the choice is urs..the truth is bitter op..but its my duty to womanhood to tell u as it is..its absurd that he is forcing u to do it..so u have to find out more abt swallowing it..read good books on sex,surprise him with a bj and swallow it..and please thrs nothing wrong in doing it because two married persons are supposedly one flesh...once u make d decision to marry someone..it takes extreme measures at times to stay married!

@thebolded
Ma, you just defined slavery....

pretydiva:
*Pukes*....ewwww...God forbid I swallow any man's sperm,jst 2 prove my luv 4 him. @ op try n mk him c reasons wif u,buh if he his stil adamant, then report him 2 any higher authority.

if you wan check this girl well na she dey hammer head and better deep throat pass. I just dey watch you.

Maamin:


Yeye dey worry you.. number 69 na the number wey come after 68 and before 70

clap fo ur sef...

Dat ur Husby need serious Delivrance? All u need to do is meet ur Pastor Explain tins to him

50calibre:


True!! and African women are also taught to be respectful and obedient wives to their husbands but somehow these African women are beginning to imbibe western lifestyles like feminism, divorce etc so why not the sexual attributes?

So I don't think culture matters that much any more, they're just going to take what soothes them and leave the rest.

LMAO....


We hope they do, anyways.

joanana:


In essence he did a big favour by marrying her abi!!! ! Rubbish!!!! !

Why did you Quote me pls

D person may not be reading all these advise because the story was imported... Nevertheless, someone may b in d same shoe...

Tell him to suck ur Virginia. If he agree... Then know don marry wolf in sheep clothing...

Unbelievers can make such request

pretydiva:
*Pukes*....ewwww...God forbid I swallow any man's sperm,jst 2 prove my luv 4 him. @ op try n mk him c reasons wif u,buh if he his stil adamant, then report him 2 any higher authority.

I will like to know the higher authority that has a laid down rule on how couples should make love

onila:
that must have be painful

I will divorce my husband


if he tells me to suck his dic-k

You don't have a Husband yet, you won't shut up and pray that you get one first you are talking of chasing the one you don't have! See your mouth..

Jackeeh:



I take it you're still single. Otherwise you would know marriage is all about compromise. You have to give something up to make it work. And with time, what you gave up will return back to you along with many other benefits. I am not advising she drinks some random man's seed for pete's sake. It's her husband's. Her husband. At this point, the man is not reasoning along with her. What should she do? Get angry? Demand her right? Stamp her feet down? Scream? Bring in third parties? Get a divorce? Get married to another man who would demand she licks his anus before sex or turn out to be worse than the former? Huh? I'm only suggesting she gives up her "wishes" temporarily and give in to the man's desires. With this, if she plays her card well, she will have him where she wants him. Simply by playing the fool and giving her man what he wants( howbeit difficult). She has given something up. What will she get in return? A well fed and satisfied husband who is under her control.

I agree with you on compromise but not on this. A man who loves you will not want to hurt you but do what is best for you. Even if she gives into this fantasy she will not satisfy it like the fantasy so he will continue to search till (that is if) he fulfills it. I only pity the lady. If the guy husband has been drinking her v.fluid she may not even think twice before doing the same.

Maamin:
lol...this is very simple @ Op, whenever he asks for a head you tell him to return the favour as well..69 will be cool. if he cant do the same then nothing for him as well..

pere

50calibre:


True!! and African women are also taught to be respectful and obedient wives to their husbands but somehow these African women are beginning to imbibe western lifestyles like feminism, divorce etc so why not the sexual attributes?

So I don't think culture matters that much any more, they're just going to take what soothes them and leave the rest.

LOL.


Its a "gradual erosion". Bet they will soon overtake the Westerners in their vices

Gynacologist:
clap fo ur sef...

*claps for self*

Oceemo:
the in and out lol

wats funny