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Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by Nobody: 9:53pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
chigodo: I don't get this thing you guys are saying about Igbo men not allowing their wives to hawk. I've spent 2years of my life in Enugu, and I see female indigenes hawking, just as you would see in other places. The married women I saw and heard hawking and shouting ''okpa di'oku'', ''hot okpa'' everywhere, were they a figment of my imagination or what? how about the children of Igbo origin I saw playing with dirty clothes... The morale of my 'story' is, there is poverty and hussling everywhere! Igbo or no Igbo. so, stop trying to impute it on other tribes alone, it's so not necessary. More so, it is a deliberate misrepresentation of the true state of affairs. Thank you. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by Nobody: 9:54pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
PLEASE, at what AGE can a MAN get married.. Because I know some MEN get married even at 75years |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by Tashaamania(f): 9:56pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
xynerise:okay! I still think some of my naija Igbo guys wont settle down even if they have acquired all those at that age. Are you the only son? |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by lonzo2214: 9:56pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
RomanceLander:u look pretty like an igbo true true.. ekele mu umunemi |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by dechandel(f): 9:58pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
AgapeCharis:LOL Where on earth did you get that drift from? Eeh you this Edo boy?? I am not from Mbaise o |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by xynerise: 10:02pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
Tashaamania:Second son |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by Nobody: 10:04pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
Becos Igbo wedding is an avenue for investment to their glutton relatives. Very expensive WEDDING kilode! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by Tashaamania(f): 10:04pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
xynerise: |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by Nobody: 10:05pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
dechandel: What kinda font is this madam |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by Nobody: 10:07pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
dechandel:[size=13pt] Lol. Thank God! Money wey I don save for your bride price go reach Where are you from BTW?[/size] |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by Nobody: 10:13pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
chigodo:[size=13pt] Taaar!! I've lived in Enugu. All the okpa I bought, I bought from women. All the abacha I ate were from married women. Bro what are you talking about?? You just reminded me of one woman [/size] 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by Neplusultra(f): 10:17pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
None of ur silly business |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by Winna01(m): 10:18pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
I have discovered that Ibo guys marrypls its not 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by auntymi(f): 10:18pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
Mhosmhan:y not |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by dechandel(f): 10:18pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
AgapeCharis: How much you don save¿?.. Biko 2mao is still friday,western union go dey operate.. Send me the bride price |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by bukkyaye: 10:20pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
All Una wan become importer and exporter....by una SUV...murano.....before wedlock.....not thinking say @50..e no deydey pure to still dey pay child school fees......for me at 50 I'd be enjoying my money with my wife while my children would have been graduates... |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by allcomage: 10:22pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
[quote author=Setaje post=30674684]You guys are talking rubbish. Why must you be so rich before u marry. If not that the country is bad ideally at 25-28, guys should have settled down. Well most igbo men I know at 50, their first child will be 10 years. Is that life?. You won't understand until u are 60 and u are still paying school fees for a child in secondary school. Must you guys be so so rich before getting married? It doesn't make sense. Stop justifying rubbish. What is wrong is wrong. I don't expect u people to understand now till u see your mates who started early relaxing at age 60 while u are still training a child in school. [/quote There is a difference between being rich and having a steady flow of income before dabbling into marriage.I believe igbo are not waiting to be rich but to have flow of income. Marriage is a serious business my dear.Money is very central to marriage and modern living.Think of accommodation for the family,health matters,feeding,education and other social needs then you will know you have to plan it well.I have seen a lot of couples lost their kids because of N1,000.It is not how far but how well.In some other climes some people don't even marry .Every culture has it merits and demerits.Even in the olden days when farming was the other of the day, you had to have a barn stuffed with farm[your out put] produce before you marry in Igbo land.Statistics has shown that on the average Igbo marriages are more stable and cohesive than some other tribes who rush into it without adequate planning.It is not just about money but the desire to marry and stay married. There are millions of Igbos boys that made money ,built houses , bought cars and are in fact multimillionaires before 25yrs but they still marry at 30-40yeasr,when they are really ready and have the hunger to get married.Recently people have been committing suicide in some parts of the country as a result of pressures from unplanned marriage. Just like any other serious issues of life,if you fail to plan for your marriage,then you plan to fail.If it works for your tribe that you meet in a party ,have sex and move in, start making babies,no dowry, tomorrow you part ways,leave the children to fend for themselves and move on with another partner, it doesn't work for Igbo and that is why they are Igbo and you are who you are. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by Nobody: 10:24pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
dechandel:[size=13pt] Choi! See this babe o you wan chop your papa money?? You be original Igbo girl You dey dodge this question abi?? I no gree From where you come?[/size] |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by Nobody: 10:27pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
Tajudeen with is one room, one bed, one pillow, one bed sheet, one pot, one spoon, one plate, one stove can impregnate his gf Adepate and they'll start reproducing like rats. Then later goes to meet Iya Adepate and they will organize a small introduction and that will sort things out. |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by spacefreak: 10:37pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
RomanceLander: Yes, I'm Igbo |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by DEagle1: 10:38pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
Mean while guys celebration is still on going at Oshodi Flyover, care to join? Rush down ASAP . *Fp Tins* Baba God noni |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by coolebux(m): 10:43pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
Yoroobers always googling the Igbos as if their own tribe is not important to them. #Igbokwenu 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by bengoodcreature: 10:45pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
because we perform d traditional rites b4 u are called a maried Man but for Yoruba land, once she gets pregnant, u r now a maried man, that one na mariage? |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by youngalex(m): 10:48pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
Igbo Guys Marry Late Cos They need to hustle to be self sufficient before starting a family,the bible clearly stated that "A man that can't provide for his family is worse than an infidel" I rather marry at 35-38 than be worse than an infidel ...The society of today is so skewed that there are very few ladies that can survive a marriage where the man is struggling to provide,in most cases her needs are not met,this leads to infidelity and unhappiness 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by sokera: 10:53pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
because they travel far from home to hustle in another man's land as slaves , what do you except from a slave? i keep saying it igbo should learn to go back home and restructure their region instead they are everywhere online shouting GEJ till 2090 asif GEJ is their messiah .... wake up u slaves 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by jingh(f): 10:53pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
manny4life:pls tell me that money spent on bb and marriage no dey pass 1m |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by DEagle1: 10:55pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
dechandel:is that all? |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by Catchfire1: 11:00pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
sokera: You really must be very bitter cos dese slaves go everywhere hustle n very well do better dan most indigenes from that area you inclusive.. they are not slaves. they are providing d service your lazy ass wont.... 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by makazona(m): 11:04pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
i keep on saying this its not ibo but IGBO Op,take note 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by dechandel(f): 11:04pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
AgapeCharis:Es original.. No photocopy I am sure my father wouldn't mind na.. Infact he is gonna thank me for being this wise!! I am from Anambra state o.. This will be the hundredth time i am writing it on here.. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by sokera: 11:09pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
Optimall:why would you say adultery is allowed in yoruba culture? you must be thinking from your Anus , let us face the fact , it is level of poverty in Africa or Nigeria that will make a man marry late. you need to travel around the world and get expose. Marry late wont stop the level of Poverty in any country. the fact is alot of things went wrong from the background of the igbo people . If you father marry late because he wanted to make lot of money to care for you , educate you they at age 23-25 you should have got a good job , same goes to the woman you want to marry. that mentality of getting married late those not solve anything about poverty ... abi no bi bendown select una dey come sell for lagos? abi Gala for holdup ... 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by Nobody: 11:11pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
dechandel:I see. Una wan use me do business 100th time?? Never seen it sha. Anambra girls sha........... |
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