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I Tracked Down My Biological Father But He Raped Me(A True Life Story) by Akbee(m): 5:34pm On Feb 20, 2015
An adopted woman who tracked down
her real father when she was 13 has told
how he dressed her in a wedding gown
and went on to rape her.
Then, when Hollie Davey fell pregnant with
biological dad Paul Davey’s child he
attempted to perform a home abortion on
her.
But the home operation failed, and she
went onto have the abortion in hospital.
She later had another child with him - a
boy who has since been taken into care -
but it was this pregnancy which prompted
her to leave.
Miss Davey, now 26, from Essex, told how
she was excited to trace her long-lost
father and turned up on his doorstep.
But within weeks he was raping and
abusing her, calling her “Daddy’s special
girl”. He dressed her in a wedding gown and
said he wanted them to be married.
The paedophile even forced a ring onto her
finger.
Miss Davey, who has since had three
daughters, Alayla, six, Roxanne, four and
Amelia, two, said: “I’ll never get over what
my dad did.
“He ruined my childhood.”
She struggled to cope as a teen when her
mother told her she had been adopted.
“My world crumbled,” she said.
“I couldn’t take it in. I was so angry.
“I felt like my whole life had been a lie.”
When Miss Davey learned her biological
mother had died she decided to pay a visit
to her biological father, leaving her
adopted parents.
She arrived at his home in October 2001.
“When I arrived, a man with grey hair
answered the door and asked me if he
could help,” she said.
“I told him I was his daughter and though
he looked shocked, he pulled me in for a
hug.
“He said he had been waiting for the
moment he got to meet me.”
Tragic: Hollie feels her childhood was
robbed from her
She spent the evening with her father
chatting about their lives, and he asked
her to move in with him.
“With those words I felt like I belonged and
I settled down in to dad’s spare room,"
she said.
But while she was keen to develop a
father-daughter bond, Miss Davey’s father
had other ideas.
Miss Davey said: “One day while I was
reading a magazine dad started to run his
fingers though my hair.
“Then he said, ‘You’re gorgeous, I can’t
believe you’re my daughter.’
“It made me feel uneasy.
“But I was desperate for dad to love me,
so I told myself I was just being silly.”
But his odd behaviour continued, and after
they had been living together for two
months, he suggested playing the game
which the sick sex pest called 'Mummies
and Daddies'.
Miss Davey said: “I thought it was strange
being that I was almost 14, but I didn’t
want to annoy my dad.”
Davey then handed her a wedding dress
and told he to put it on.
Miss Davey said: “I put it on and played
along with him.”
Her father then asked her to pose on the
bed so he could take some photos of her
wearing the gown.
Miss Davey said: “It felt wrong but what
could I do?”
Later that night she heard her bedroom
door creak.
“Dad said, ‘I’ll sleep here tonight so I can
be with my gorgeous daughter,’” Miss
Davey said.
“But he started touching me.
“I told him to stop it and tried to pull
away but he ignored me and carried on
touching me.”
Before long Davey was visiting his
daughter’s room every night to molest her.
Hollie Davey: Now 26, she has
managed to find happiness
She said: “He would call me his ‘special
girl’ and I would lay in bed limp, trying to
pretend it wasn’t happening.”
One morning Davey shoved his daughter in
to his car and drove her to a deserted
road to rape her.
Miss Davey said: “He told me to shut up,
tore at my clothes and held me down on
the passenger seat.
“I waited for it to be over but dad said,
‘There’s more where that came from’.
“I wondered how he could do this to me. I
thought he loved me.”
At home Davey locked his daughter in the
house and forced her to wear the wedding
dress again.
He took more photos of her, then thrust a
silver ring on her wedding ring finger and
said, ‘I want you to be my wife’.
Miss Davey said: “I wanted to throw up.
He was sick.
“I felt caged up like an animal.”
The rape continued for months, and
eventually she fell pregnant.
Desperate to end it, he forced her to down
a bottle of gin then performed a home
abortion with a knitting needle.
Miss Davey said: “I remember blood
running down my legs and it must have
panicked my dad because he took me to
hospital.
Closure: Hollie finally reported her
dad years after she escaped
“I wanted to scream at the nurses, ‘My
dad did this to me,’ but I was petrified of
the consequences.
“But if I thought this was going to scare
him in to stopping him raping me, I was
wrong.”
At 15, Miss Davey fell pregnant a second
time, but on this occasion she hid it from
her father.
She said: “Even though the baby had been
created by a monster, it was my baby.”
Then one night when her dad was asleep,
Miss Davey noticed that the front door was
unlocked and made a break for freedom.
She said: “I realised, I was finally free.”
She gave birth to a son, but social
services took him away.
Miss Davey blamed her dad and,
determined not to let him destroy any
more of her life, she started at college and
got her own flat.
She went on to have three daughters, then
one day she realised that her father was
still out there, prowling the streets and
could be abusing other children.
She said: “I realised he couldn’t get away
with this so I contacted a solicitor and
went to the police.”
She underwent DNA tests, which proved
her father was in fact her son’s dad, too.
Then, a second girl came forward to report
that she too had been abused by Miss
Davey’s father.
In July 2013 Paul Davey, then 63, from
Suffolk, appeared at Ipswich Crown
Court and pleaded not guilty to rape,
indecent assault and one attempt of
procuring a miscarriage.
He was convicted of all counts and jailed
for 16 years.
Miss Davey said: “I’ll never get over what
my dad did.
“I wish I hadn’t gone looking for him. He
ruined my childhood.
“But I’m now back in touch with my
adoptive family and am finally happy.
Source: www.mirror.co.uk/news/real-life-stories/i-tracked-down-biological-father-5196748

Re: I Tracked Down My Biological Father But He Raped Me(A True Life Story) by benega: 5:36pm On Feb 20, 2015
Liez
Re: I Tracked Down My Biological Father But He Raped Me(A True Life Story) by 1960chic(f): 6:37am On Feb 21, 2015
So sad
Re: I Tracked Down My Biological Father But He Raped Me(A True Life Story) by Nobody: 11:02am On Feb 21, 2015
Bad man.

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