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| How Can I Truly Know? by Nobody: 7:12pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
I've got severe trust issues and I over-think a lot... How can I really know if someone truly cares about me? Thorpido Bukatyne I'm just tired of running away... I need to know, pleaseee. *crying* 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Truly Know? by bukatyne(f): 7:20pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Hi Keppy, What happened? What made you the way you are? You can send me a PM |
| Re: How Can I Truly Know? by Nobody: 7:25pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
bukatyne: Too many disappointments... I've beem crying all day and my Bp is high... |
| Re: How Can I Truly Know? by Nobody: 7:27pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Why must people always lie and pretend? I know, I'm not perfect but I'm a good person.  I'm tired of getting hurt always. |
| Re: How Can I Truly Know? by bukatyne(f): 7:31pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
keppyy: Like What? care to share? PM is still an option |
| Re: How Can I Truly Know? by Ab025(m): 7:35pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
@OP......some of u ladies want a guy to save the world like 007 before u can trust him. the truth is everyone is going to hurt u.....u just got to stick with the one worth staying with# 2 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Truly Know? by baralatie(m): 7:39pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
keppyy:do journey of a billion kilometer will never start until you take an millimetre inch step! a lot of people have issues but have moved to higher levels despite obstacles |
| Re: How Can I Truly Know? by Nobody: 7:49pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
bukatyne: Few years ago, my bestfriend/childhood friend had an affair with my fiance...this act has hunted me for a while. I can't say I've totally gotten over it. |
| Re: How Can I Truly Know? by Nobody: 7:51pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
baralatie: It's really not easy... |
| Re: How Can I Truly Know? by Nobody: 7:53pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
bukatyne: I committed to a relationship a few days ago and I'm just not settled. I don't know if it's my baggage hunting me. |
| Re: How Can I Truly Know? by Nobody: 7:56pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
I asked my Elder Sister to call him and ask him if he truly cares of if he is just playing games (I know it's childish) but she refused. |
| Re: How Can I Truly Know? by thorpido(m): 8:31pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Keppy, I was going to start by asking you about events in your past but you've already offered some information. You need to let go of your past and take every relationship like a blank exercise book page.Don't go into relationships with cynicism.It kills it off.Think that every new relationship will work. There are basic elements that help to build trust: openness,honesty,reliability,truth,sharing information and speaking out feelings,keeping secrets and loyalty. Look out for these elements in your relationships. Most importantly,don't get under the sheets.Give yourself time to really know someone. 2 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Truly Know? by baralatie(m): 8:35pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
keppyy:yes,it is not easy when fear is involved! but look at it this way! imagine a little baby eagle giving 10 billion reasons not fly! it will become a large bird waiting for other eagles to bring food to him for it to survive! likewise a baby elephant tied to a tree and it gave 25 trillion reasons not break away from its rope and the tree will become a very big elephant waiting another big elephant to cut the rope on his behalf! and in the jungle,that is not the rule! |
| Re: How Can I Truly Know? by baralatie(m): 8:39pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
it is a step at a time! not a 100m dash! not a wrestling match! just a step of faith (with God in your heart) then you begin to do beyond what you expect! 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Truly Know? by Nobody: 8:45pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Thank you @Thorpido and @baralatie |
| Re: How Can I Truly Know? by baralatie(m): 8:49pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
keppyy:you are welcome! |
| Re: How Can I Truly Know? by ifyalways(f): 9:12pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
When jungle mature for your side, nobody go tell you to sit tight and take charge of your life. You don't have to trust anyone to survive. No one is perfect and we all fail others including YOU. Accept that people fail, accept also that sometimes people who genuinely love and care might hurt you unintentional. Learn to forgive, learn to learn from every failure and please learn to MOVE on. YOLO. If you wanna wait for that human you will trust, you go old pass methusalem |
| Re: How Can I Truly Know? by Nobody: 2:41am On Mar 08, 2015 |
keppy pls let me have ur email addy |
| Re: How Can I Truly Know? by Adesiji77: 4:52am On May 18, 2015 |
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