Below is my predicament.

There's this girl I met sometime ago and I declared my interest towards her and we started dating though she was reluctant to date me and all, saying she doesn't want to date anyone for now, she's taking her time because of the failed relationships she's had but my persuasive spirit just won't free me. Anyways she agreed and we started dating(sexx was involved)

She initially told me about her past relationships and stuff as days turn to months only for her to inform me one morning about one of his ex wanting to come back and marry her. She said the dude gave her an engagement ring then but she didn't oblige to it cos of some issues she and the guy had in church then(they attend the same church). Okay to cut the long story short she said she has agreed to marry the guy come December this year and she broke the news to me that we should just remain as friends.

At first I was mad and all that she didn't bring this to my knowing and I quite remember her saying she wants to get married this year. Probably she doesn't see me as someone who's ready to settle down yet. She apologised and all and I said no problem that we re going to stay as friends.

Only for her to call me last week that she wanted to see me. I said no probs as I quite understand it should just be a casual visit. She came over to my house looking all clean and sexy. She said she just couldn't get her mind off me, that she still has feelings for me blah blah blah. To cut the long story short we shagged.

My predicament now is this. I really don't get. Is she using me as a boy toy or what? I still have feelings for her tho but I just don't know if this is right. I need matured responses please. Thanks

d earlier u let go of her d beta,she is using u to cure konji
N besides didnt u njoy d tin

CodeineJunkiee:
Is she using me as a boy toy or what? I still have feelings for her tho but I just don't know if this is right. I need matured responses please. Thanks

You already know the drill...

Brandnew2:


You already know the drill...

Lol and is that a good thing? I want to start seeing someone else but I'm kinda still stuck to her emotionally