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Bad.

To me.

Snooping is bad.
Things can be misunderstood.

It can only be used as the last resort.
When all other alternatives have being considered.


Lastly, one man's food is another man's poison.

Going through the way you defined snooping It can only be conditioned good if you have a double mind about the person or suspecting an unfaithful 'movement' by the person and you feel he or she is not really being honest with you about your suspicion. Most people will want to satisfy their curiosity thereby "snooping" through the partners stuffs(phone etc)

U can snoop whatever but not my phone.

I do snoop because I do not want to be made a fool of, again.
My stance, if you have nothing to hide then I don't see why you'd have a problem with me going through your shyt. People can be quite deceitful so it's kinda hard to fully trust again after you've been duped by someone you trusted. Hence some may resort to snooping to ease the paranoia that they might be getting played for a fool again.

Fool me once, shame on YOU. Fool me twice, shame on ME. That sort of thing. Shrugs.

I hate it.its the reason many ppl r unhappy

I hate it.its the reason many relations r sour

I would snoop just for the sake of snooping...

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LaurelP:
I get ur point
But some do it just to satisfy a curiosity, not really to avoid being cheated on. I've never cheated on my girl but she snoops on me anyway.

Have you ever had discussions about past relationships? Maybe some guy in her past did something to make her this "curious"/suspicious now. It's never about you & what you, the current lover, have done. It's more complex than that. Even if you can swear up & down about how different you are from the rest of the canine men out there, a person with trust issues still will believe their own evidence over your hot air. I don't know the reasons behind her snooping though, I can only speak from my own perspective.

Good luck.

Snooping can be right or wrong, it depends on the situation.

Continuous snooping can be termed stalking and stalking is bad. I don't usually snoop on a girl I'm dating because I can't date someone I don't trust. If I don't trust a girl, we can never date. So I let any girl I'm dating do her thing, but if I suspect she's cheating or playing dirty games, then imma have snoop to confirm my fears. That's the only time I can snoop on my girl.