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Mistakes You Don’t Want To Make While You’re Young by wenson(m): 6:54pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
You’re 25-years old and have your whole life ahead of you, or at least that’s the plan. You also have been firmly convinced that you know everything. Let me tell you, you don’t. But for those who’d like to listen, here is a little advice from old folks about mistakes you do not want to make while you’re young. Some will haunt you for life. 1) Getting married to the wrong person , too soon – there’s no law stating that you have to get married in your twenties. There should be a law against marrying the wrong person without seriously considering the consequences . Ending a bad relationship is difficult. Ending a bad marriage is anightmare . You have the rest of your life to fall in love, don’t rush it. 2) Neglecting your health – You’re young, slim and looking good, with no exercise and a horrible diet. Just wait a few years, when you are gaining weight that never goes away or your hooked up to some machine because you’ve spent your whole life smoking or drinking. Start good habits now and they will stay with you for life. 3) Not investing in your future – you think that dropping out of school is the right thing to do? Let’s hope you’re not 40 years old hating yourself for not making the right decision. If you fail to plan today, you are throwing tomorrow into the garbage. Also, you should start saving for retirement now, not when you have enough money. You’ll never feel like you have enough. 4) Choosing a career for money and nothing else – Money feels really good the first time you receive it. Then, over time, the impact diminishes. You’ll be addicted to the paycheck, of course, but it won’t make you feel good about getting up every day for a job you hate. Find a profession that helps you to earn a decent living, while also giving you some joy, or start a business on the side. It’ll truly impact your quality of life. 5) Neglecting the importance of family – Family is all you’ve got most of the time. That love interest who swears he’ll be by your side forever probably won’t, but a good parent or sibling always will. Also, if you have kids, you should realize that these are the precious times, and also the time when you’ll be forming that lifelong foundation. Don’t blow it. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Mistakes You Don’t Want To Make While You’re Young by Nobody: 7:05pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
The difference between who you are and what you want to become is WHAT U DO 1 Like |
Re: Mistakes You Don’t Want To Make While You’re Young by detee2: 7:08pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
#hardfacts Life is all about decision and choices. Either good or bad, consequences awaits us. Good one @ OP 1 Like |
Re: Mistakes You Don’t Want To Make While You’re Young by fromnigeria(m): 7:12pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
OP you are on point. Am wise enough to know these things now... Thanks for the reminder. |
Re: Mistakes You Don’t Want To Make While You’re Young by xpac01(m): 7:14pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
Good one. |
Re: Mistakes You Don’t Want To Make While You’re Young by NifemiOlu(m): 7:45pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
My uncle several years ago got two jobs. One with CBN, the other with Kwara water corporation. This happened in the 70's/80's. Kwara water corporation offered him around N66 while CBN offered far less. He chose Kwara water. He has retired with almost nothing to show for his years of service. We can easily picture what life would have been if he had chosen CBN back then. As young people, money should never be the only reason for our decisions especially when it relates to careers. This is a grave mistake many youths are making. |
Re: Mistakes You Don’t Want To Make While You’re Young by MizMyColi(f): 7:57pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
Re: Mistakes You Don’t Want To Make While You’re Young by Nobody: 7:59pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
Preacher |
Re: Mistakes You Don’t Want To Make While You’re Young by Nobody: 8:17pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
youths will always make mistakes, even Obama admitted he used hard drugs in high school ,the smart ones will still correct the mistakes while the fool!sh ones will drown in it 1 Like |
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