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Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by Venymen(m): 8:50am On Mar 10, 2015 |
[color=#770077][/color] :-XOda women are complaining dia hussy is cheating on dem,bullying dem,maltreating dem,ur complaining urs watch porn,am speechless |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by ifyboi(m): 8:53am On Mar 10, 2015 |
EfemenaXY:It does not matter whether his wife satisfies him or not. The point is he is addicted. The addiction cannot break even if his wife gets better in bed. have yu not heard of singles who are addicted to porn that get married and still remain addicted? truth be told, pornography is causing a great havoc in today's society and we really have to do something about it. The major problem is that it is so readily avaliable on d Internet. .. GOD HELP THIS GENERATION 1 Like |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by Nobody: 8:53am On Mar 10, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: Takes two to get a good boudoir experience. Wonder how the man's technique is. And BTW.....this is a problem IMO....that started for the man long before he met Madam... 1 Like |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by Nobody: 8:56am On Mar 10, 2015 |
metroid: The problem with your comment is that you think sex is all about you. It ain't. It is about you and your partner. And there are other ways to soar erotic..... 1 Like |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by Nobody: 9:00am On Mar 10, 2015 |
Women. Do not let your life ambition end after marriage and kids. It is not easy but you must look sexxxxxxxy and ready to eat. If you no wan come last in this game. |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by Venymen(m): 9:00am On Mar 10, 2015 |
Redlips22:do u know weda his wife is a learner |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by Nobody: 9:02am On Mar 10, 2015 |
Bennymontana: The Priest may have thought you that but it aint a sanctioned teaching of the Church he claims to be a priest in. |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by Missmossy(f): 9:02am On Mar 10, 2015 |
Chai! Such a terrible one. I really pity the woman. They should better seek for counselling as a couple. 2 Likes |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by englishmart(m): 9:02am On Mar 10, 2015 |
lonelydora:in france, Je ne parle français. And not igbo |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by Nobody: 9:04am On Mar 10, 2015 |
EfemenaXY:. What an inference. Am sure you never considered the possibility that the woman may not lacking in that area. Neither have you considered the possibility that the man could have been into gay porn or even into trans porn. In which am sure with your "smart" conclusion she should grow a dick? For the record when people pour out their heart, show some empathy if you want to make conclusion based on limited info please do consider other scenario. 1 Like |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by Nobody: 9:05am On Mar 10, 2015 |
olu77: I also hink some category of Priests should be allowed to get married but I don't hold this view because of the reasons you gave. Some married people engage themselves in such acts too, if not worse. |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by Nobody: 9:12am On Mar 10, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: Oh you are one of them Catholics who do not know the faith they profess. A little study would do you no harm. EfemenaXY: Young lady, you are going off a tangent. Stick to topic! I didn't tell you I am Catholic, even though I am. The thread is not about how you or I choose to approach the teachings of the Church. The thread is about the challenge of a couple concerning an addiction both believe to be illicit. If you have something reasonable to say about it, please do and stop making this about what you or I believe. |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by TheFilmmaker: 9:13am On Mar 10, 2015 |
cinovikthor: Weak people. Stop blaming the devil for your perversions. The devil does not exist. Take responsibility. CC MrPresident |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by Nobody: 9:15am On Mar 10, 2015 |
dewstar: You said it! She has no idea! |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by zeongeon: 9:16am On Mar 10, 2015 |
Some women just have to check themselves before complaining I know of men who complain that after marriage when they want to try some certain sex position with there woman, the woman would look at them in a very annoying manner and ask him such questions like "do I look like a prostitute" Well if u can't fulfill ur husbands fantasy porn will do it for him which will lead him to get side chicks that will be happy to try out all he has seen in porn. |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by Nobody: 9:19am On Mar 10, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: Duly noted and apologies. |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by Nobody: 9:19am On Mar 10, 2015 |
[quote author=Abiagirl777 post=31476438][/quote] It is not a must to be Catholic. Need I remind you?? Two adults chose Catholicism and decided to follow every Teaching of the Church, which by the way is not forced on anyone, just like Jesus never forced Judas to do what is right. |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by SweetWJ(m): 9:21am On Mar 10, 2015 |
tete7000:. tete7000:. Well, u may be right but i will not agree with you. I will still disprove your point with the following reasons. 1. Men are different from women when it comes to pretence or being secretive. A woman can pretend or hide a secret longer than the man for the simple reason that women are more sensitive, more intuitive and more instinctive than men. They easily feel it when something is going wrong. Some may say that its not all women but am telling you all women are of this nature. If this is absent in any women then its because she married with a different interest and not because she love the man or she's among those women chasing after money, power and societal recognition. From the story, the woman only discovered after 15yrs. What do you make of that? If truly the man was addicted before marriage, then she is grossly incompetent in her duty as a good housewife. 2. Most men who are addicted to porn before marriage also engage the women to be part of their adventure so that both of them can rehearse what they watched together. 3. The woman is a troublesome type because from the story, she said she wished it was a real physical woman her husband was having affair with so that she will know whom to fight. Most women believe that fighting a husbands concubine can solve it. 3. The woman fail to realise as a christian woman that she need to keep her family together with Gods words. The bible say that homes are made by the wisdom of women but it is destroyed by foolishness. Prov. 14v1. Where does she belong in this scripture. Carefully read the story and you find out that the woman did not even make any effort to communicate with her husband about the situation and possibly remedy it rather she was even wishing he was doing drugs which is even the worse. To me this woman is only looking for an excuse to leave the marriage. She is looking for a concrete excuse. In that letter to the priest she said it clearly that she not giving an advice and also not soliciting for any help. The woman knows exactly what she's doing. She is only angry because she now realose that what she is doing to pain the man is now resulting to abstract jealousy on her part (how women hate this). 4. The may have indulge in porn for self satisfaction as the wife who is supposed to satisfy his sexual needs is starving him (women are expert in this) and he doesnt want to be caught in adultery with another woman due to his position in the church. To crown it all, i blame the man as well. Because salvation is personal. He should have thought about his soul and the wellbeing of the children as well. I rest my case. |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by Nobody: 9:22am On Mar 10, 2015 |
ABEG WHICH KIND STORY BE THIS |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by lonelydora: 9:32am On Mar 10, 2015 |
englishmart:In french, et moi aussi |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by dasparrow: 9:40am On Mar 10, 2015 |
@Post The biggest problems in marriage are sex and finances. The man should seek help for his addiction. 1 Like |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by UyiIredia(m): 10:29am On Mar 10, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: This is an unfair assumption and a very foolish one at that. 2 Likes |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by ask4bk(m): 10:36am On Mar 10, 2015 |
SmooshCHN: Don't blame it on the Church. I'm catholic and we are told in premarriage courses that it's the duty of a spouse to satisfy the other fully. This involves communication between the two, to know what gives them the best satisfaction. And if a spouse doesn't do it, then he/she has failed. We are told this in the Catholic Church. But some people still don't learn. They feel ashamed to talk about sex pleasure with each other. Like "Nneka, biko let me stay under and u stand on my Dick and pound it like a horse. I like it" or "Femi, pls before u insert, I love it if u stimulate my clito.ris with ur hands" They are ashamed to say it, and I wonder why. Well it's all on personality. With my personality I won't hide what I want to my wife. So don't blame Church. They are told to explore themselves sexually, but they don't. Others do, and their family is rocking. |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by Emax(m): 10:37am On Mar 10, 2015 |
Your husband needs a holy touch and your story will change positively! Seek for greater power from above. This situation maybe to test your faith. |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by SmooshCHN: 10:39am On Mar 10, 2015 |
ask4bk:Sorry I generalized, I didn't mean it that way. But I get your point. Couples will save their marriage the more they open up to each other. Beliefs shouldn't be a reason for broken marriage. |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by Nobody: 10:47am On Mar 10, 2015 |
Oildichotomy: Men ehn... |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by layinkakeem(m): 10:54am On Mar 10, 2015 |
Is there any option for us to cancel porn Porn has turned the world to something else oooooo |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by ask4bk(m): 11:07am On Mar 10, 2015 |
SmooshCHN: Cool, bro |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by Toks2008(m): 11:19am On Mar 10, 2015 |
englishmart: Seconded. Porn is so terribly addictive and one needs strong discipline and lots of help from the holy spirit to stop it. Neverthelss I believe that while single guys use the excuse of lonesomeness I do not think its good for a married man to get addicted to it. But conclusively I wwould suggest that porn addicts should seelk Gods help rather than fgt it on their own. Its a spiritually influenced act. That affects both married and single people. |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by Exsinner: 11:29am On Mar 10, 2015 |
Porn addiction is real. If you doubt it, you are either naive or just lying to yourself. |
Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by onoja12: 11:54am On Mar 10, 2015 |
him carry babe that na offence,him marry second wife na offence too,ok him decide not to carry babe nor marry second wife,that na bigger offence.Women watin dey do una,i have concluded that women just like trouble,if they don't see it then they must create it. emusmith: |
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