urchbarbie:
Babes! U no see Iranu ni?

big iranu dear..may God gv us wisdom 2 do the right thing

Like one that was fighting his wife last week that she didn't get him airtime. The woman pays the rent of the house, buy food and provision, pay the children school fee.
He is still calling himself the head of the house because he has pri.ck

Your pix is so wrong on many levels.

I don't know where u get to see such men, but its a fact that most Nigerian men are hardworking.

Anyways, you don't know what it takes to be a man, so Im not going to join issues with you.

Most u say? So its not all then. The remaining fall into dis class then

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Anaskie:
Your pix is so wrong on many levels.

I don't know where u get to see such men, but its a fact that most Nigerian men are hardworking.

Anyways, you don't know what it takes to be a man, so Im not going to join issues with you.

My dear. I knw of an uncle who does not do anytin rather keeps living off his wife's recharge card biz. A shame dear. A couple others I knw of dat dier wives cater for n they sit @home in boxers all day long

Amuga:
Like one that was fighting his wife last week that she didn't get him airtime. The woman pays the rent of the house, buy food and provision, pay the children school fee.
He is still calling himself the head of the house because he has pri.ck

urchbarbie:
My dear. I knw of an uncle who does not do anytin rather keeps living off his wife's recharge card biz. A shame dear. A couple others I knw of dat dier wives cater for n they sit @home in boxers all day long

Imagine.... Men sitting at home for women to go and hustle. Those kind of men are now full time house husband.

Yet! They wld cross arms n wait for d lady to come do house chores n bed chores. Mba nu!

Amuga:
Imagine.... Men sitting at home for women to go and hustle. Those kind of men are now full time house husband.

So this is supposed to be a useless male bashing thread?

You women will always blow with a trumpet whenever you spend a kobo on your familly or husband. Look at this 0p telling stories of men living off women and she forgot that, the man must have been spending immensely on the woman at the beginning. Once a woman does a small favour to the hubby, they'll forget everything the man's been doing for them.

Marriage of today are useless because women of today are becoming useless. They disrespect their husbands and they cheat more than men.

Amuga:
Like one that was fighting his wife last week that she didn't get him airtime. The woman pays the rent of the house, buy food and provision, pay the children school fee.
He is still calling himself the head of the house because he has pri.ck

No, he's not the head of the house just because he has pri.ck. He's the head of the house because he's the one that decided he want to call her his wife, he paid her brideprice, put her under his love, care and protection. Ultimately, he's the head of the house because God says so.

There is nothing wrong with a woman helping out when the man is unable to, that won't and shouldn't make her the head of the house.

U men r just a funny lot. Just a few of u discern tin without being overly sentimental. Haba! U can read whr she wrote d husband was fighting her cox of airtime. Yet u say nofin to dat. Its no crime to help out ur husband, but he shld be fair in dealing with her. U can't provide yet u make life unbearable for her. When ure home u won't help out. She cleans, cooks, finance? Haba! Not fair. In my tribe, women aint made to suffer dats why we are called oriaku (enjoy wealth). If ur mentality tells u dat its fair a woman helps out when d man is financially dwn n won't tell u to help out with chores in d home then dats a weird man. U won't make a gud husband too

xcitedjay:


No, he's not the head of the house just because he has pri.ck. He's the head of the house because he's the one that decided he want to call her his wife, he paid her brideprice, put her under his love, care and protection. Ultimately, he's the head of the house because God says so.

There is nothing wrong with a woman helping out when the man is unable to, that won't and shouldn't make her the head of the house.

You'd be a disaster to your own home should you start a family with the mentality you displayed above.

Its not a male bashing thread dear. As for cheating, the ratio of men who cheat and are voilent is higher compared to women. Get d statistic from any country of ur choice. We shldnt blow d trumpet when u make life miserable while trying to do ur job? Haba! Be sincere n truthful to urself, how many homes complain whr d both couple do a combined effort? Whr d husband hustles and wife does same, while he helps her with some chores. So many NLs enjoying such wld come forth and tell u. My dear! Life should av a balance dere. No one came to suffer s

chibic:
So this is supposed to be a useless male bashing thread?

You women will always blow with a trumpet whenever you spend a kobo on your familly or husband. Look at this 0p telling stories of men living off women and she forgot that, the man must have been spending immensely on the woman at the beginning. Once a woman does a small favour to the hubby, they'll forget everything the man's been doing for them.

Marriage of today are useless because women of today are becoming useless. They disrespect their husbands and they cheat more than men.

chibic:
So this is supposed to be a useless male bashing thread?

You women will always blow with a trumpet whenever you spend a kobo on your familly or husband. Look at this 0p telling stories of men living off women and she forgot that, the man must have been spending immensely on the woman at the beginning. Once a woman does a small favour to the hubby, they'll forget everything the man's been doing for them.

Marriage of today are useless because women of today are becoming useless. They disrespect their husbands and they cheat more than men.

My brother, dont waste your time arguing on this thread.

I really dont understand some of the ladies we have on this forum. A woman spends a few naira on her family and suddenly, the man becomes nothing to her.

Im yet to understand their concept of a family. To them, its the man's absolute duty to provide for all the financial needs of the house.

What is wrong in a woman catering for the home when her man is unable to do so?

These are the type of ladies who'll sue for a divorce immediately the husband gets sacked from work.

Reminds me of what a lady once told me..."His money is OUR money and my money is MY money"

Its really sad.

Swt@! Am not against a woman helping out financially in d home. Av never said dat. My kind of person doesn't tink my life ends "in d kitchen". Av got a career and when I can't cont with dat, I wld av a means of supporting my home. In as much as I knw dat certain situations culd make a man unable to cater for d home, I won't sit back and endure any unfair treatment from dat man. How wld I be doing much work and he makes my life unbearable by beating me up, letting me slave to get kids ready for skul etc yl he sits back with his legs on d center table. Nna m! No man shld sit home with d pretext dat he can't provide. There a thousand n one jobs u can do outside to put food on d table for ur family.

Anaskie:
My brother, dont waste your time arguing on this thread.

I really dont understand some of the ladies we have on this forum. A woman spends a few naira on her family and suddenly, the man becomes nothing to her.

Im yet to understand their concept of a family. To them, its the man's absolute duty to provide for all the financial needs of the house.

What is wrong in a woman catering for the home when her man is unable to do so?

These are the type of ladies who'll sue for a divorce immediately the husband gets sacked from work.

Reminds me of what a lady once told me..."His money is OUR money and my money is MY money"

Its really sad.

urchbarbie:
U men r just a funny lot. Just a few of u discern tin without being overly sentimental. Haba! U can read whr she wrote d husband was fighting her cox of airtime. Yet u say nofin to dat. Its no crime to help out ur husband, but he shld be fair in dealing with her. U can't provide yet u make life unbearable for her. When ure home u won't help out. She cleans, cooks, finance? Haba! Not fair. In my tribe, women aint made to suffer dats why we are called oriaku (enjoy wealth). If ur mentality tells u dat its fair a woman helps out when d man is financially dwn n won't tell u to help out with chores in d home then dats a weird man. U won't make a gud husband too

Edited my last paragraph out after I found out you're actually married.

I am not being sentimental. You'd agree with me that if you truly are in love with your husband, you wouldn't deny him something as little as airtime. If a lady can deny her own husband airtime then she wouldn't mind denying him sex. After all it's only hos pri.ck that he has to offer.

"Women ain't meant to suffer..." but what happens when the wealth ain't there anymore? The man seizes being the head of the house? It's the decision you as a woman take at points like this, that brings you out as a Virtuous woman or otherwise.

Am not married dear,but d woman n d case study.

xcitedjay:


Edited my last paragraph out after I found out you're actually married.

I am not being sentimental. You'd agree with me that if you truly are in love with your husband, you wouldn't deny him something as little as airtime. If a lady can deny her own husband airtime then she wouldn't mind denying him sex. After all it's only hos pri.ck that he has to offer.

"Women ain't meant to suffer..." but what happens when the wealth ain't there anymore? The man seizes being the head of the house? It's the decision you as a woman take at points like this, that brings you out as a Virtuous woman or otherwise.

urchbabie and feyifahm, I sight both of u oooo.

meanwhile wetin una see wey una dey talk. dis town abi Na village where I'm serving is a good example of dat pix posted up dia.

the men do nothing except smoke all day and den d wives goes to d market and to worsen d matter it is d women dat farms.
Mehn!!!!! I was disgusted wen I saw dia kind of lifestyle here.

Chineke me!!!!!! Which villa be dat? Kai! A women libertaion seminar needs to hold dwn dere asap.

trendiitee:
urchbabie and feyifahm, I sight both of u oooo.

meanwhile wetin una see wey una dey talk. dis town abi Na village where I'm serving is a good example of dat pix posted up dia.

the men do nothing except smoke all day and den d wives goes to d market and to worsen d matter it is d women dat farms.
Mehn!!!!! I was disgusted wen I saw dia kind of lifestyle here.

urchbarbie:
Chineke me!!!!!! Which villa be dat? Kai! A women libertaion seminar needs to hold dwn dere asap.

Na one villa in rivers state ooo. d women Na d breadwinner while d men re d breadwaster. lollllll
most annoying part is dis men who re dependent on deir wives now take deir promiscuity down to corp members. imagine a man with 5 or 6 kids whom d wife is feeding telling me dat he is going to take care of me?

Lwbmb! Rivers state. Kai! Dat state get high level of promiscous individuals. 1 in every 5young lady is a baby mama. Abeg dey ur lane o! Take care of u fire.

trendiitee:
Na one villa in rivers state ooo. d women Na d breadwinner while d men re d breadwaster. lollllll
most annoying part is dis men who re dependent on deir wives now take deir promiscuity down to corp members. imagine a man with 5 or 6 kids whom d wife is feeding telling me dat he is going to take care of me?

@man with 5 or 6 kids

urchbarbie:
Lwbmb! Rivers state. Kai! Dat state get high level of promiscous individuals. 1 in every 5young lady is a baby mama. Abeg dey ur lane o! Take care of u fire.

Lol! Try him na.

urchbarbie:
Lwbmb! Rivers state. Kai! Dat state get high level of promiscous individuals. 1 in every 5young lady is a baby mama. Abeg dey ur lane o! Take care of u fire.

lollllll. u can trust me now, no time for thrash.
how re u doing by d way? saw u on dat kitchen thread

chibic:
@man with 5 or 6 kids

I ain't joking oooo

No tnk u on her behalf

jerrymej:



Lol! Try him na.

Okay na, we have two of this thread and counting.

Lolx! I do trust u dear. Yh! I cook here wella o.

trendiitee:
lollllll. u can trust me now, no time for thrash.
how re u doing by d way? saw u on dat kitchen thread

urchbarbie:
Lolx! I do trust u dear. Yh! I cook here wella o.

Na dat cook be my 2nd name. lollll.
but snapping d food is an entirely difficult task

Mine was first. Saw d other thread too [img][/img]

freecocoa:
Okay na, we have two of this thread and counting.

Snap na work ni?

trendiitee:
Na dat cook be my 2nd name. lollll.
but snapping d food is an entirely difficult task

ifyalways:
Choices.

Don't know such type of men. Never will either.

My sentiments exactly...