Pls young husband in the house. What will be your reaction if your wife called you Oponu,idiot or all sorts of nasty names like that when both of you have misunderstanding. This happened to a friend when he was correcting his wife on something she did wrong.

telos the truth it happened to you and not any friend

ayowonder:
telos the truth it happened to you and not any friend

He def must be oponu

My babe recently said, lulu "ode" ni e. She did say it with respect,we had an arguement. I felt bad to have been told that, but there are rewards for such saying.

you will call her apoda.

Dyt:


He def must be oponu

kai kai


OP.... That is not a befitting name to throw around at one's better half. People should take a deep breath before saying regretful words, it cuts deep especially when the abusee is not very good with words.

The husband should just take a hike to avoid 'stories that touch' jare

To non-Yoruba speaking folks : OPONU is synonymous with dumb or numbskull .

The husband even said he will send her packing that he is tired of her bad attitude, despite all he has done to satisfy and make her comfortable.

Why would any use such word on the person you Love?it will keep ringing in thier ears but wait o,it cant b her first time,shed have been calling small small names and the Op not telling her its bad

What does it mean?

What does it mean?

Dunno d meanin, abi na french Word

Deviance, disrespect, low self-control in marriage.....
I wonder how she would tell her kids(if any) "do not insult! Its sinful and hurting to use abusive words on anyone"

I don't even know why I'm laughing but OP, hope the man doesn't call her names too? Let it not be that he's fuming because he thinks as a man, he shouldn't be talked down to but can do same to her.

No one deserves to be abused.

wife call your friend oponu? well your friend should warn his wife sternly never to insult him again or else she would reap the consequences of her actions. I really don't know why some Nigerian women can control their tongues.

Somebody tell me what it means na

mytime24:
Dunno d meanin, abi na french Word

it means mumu!

Yomieluv:
you will call her apoda.

Why call names?I just don't understand how some people are quick with throwing insult even when it not necessary.

Very unladylike....

coogar:


it means mumu!

It is deeper than that.Mumu is nicer

slimyem:
It is deeper than that.Mumu is nicer

ok....
tell me in detailed explanation - what is oponu?

coogar:


ok....
tell me in detailed explanation - what is oponu?

I didn't say you were totally out of line. Mumu just does not hit as much as oponu would.
The two can substitute but it doesn't mean their weights are the same.

Advice the op.
What would you do if your wife calls you that?

slimyem:
I didn't say you were totally out of line. Mumu just does not hit as much as oponu would.
The two can substitute but it doesn't mean their weights are the same.

Advice the op.
What would you do if your wife calls you that?

get a very flexible cane.
ask my meiguard to back her like a mother backs a child.......i would then go to work with 12 brain-reseting strokes of the cane on her bütt.

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Oponu=idi.ot
Apoda=imbe.cile

I cannot imagine ever calling my hubby oponu, I may mutter under my breath dumbass but I would never say it out loud

I will say tolerance is the key here. Women say worse things than this to the men (husbands). Men should just learn to tolerate and move on with their lives. I guess only the married ones here know this. No matter how godly a woman is, you may not be able to take that aspect of derogatory statements out of her but for God's divine touch. That does not mean you shouldn't express your displeasure to her at the right time. Thanks. ........................................buy 1GB MTN Data plan for N1,200 only. 30 days duration. 24/7 services available. Call: 08107873795. Thanks & God bless.

The husband should call her oponu back and should then try to resolve their issue.

Life continue.

Ur wifey insulted U and u are asking NLanders what to do.. kiss her.
I wonder why we live our life on social media now.
Beside wifey calling hubby name is a big no no. What will she tell her kids?
Smh for some women.

ROTFL



Oponu, ode, eleyin jegejege, amongst
others are the names my neighbor calls her very gentle and loving husband

I wonder why a woman will use such foul language on her husband. This is a man that takes care of her in all ways... Anyways she overdid it one very bad day, her husband gave her d beating of her life. He dealth with her ruthlessly and I was veryyyyyyy Happy about it