They were warned severally by their pastors not to elaborate the wedding ceremony but the in-laws (famous family) is ready to bring everything to the table to ensure the world hears about the wedding.

The family, on knowing to the in laws decision, decided to engage themselves on a marathon fasting and prayers and planned the wedding on their part in a very low key. The went as far as not inviting neighbours for the wedding as the wedding was held at a far distant event hall.

To cut the whole story short, the bride mother passed on 2 days after the wedding without trace of any ailment/cause.

Since the demise of the mother, her sister has been blaming herself for her mothers death saying her mother died because she failed to listen to the pastors not to have an elaborate wedding.

This is beginning to affect her relationship with her sister and her husband.

There is fear that she might go ahead to hurt herself and the sister, being the only sister, is perplexed and dont even know what to do.

Please your matured advice will be appreciated

Biliamin:

They were warned severally by their pastors not to elaborate the wedding ceremony but the in-laws (famous family) is ready to bring everything to the table to ensure the world hears about the wedding.

The family, on knowing to the in laws decision, decided to engage themselves on a marathon fasting and prayers and planned the wedding on their part in a very low key. The went as far as not inviting neighbours for the wedding as the wedding was held at a far distant event hall.

To cut the whole story short, the bride mother passed on 2 days after the wedding without trace of any ailment/cause.

Since the demise of the mother, her sister has been blaming herself for her mothers death saying her mother died because she failed to listen to the pastors not to have an elaborate wedding.

This is beginning to affect her relationship with her sister and her husband.

There is fear that she might go ahead to hurt herself and the sister, being the only sister, is perplexed and dont even know what to do.

Please your matured advise will be appreciated

Okay

some people and their way of thinking

Biliamin:

They were warned severally by their pastors not to elaborate the wedding ceremony but the in-laws (famous family) is ready to bring everything to the table to ensure the world hears about the wedding.
The family, on knowing to the in laws decision, decided to engage themselves on a marathon fasting and prayers and planned the wedding on their part in a very low key. The went as far as not inviting neighbours for the wedding as the wedding was held at a far distant event hall.
To cut the whole story short, the bride mother passed on 2 days after the wedding without trace of any ailment/cause.
Since the demise of the mother, her sister has been blaming herself for her mothers death saying her mother died because she failed to listen to the pastors not to have an elaborate wedding.
This is beginning to affect her relationship with her sister and her husband.
There is fear that she might go ahead to hurt herself and the sister, being the only sister, is perplexed and dont even know what to do.
Please your matured advise will be appreciated

The family is too fetish and I won't be wrong if I add diabolical.
What is the relationship between having an elaborate wedding and their mother dying? Even with the marathon prayers and low key/distand hall event the woman still died and someone is blaming herself. Na wa!

I would be careful dealing with such people

It's just coincidence!


I don't know why Africans like to link everything, especially death to supernatural.



I know i'm going to be attacked by religious fanatics, but mehn, even if the wedding was low-keyed, the person who is destined to die will still die.

Gboliwe:


The family is too fetish and I won't be wrong if I add diabolical.
What is the relationship between having an elaborate wedding and their mother dying? I would be careful dealing with such people

it is not about the family. it is the bride that is disturbed because the mother passed on 2 days after her wedding and her sister is looking for how to change her thinking hence this post

Did you people perform an autopsy to know the cause of death?

We claim to be religious yet believe in useless practices...

Kai! Wetin religion go cause for this country still plenty.

Upon all the prayer and fasting o, mschew.

Very funny.

Anyway pls tell her to be strong.
RIP to their mama

She needs a renewing of the mind.The mother's death has nothing to do with the wedding.
You said the family fasted and prayed afteral.Was their prayer not effective?
She should settle into her wedding and begin to build her family.
Her mama don do her own.

The dead has gone







She need to pick her life and not try anything stupid..
Because some could want to take their lives also.
And the husband and wife needs to help her come out of the depressed state she is

dre11:
The dead has gone







She need to pick her life and not try anything stupid..
Because some could want to take their lives also.
And the husband and wife needs to help her come out of the depressed state she is

thank you

Scratches head

Dyt:
Scratches head

and?

Biliamin:


and?

Blows nose

Smh for some people. Now, the instilled fear and manipulated your family to be at war.

Stop believing all those prophets. Its a coincidence.

Biliamin:
They were warned severally by their pastors not to elaborate the wedding ceremony but the in-laws (famous family) is ready to bring everything to the table to ensure the world hears about the wedding.

The family, on knowing to the in laws decision, decided to engage themselves on a marathon fasting and prayers and planned the wedding on their part in a very low key. The went as far as not inviting neighbours for the wedding as the wedding was held at a far distant event hall.

To cut the whole story short, the bride mother passed on 2 days after the wedding without trace of any ailment/cause.

Since the demise of the mother, her sister has been blaming herself for her mothers death saying her mother died because she failed to listen to the pastors not to have an elaborate wedding.

This is beginning to affect her relationship with her sister and her husband.

There is fear that she might go ahead to hurt herself and the sister, being the only sister, is perplexed and dont even know what to do.

Please your matured advice will be appreciated

The bride would always feel guilty and probably blame her husband and inlaws

She should consolation in the fact that they planned the wedding low key on their end.

Her husband has his work cut out for him.. The sister also geniunely reassuring her they do not hold her responsible will also go a long way.

RIP to mama and blessings to her home.