You can't do without ROMANCE in marriage. When
you talk about Romance, a lot of people don't know
what it means. Being Romance for example is
helping in the kitchen, helping the children's
assignment,e.t.c. Some people think Romance is
only when you get to the bedroom and try to touch.
That is why a lot of men say their wives are not
sexually unresponsive. Why would they be sexually
responsive when we are not in the 19th century
when women stayed at home? Women now go to
work, most are managers in their places of works
and that is the masculine mode. Bγ̲ the time they get
home they need to switch back to the terminal mode
and you need to help them.
This is because they leave work and get home
sometimes before their wives and all they do is
watch TV and expect this woman that just came back
from work to go to the kitchen and fix the meal, take
care of the children, do their assignments, and at
you expect her to give you sex. That is not done in
the first place because she is tired. That is not
Romance.
Men, Romance is when you get home at the same
time time and you say Sweetheart why don't you go
and take a shower, let me fix the meal. Or
Sweetheart why don't you fix the meal,let me help
the children with their assignments. Now it becomes
a shared responsibility and she looks at that man
and praise you before her friends and tell them how
Romantic you are.
When a man talks about Romance, he wants to
touch, he wants to have sex but when a Woman
talks about Romance, sex is the last thing to her.
Romance to her shows her the things you do for
her, like sending hot text messages, taking her out,
and helping her out. These are basic things that you
can afford to do in marriages. I discovered that
most men do it before marriage to win the woman
and by the time the woman says "YES I DO" the men
№ longer do in wedlock the very little things that
won her heart. What you did to win her is the same
thing you must do to sustain your marriage.
That is why men are naturally. So once the woman
say 'Yes I Do', there is no motivation to continue
"loving her". They reason that I already have her.
She can't even leave but the truth is, you don't know
what damage you do to your woman that way. You
need to nurture your marriage.
You have to create time, because so many couples
are going through stress, communication issues and
problem in the marriage. Open Day is observed
once a week.
OPEN DAY is a day of the week couples have chosen
when they are free to express your mind based on
what your spouse has done.
ROYALTY DAY is a day when you take your spouse
out and treat her as the most important person in
the world. You may not even have to take her out.
You just tell her 'Sweetheart' I'm going to be
responsible for what is going to happen in the
house. So the man does the cooking and sweeping.
All your wife does is she relax in the bedroom.
Some people may say their marriage is not
suffering, but ask your wife how happy is she. You
will realize tharyour wife is not happy, she is just
tolerating the marriage. Probably she just learnt to
take you for who you are because she doesn't want
to break her home. That is why you hear women
say: I am married to my children. A woman does not
need to be married to the children because she is
married to you. You were the one she fell in love
withnot the children, so we need to make out time in
the midst of our busy schedule. Men who do extra
marital stuff create time for their girls don't they?
They do. The same time you want to create for those
girls, invest it in your spouse and you will get a
better person from her. ROMANCE is not all about
Touching or having Sex.
Ladies if you agree with me, click like. Men, if You
agree feel free to comment
#OMOLEWA cares.

Means different strokes for different folk!
Given that romance is not an item in African sufferhead marriages, I prefer a man who can stay employed and pick up after himself ALWAYS!

Op am a very short reader summary or ...........

I agree op. But we have different outlook to life; chore sharing is the least of my worries in marriage as long as he's emotionally supportive like you also touched in your post, I'm good.

Emotional support : Emotional support is about helping to lift someone to higher ground so he or she can see their way through the difficulty. Having someone to rely on when the chips are down is one of the best parts of being in a relationship.

I like the open & Royality days concept too ... How else will couples remain sane if they deprive themselves quality time? You forget to add ALONE DAY .

Nice write up

Lazy women,how can helping in the kitchen be romance

Hmmmmmmmm
By their "rotten fruits". . . . . !