By TOYIN IDOWU





Last week, I spoke to you through this medium on how pornography could mess up your marriage of which I am sure you got a lot from it. This week, I would like to go further by exposing some tell-tale signs that could manifest in your partner which may point to the fact that there is something you need to worry about a bit.

It could be pretty difficult to lay your hands on what could seem to have been the problem, but the bottom line is that your relationship is stressed for no just cause especially in the bedroom and there are recurring problems in your marriage which you can’t figure out. Though the signs of porn addiction are quite slippery and difficult to nail, some of them even have similar features to other vices like extra marital affairs, drug addiction etc but if you are noticing traces of these signs I am about to discuss in your partner, I think he or she owes you some concrete explanations.

Quickly, let me make it clear that the objective of this write-up is not for you to discover anything and become judgmental or assume the position of an accuser against your spouse rather, it’s aimed at you looking for possible ways of giving him or her necessary helping hand so that your marriage could work better. If anything is discovered, it could even point out to a subtle fact that there’s something you’re not likely doing right (though not necessarily) or you could even be wrong altogether in your observations and assessment. Hence, there is need for you to handle this with patience and due carefulness. Remember, it’s your marriage, “as you lay your bed, you lie on it,” says an adage.



Lack Of Interest In Sex. This is the sign that would most likely get you worried first! Even though a lot of porn addicts would want sex at regular intervals as they grow in their addiction but you are likely to find out that your husband or wife now lacks interest in sex or becomes indifferent to it. He or she now sexually becomes unresponsive. Most times, you are the one initiating sex which you don’t even enjoy because your partner is not just interested and participating. There seems to be an emotional gulf while making love! Another under lining problem in this category is the fact that your partner could be having trouble becoming sexually aroused. For example, there could.....

For More info...>>>http://expressng.com/2015/04/red-flags-signs-that-your-spouse-could-be-porn-addicted/

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