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When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by Libragem(m): 8:13am On Feb 13, 2017
If you live abroad, far away from your spouse and she now confesses to you she watches porn(even at midnight), what does that indicate?
Is it not absurd and an abomination for a married lady to be looking at other guys dick and watching how he is using it on other ladies all in the name of porn?
When she becomes aroused as a result of such videos, is there no possibility she now have to satisfy herself using all/any form of sexual gadgets?
Infact is there no possibility she now has one or more standby boyfriends outside for sexual pleasures ?
Can such a lady still be trusted?
I am so curious because this is the state I am now. I am so so angry and disappointed right now, and my love for her just went flat as a result of that. I am in a state of dilemma, I need advice.

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Re: When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by Nobody: 8:18am On Feb 13, 2017
grin


Ur absence are making her feeling empty & sexually hungry.. Why not try or introduce phonesex with her or video sex? At least both of you are doing it.

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Re: When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by BabyGirl114: 8:19am On Feb 13, 2017
Libragem:
If you live abroad, far away from your spouse and she now confesses to you she watches porn(even at midnight), what does that indicate?
Is it not absurd and an abomination for a married lady to be looking at other guys dick and watching how he is using it on other ladies all in the name of porn?
When she becomes aroused as a result of such videos, is there no possibility she now have to satisfy herself using all/any form of sexual gadgets?
Infact is there no possibility she now has one or more standby boyfriends outside for sexual pleasures ?
Can such a lady still be trusted?
I am so curious because this is the state I am now. I am so so angry and disappointed right now, and my love for her just went flat as a result of that. I am in a state of dilemma, I need advice.
Kindly take her abroad to be with you, I hate anyone watching porns though.

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Re: When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by StFrank2(m): 8:19am On Feb 13, 2017
My brother forget gadgets matta o. That woman don get plan b o. Meaning she go get person wey go dey nack her steady now based on those porn wey she dey watch. She no suppose put eye for porn videos since her man no dey near by cos she go dey tempted man. My brother she don dey nack person Jor.

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Re: When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by soberdrunk(m): 8:30am On Feb 13, 2017
If she didnt tell you nko, how will you know? Give her some credit for honesty, you better dont worry yourself over 'nothing' because a cheating woman will cheat whether you are around or not. For your own good, quickly apologize and let it go, continue to give her plenty "attention" because statistics has shown that lack of attention is one of the major reasons women cheat.........

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Re: When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by Libragem(m): 8:31am On Feb 13, 2017
TrapQueen77:
grin


Ur absence making her feel empty & sexually hungry.. Why not try or introduce phonesex with her or video sex? At least both of you are doing it.

You may be right about her being sexually hungry, infact I am too, that is why I always try to avoid anything that will put me in the mood, I expected her to do the same. But phone intimacy is totally out of it, cos that will automatically lead to mastubation which I am strongly against.

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Re: When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by Libragem(m): 8:34am On Feb 13, 2017
BabyGirl114:

Kindly take her abroad to be with you, I hate anyone watching porns though.
We were currently working on that, but this incident just made me to pause the process right now. I need to be very sure that will be the best thing to do before I continue.

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Re: When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by Nobody: 8:35am On Feb 13, 2017
You sound so immature to be married. Why you asking us the questions you're meant to ask her?
It's like only dumb people come on nl. So watching porn now means someone can not have strong principles and morals such as being faithful. If she was going to cheat trust me she wouldn't need porn and self stimulation, she'd be getting laid which means no need for the porn.
Instead of handling your business like a real man your here all emotional like a mitch!

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Re: When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by Libragem(m): 8:35am On Feb 13, 2017
StFrank2:
My brother forget gadgets matta o. That woman don get plan b o. Meaning she go get person wey go dey nack her steady now based on those porn wey she dey watch. She no suppose put eye for porn videos since her man no dey near by cos she go dey tempted man. My brother she don dey nack person Jor.
This is what I am insulating right now, I am so confused.

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Re: When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by Libragem(m): 8:39am On Feb 13, 2017
soberdrunk:
If she didnt tell you nko, how will you know? Give her some credit for honesty, you better dont worry yourself over 'nothing' because a cheating woman will cheat whether you are around or not. For your own good, quickly apologize and let it go, continue to give her plenty "attention" because statistics has shown that lack of attention is one of the major reasons women cheat.........
We communicate daily, except when I am extremely busy because of work. But worst come to worst we exchange WhatsApp messages. So I won't say communication or the lack of it is an issue.

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Re: When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by BabyGirl114: 8:47am On Feb 13, 2017
Libragem:

We were currently working on that, but this incident just made me to pause the process right now. I need to be very sure that will be the best thing to do before I continue.
kindly help your girlfriend,people should just stop looking at what someone will do in future, because only God can determine that, so far she exhibits reasons to trust her, just leave her that way.And pray to God

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Re: When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by dacovajnr: 8:49am On Feb 13, 2017
She's not even cheating, She's not even lying about it...She loves you hence She doesn't feel it's necessary for her to cheat on you!..I don't see anything wrong in her watching porn and you had to pause the travelling processing instead of hastening it up..Her only sin is Her Honesty...kuku leave Her Abeg! angry body no be firewood

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Re: When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by BabyGirl114: 8:51am On Feb 13, 2017
Libragem:

This is what I am insulating right now, I am so confused.
its either you don't trust your girlfriend or you are just looking for excuses to dump her.my observation

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Re: When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by Libragem(m): 8:57am On Feb 13, 2017
BabyGirl114:

its either you don't trust your girlfriend or you are just looking for excuses to dump her.my observation
She is not my girlfriend, but wife, and I have always trusted with no single reason to doubt her faithfulness until this singular porn event.

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Re: When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by BabyGirl114: 9:05am On Feb 13, 2017
Libragem:

She is not my girlfriend, but wife, and I have always trusted with no single reason to doubt her faithfulness until this singular porn event.
Ohh,so she's even your spouse, kindly trust her please, and just advise her and tell her you don't like her watching porns.Do a heart to heart talk with her, stop distrusting her please, you didn't force her to tell you she's watching them

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Re: When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by BabyGirl114: 9:07am On Feb 13, 2017
maybe op should tell us the truth, op has been watching porns and those porns has made him to cheat on his wife, because of that he now thinks his wife watching porns will make her cheat too.

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Re: When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by stinggy(m): 9:13am On Feb 13, 2017
You are not even happy she's watching porn and using gadgets only. Probably she should just get herself enough sex partners then, maybe that would be better.
When men abroad are even begging to send home gadgets to their wives so as to wane off the temptation of adultery from their minds, you're here making noise instead of praising her.

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Re: When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by Libragem(m): 9:19am On Feb 13, 2017
BabyGirl114:
maybe op should tell us the truth, op has been watching porns and those porns has made him to cheat on his wife, because of that he now thinks his wife watching porns will make her cheat too.
Well, this statement is far from the truth. I know the effect of porn and I try to avoid it as much as I can. Secondly , even having a deep sexual talk with her now that I am far away is something I also try avoid, she knows because I told her. I told her we should avoid such senerio until we are physically united with each other again.... this is because " when the desirable is not available, the available becomes desirable "

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Re: When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by Dexema(m): 9:20am On Feb 13, 2017
See this man oo, you think say na wood you carry put for naija go obodo oyibo? Kindly "assist" her in getting some of her tensed muscles relaxed while assuring her of your love and your plans to bring her over there.
Don't pause anything as a matter of fact hasten the process if you can.

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Re: When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by BabyGirl114: 9:22am On Feb 13, 2017
Libragem:

Well, this statement is far from the truth. I know the effect of porn and I try to avoid it as much as I can. Secondly , even having a deep sexual talk with her now that I am far away is something I also try avoid, she knows because I told her. I told her we should avoid such senerio until we are physically united with each other again.... this is because " when the desirable is not available, the available becomes desirable "
op, you surely do not have self discipline, that's why, and you even talk like an old person.determination and discipline

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Re: When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by Nobody: 9:22am On Feb 13, 2017
(1) you have a wife
(2) you abandoned her here in nigeria
(3) you think her body is firewood shey?
(4) she now watches porn,you now panic up and down
Let me ask you a question, ever since you left nigeria, avnt you done anything yet? Treat your woman right. Blood and water flow in her veins and arteries as well. She is not a log of wood. If she gives another man nodding dont come here and tell us story that touches aeroplane.

I yaf talked my own ooooo.

Let me sip small juice grin wink cheesy

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Re: When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by Libragem(m): 10:45am On Feb 13, 2017
iamfroshsylver:
(1) you have a wife
(2) you abandoned her here in nigeria
(3) you think her body is firewood shey?
(4) she now watches porn,you now panic up and down
Let me ask you a question, ever since you left nigeria, avnt you done anything yet? Treat your woman right. Blood and water flow in her veins and arteries as well. She is not a log of wood. If she gives another man nodding dont come here and tell us story that touches aeroplane.

I yaf talked my own ooooo.

Let me sip small juice grin wink cheesy
Dexema:
See this man oo, you think say na wood you carry put for naija go obodo oyibo? Kindly "assist" her in getting some of her tensed muscles relaxed while assuring her of your love and your plans to bring her over there.
Don't pause anything as a matter of fact hasten the process if you can.

sad sad
Thank you all for your contributions, it's so helpful to me.
It's like some sense has been knocked into my head.

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Re: When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by omosefeeguaibor(f): 11:02am On Feb 13, 2017
Don't give devil a chance to play hanky panky with your marriage, you know your wife better than NLers that are already putting wrong ideas in your head to complicate matters,

You are already married to her, look as far i know, you did not catch her doing something wrong, and she on her part told you what she did by watching porn.

Sir it may interest you to know that it's not everyone who watches porn that will finally do the deed so rest your suspicion.

Lastly she was being truthful when she told you, what if she hadn't spill the beans would you have known? There's no big deal in this, do the needful and take your wife to wherever you are.

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Re: When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by afamaustin(m): 11:08am On Feb 13, 2017
u ar about to loose ur wife to anoda dude out d.watchout
Re: When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by Donjazzy12(m): 11:20am On Feb 13, 2017
Libragem:
If you live abroad, far away from your spouse and she now confesses to you she watches porn(even at midnight), what does that indicate?
Is it not absurd and an abomination for a married lady to be looking at other guys dick and watching how he is using it on other ladies all in the name of porn?
When she becomes aroused as a result of such videos, is there no possibility she now have to satisfy herself using all/any form of sexual gadgets?
Infact is there no possibility she now has one or more standby boyfriends outside for sexual pleasures ?
Can such a lady still be trusted?
I am so curious because this is the state I am now. I am so so angry and disappointed right now, and my love for her just went flat as a result of that. I am in a state of dilemma, I need advice.
It is worse, most women watch lesbians porn. Your supposed girlfriend is being serviced by another girl right now!

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Re: When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by Beemhan(m): 11:24am On Feb 13, 2017
I have 2 questions for the OP:
1: Have you watched porn since you married her?
2: Have you had sex with someone else since you married her?
If your answer to the above questions is in the affirmative, then oga, swerve...and stay swerved. But if it's in the negative...then you're most likely lying so once again, swerve...and remain swerved
#HypocritesEverywhere

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Re: When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by Brown14: 12:14pm On Feb 13, 2017
Do people still watch porn?

Y would a grown asss anybody(male or female) sit n watch people have sex?

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Re: When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by pcguru1(m): 12:24pm On Feb 13, 2017
Libragem:
If you live abroad, far away from your spouse and she now confesses to you she watches porn(even at midnight), what does that indicate?
Is it not absurd and an abomination for a married lady to be looking at other guys dick and watching how he is using it on other ladies all in the name of porn?
When she becomes aroused as a result of such videos, is there no possibility she now have to satisfy herself using all/any form of sexual gadgets?
Infact is there no possibility she now has one or more standby boyfriends outside for sexual pleasures ?
Can such a lady still be trusted?
I am so curious because this is the state I am now. I am so so angry and disappointed right now, and my love for her just went flat as a result of that. I am in a state of dilemma, I need advice.

But guys watch porn and still have a good marriage. Its acting on it that's different.

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Re: When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by lefulefu(m): 12:29pm On Feb 13, 2017
TrapQueen77:
grin


Ur absence making her feel empty & sexually hungry.. Why not try or introduce phonesex with her or video sex? At least both of you are doing it.
in naija dats taboo grin
Re: When You Live Far Away From your Spouse And She Watches Porn.. by Nobody: 12:33pm On Feb 13, 2017
lefulefu:

in naija dats taboo grin


Oohh dear... shocked shocked


So jerking off is ain't allowed too? undecided

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