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dunwun:
That he said 10 times a day doesn't mean he started at doing it that frequently at age 8.

Someone has come out boldy to tell his stoRy and you are all criticizing. It tells me, a sizable bunch of you guys are guilty of the same act that's why you know age 7 is too young, that's why you also know 10 times daily is not possible. Why don't you people just tell us your own believable stories since OP's story is a bunch of lies.

By the way it would shock you to know that most young people need healing in this regard but rather than learn from someone else you have succeeded in shutting him up!

femi4:
Seems you ve not done it before.
It is the urge to release when opportunity for se.x is not available or non interest in sexual intercourse that leads to m.asturbation

rokiatu:
You have really wasted a lot of spr.e.m.

haibe:
I get your point but does that mean a kid of 7 years doesn't feel sexual pleasure? Of course not, every male feels that and therefore can self service at that age

femi4:
You must be the daft one to believe a 7 yr old boy can produce s.perm

diamondtutu:
Continuation... thanks fellow Landers for reading.
During the year 2000,i met a friend who recommended one of Bimbo odukoya book "how to overcome masturbation". I read it,and for about 3 days I stoped,then it started again. My brothers it pain me that some persons insults me like I ll gain anything if I lie. Well those the message is for will get it. God has delivered me already. Amen.

The year 2000,i just entered JSS1,things grew worse for me,liTtle things arouse me. Sexually,things like female pants. Yea,even that of my sister,(pls don't insult me,if you believe,jst entertain yourself)
At times I wonder if God ll ever forgive me. I could remember a day I masturbates in my class,on the desk early morning before assembly,i wasn't scared anyone would come in to get me. It was an evil urge. I carried this burden till 2014. I accepted it as my lifestyle,because it seem impossible to get rid off. I lost weight,spiritualy I became demoralize,i hated myself.

2014 came,I forced myself into a relationship,i got a girlfriend,i wanted to use her as a substitute,it didn't work,then I knew it wasn't just something I could leave so easily. So I read somewhere,a man said"the best way to stop a habit is to adopt a new one". So I engaged myself,i Went onboard ship to work,(am a mariner),to distract myself,but it wasn't possible.

Till I came to work in portharcourt,i heard a woman on radio called mummy,she always advices on cool fm. I told her,she ask me to come over,that day I told her all,i cried and cried,because I wasn't ashame to tell her(afterall she don't know me) after much counselling,i was told when I feel the urge,i should tell myself aloud."i won't do it". I started it.
Five days...
Ten days....

21...days

On the 25th day I masturbated,i called her,she didn't condemn me,instead she praised me,and ask me to start again. This time,i was determined,because nothing was working for me,it was like something tied my finances. Even my friends told me,because I was the best in my Dept.

I started again. I was scared at first,later I stayed a month.
2months
3months
Till now.

Just llike some persons said,i have wasted a lot of sperm. I know,i understand. I saw it all.
My problem now is guilt,something always told me I may not have a child in future,sort of.i know is guilt anyways.
The important,is that God delivered me. Now I see what I have been missing. I nolonger admire those things. I got a girl. I call her My Gift. She took in,gueSs what? God gave us twins,i wanted to do an abortion but when we discovered it was twins,i told her to leave it,i call my siblings,they assisted me. Got the dowry paid,and did the traditional rites. Now she's 7 months pregnant.

I type this in tears,regrets but in everlasting joy. He delivered me. And anyone going throgh this,just be strict and discipline. You ll overcome. Thanks for spending time to share in my testimony. That my elder brother is now a Pastor @ the REDEEM CHRISTIAN CHURCH,a lecturer,and also happily married. I bet he didn't knw the damage he caused in my life. I forgive him.even as God forgave me.
God bless you all.

Johniyke2flex:
Eyah! Sorry o! Didn't know my post got 2 u! Now let's see who's daft here. Show me anywhere in that post u quoted where its written that that I actually believe that a seven year old can produce sp.erm.
Unlike u my dear, I knw how to pick the important points from a post and move on. Also, I dnt have to tell u that u r daft. Bye!

exemen:
HMMMMMMMMMMMMM

rokiatu:
You have really wasted a lot of spr.e.m.

rokiatu:
You have really wasted a lot of spr.e.m.

diamondtutu:
My names is Desmond,am from delta state,25 yrs old,today I write this article to all with joy and regrets to what I have lost in these past years I have lost to a very bad habit. MASTURBATION.

How it all began.

I was only seven years old,we were five in the family,i am the 3rd child. I had two elder brothers above me. My eldest brother,who happen to be a lecturer now was more of a problem child,then he was very stubborn,he stole,from my parents and even from my neighbours,it was so bad that then. My parents tried their best but to no avail.
One afternoon,he came home when my parents wasn't around as usual,he took me to the parlour and ask me to watch him. He then brought out his penis and masturbated,i saw sperm for the first time. I never knew anything about sex,because I was just seven. After he left,i was still wondering"what is the meaning of what he did". Now I believe that demons can multiply in a man. We all knew then that he steals,but now he has added mastubation.

Two days after,i decided to try it. I did.(tears) it felt good. I continued,everyday,later 3 times a day,before I knew,it became a strong habit,it was like I was under some spiritual influence. It got so bad that whenver the urge comes,anywere I am,even in the church,i wud look for a corner to please myself and masturbate.

I masturbated from my early primary school till I finish tertiary,there was no dat I didn't masturbate at least 8-10 times daily. I hated girls,hated relatinships,infact then when I see any girl I like,i ll just go home,imagine her face,and masturbate.to me I have slept with her. I could masturbate even in a cab,on benches in the farm,mum's shop etc.

Everyone saw me growing up,as an innocent boy,but no one knew what I was passing through. As I grew older,i started making enquiries about it. I discovered it was a sin before God,and it was harmful to my health,my eyes went blur,i loose so much weight,even when am weak,i masturbate.
Later in my teens,it bacame a form of cure to depression,wenever am depressed,i masturbates,then slept off. I was a very active brother in the choir,i was made the choir director twice. Everyone loved me,but I was dying slowly. During the year 2000,i swore never to do it anymore,but wen the urge comes,it overcomes me,and I yeild.

Later in life whenver I do it(masturbates) I felll guilt afterwards,i felt dirty. Then I knew I had to change... To be continued

ismailaja:
but can still fertile u

ismailaja:
but can still fertile u

kinglekan:
Cutie eyes, u still awake??

femi4:
Ode! Is this the first story on m.asturbation you think you can learn from?
Are you new here? If you need related stories, use Nairaland search or go to sexuality section and learn from genuine stories on m.asturbation.

You don't cook up stories and think everyone is gonna buy it!

haibe:
I can't find anywhere he said he released sperm at that age

haibe:
I can't find anywhere he said he released sperm at that age

diddydiva:
Wonder if a 7 years old can feel anything.

diddydiva:
OK

femi4:
Ode! Is this the first story on m.asturbation you think you can learn from?
Are you new here? If you need related stories, use Nairaland search or go to sexuality section and learn from genuine stories on m.asturbation.

You don't cook up stories and think everyone is gonna buy it!

dahreyM:
@op, U stopped cos u OVER-CAME, i get it nw.