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any advice? Pls help. I'm not trolling.

If she comes back, I will marry her.

My heart can't take this anymore.

*buys popcorn*

Have you tried calling to appologise or sending an appology message?

First go beg God for forgiveness. Because you will do such another day if you are been provoked.

Do you think they will forgive me if I apologize?

obowunmi:
Do you think they will forgive me if I apologize?

did u say it to her parents face? If u did.. just move on.

I think you should just go crazy.

You called a lady you claim to love ashawo?
Dude forget it and move on.
She's not coming back.

Let's not even go into where you abused her family and rubbed your 'wealth' in her face.
The ashawo part alone is enough to make any self respecting girl not to want to marry you.

Learn your lesson from it and don't make that mistake again with your next woman.

It is well with you.

espn:
did u say it to her parents face? If u did.. just move on.

No, her face.

Oh dear. If this is for real, then everything is clear now. SMH.

cococandy:
You called a lady you claim to love ashawo?
Dude forget it and move on.
She's not coming back.

Let's not even go into where you abused her family and rubbed your 'wealth' in her face.
The ashawo part alone is enough to make any self respecting girl not to want to marry you.

Learn your lesson from it and don't make that mistake again with your next woman.

It is well with you.

I thought love conquered all.

Okay~

obowunmi:
Do you think they will forgive me if I apologize?

You need to show a huge gesture. I would say first because you flashed your wealth in her face,
Donate a large sum of money to a charity for abused women.

Then you go to her family and apologise to her family face to face admitting what you said and down to their daughter. At this point it's a selfless act so be ready to receive what you get without expecting anything in return.

Then finally you find her. Somehow turn up at where she'll be and apologise to her at this point show her the donation you made to a women's aid charity. Here you will admit to her that what you did to her was abuse. Tell her your intentions and accept what she says. This is for you to clear your karma and to do right where you went wrong. It's aim is to get forgiveness and if God blesses you with her love then it's a bonus.

I think you should give her at least a week before you see her.

Chiam55:
You need to show a huge gesture. I would say first because you flashed your wealth in her face,
Donate a large sum of money to a charity for abused women.

Then you go to her family and apologise to her family face to face admitting what you said and down to their daughter. At this point it's a selfless act so be ready to receive what you get without expecting anything in return.

Then finally you find her. Somehow turn up at where she'll be and apologise to her at this point show her the donation you made to a women's aid charity. Here you will admit to her that what you did to her was abuse. Tell her your intentions and accept what she says. This is for you to clear your karma and to do right where you went wrong. It's aim is to get forgiveness and if God blesses you with her love then it's a bonus.

I think you should give her at least a week before you see her.

I can't sleep. I can't eat.

I made a mistake. I'm not sure if her ego will allow me.

Sophyrocks:
Oh dear. If this is for real, then everything is clear now. SMH.

What is clear? Yes, my horrible mouth is why I'm still single.

Sophyrocks:
Oh dear. If this is for real, then everything is clear now. SMH.

What is clear? Yes, my horrible mouth is why I'm still single.

Sometimes I forget people are human beings.

obowunmi:
I can't sleep. I can't eat.

I made a mistake. I'm not sure if her ego will allow me.

Her ego

Chiam55:
Her ego

Self worth/pride.

I don't want to do anything like giving to charity if she will not come back.

Right now, there's a hole in my heart.

obowunmi:
Self worth/pride.

But u haven't tried so how do you know?

obowunmi:
I don't want to do anything like giving to charity if she will not come back.

Right now, there's a hole in my heart.

Lol I hope she doesn't come back. May she be free from a selfish troll #bye

obowunmi:
If she comes back, I will marry her.

My heart can't take this anymore.

Hmmm but how can u call the one you love ashawo ...

See as you treated her .. N wt r u doing to get her bsvk nothing .. Ur oraying .. Ur mates are buying flowers,gift, on bended knees persistently calling n texting ..

If u want her back hun grow a pair and go get ur chic .. Trust ne nan u she go come bk

obowunmi:
What is clear? Yes, my horrible mouth is why I'm still single.

Sometimes I forget people are human beings.

What led to the argument?

Chiam55:
But u haven't tried so how do you know?

No I haven't tried, I'm afraid.

Sophyrocks:
What led to the argument?

Something silly... It's my fault.

I shouldn't have responded harshly. I was stressed out.

obowunmi:
I thought love conquered all.

Okay~

Will your love cover a woman who insults you and your family?

Chiam55:
Lol I hope she doesn't come back. May she be free from a selfish troll #bye

I'm not a troll.

Sophyrocks:
Will your love cover a woman who insults you and your family?

I don't know.

I've asked Pastors to pray.

I don't know what will happen.

obowunmi:
Something silly... It's my fault.

I shouldn't have responded harshly. I was stressed out.

You have committed a very big offence that i aint sure anyone affected would be willing to continue a relationship with. There was a thread you opened earlier and someone pointed out the fact that you love to rub your wealth in ladies' faces. Thats the problem. Forget you insulting her, What was the motivation behind insulting her parents? what did her parents do to deserve that?

obowunmi:
I don't know.

I've asked Pastors to pray.

I don't know what will happen.

Pastors will do nothing my dear. They can pray for you but the problem lies with you and if you dnt make changes, their prayers are useless. Your answer says; you dnt know. That shows that no one claiming to preach Love would be willing to continue this relationship including you.

Of all names na Ashawo you see call am? Taar! You don't deserve her. I'd be shell-shocked to see her return back to you

obowunmi:
I don't know.

I've asked Pastors to pray.

I don't know what will happen.

Guy shift joor....you are not serious at all, and your pride won't help you. You are busy asking pastors to pray for her to return when your pride won't let you do the simply act of walking up to her and apologise.

You are seeking for a miracle that won't happen simple! Be man enough and humble enough to go to her and ask for forgiveness,

You want her to miraculously come back so that tomorrow you will tell her how she can't do without you? Smh

Am not against you praying but if you are too proud to beg her, forget her and move on. She deserves someone better

Am not sure you are really going crazy else you will be calling, texting or visiting her instead of wasting your time here.