KanwuliaJara:
What an IN-SOT!!!!

Chubhie:
Forget bout her Son. You need another distraction.

tensazangetsu:
Thats what am trying to do but nothing i try seems to work even saw a psychiatrist and a counsellor i actually think am mad now i cant even concentrate in class.

Chubhie:
You need to picture in your minds eyes whenever you think of her that there's one badoo guy bangin the hell outta her then, get some money pay and arrange a sexy hot babe and make sure you have her all through the night and by morning, you will see that there's nothing really in what you are obsessed about. I tell you from experience it is not worth your peace of mind.

mutter:
You are infatuated and not in love.

Please pluck the fruits your hand can reach!

ohaleoghene:
you are mad !

tensazangetsu:
Please don't get offended go back and read my post and this time do it very slowly

tensazangetsu:
thats what i do when i like a girl i look for a girl hotter and have sex with her but this girl shes different. shes the hottest girl i have ever seen. i have been looking for someone hotter to no avail. people think am a creep now cause of her.

Chubhie:
Now, is this object of your attraction aware that you exist?

tensazangetsu:
Theres a girl in my school i think i am falling for. The thing is am someone who doesnt believe in love or marriage i dont wanna get married and i dont believe theres anything like love. i believe what we have is lust crush infatuation which eventually fades away. i have tried everything to suppress the emotions i have but nothing seems to work for me. i see her all the time in my dreams even in class my roommates think am going mad and this girl is way out of my league shes the hottest girl in my school and shes very high class( she drives a range to class) and shes in level 400 while am in 200. shes graduating this year and am still in the system. please i would like someone to tell me how i can overcome this emotions or better still how i can overcome them for life. if people can become gay can someone become asexual, if possible someone should tell me how i can do it.

coogar:


your eyes are the problem.
the good book says if your eyes maketh you lust, pluck them out. find a good optician that can remove your eyes. once your eyes are gone, you would be fine.

it's better for you to be blind than for you to run mad.

AwesomelyMade:
From the way you are sounding, your sincerity is questionable.

Add the username to that too.

Why do I feel like someone's trolling

MizMyColi:


Add the username to that too.

Why do I feel like someone's trolling

mutter:


Please don`t be offended
and again pluck the fruits you can reach. Before you pluck there is a desire to pluck!
I know what I am telling you- stay off the girl. Keep yor mind away from her because your mind is there because you are cntemplating plucking.
Anyway you might also try - those kind of girls keep Chewing gum boyfriend on the side

tensazangetsu:
thanks

striktlymi:
There is a need for you to disabuse your mind from the damage you have done to it. You alone can do that as there is nothing anyone can tell you right now to make you change the way you choose to see love and relationships.

Presently your mind only holds half truths as far as the subject matter is concerned but believes those half truths to be the complete story. The fact that hurt abounds doesn't mean love is non-existent.

I suspect your concern is not particular to this lady but your future interactions with ladies. If you must have something meaningful with any lady in the future then you need to, as a matter of priority, start teaching your heart how to give and receive love.

tensazangetsu:
No

Chubhie:
Are you aware that your continued obsession with her can cost you your primary objective of why you are in school? Are you ready to do all needed sacrifice to chase your object of attraction regardless of the consequences? Assuming, by some dent of mystical powers you land her now do you have all it takes to keep her? We all as humans have the quest to want something beyond our reach. This your want is not healthy for your present level nor reasonable. All the same, I advice you make a bold step and try to arrest her attention and once you do, make your true hearts intentions known to her. Be creative about it. It will take something unusual to probably get her attention.

tensazangetsu:
As weird as it might sound i dont want anything from her i dont wanna date her or anything i dont even wanna be friends what i really need is to kill my emotions for her and thats why i created this thread. i wanna get rid of all those feelings and dont bother about my schooling little things like that cannot distract me. Am not stupid.

Chubhie:
How did she get to make such an impression on you in the first place?

Vision4God:
U dont bliv in love, marriage? Wat else do u bliv?
I gues ur fyting somtin, giv ur life to christ. He is der fo u