Husband and wife are one. Divorce is not the will
of God.

Being gay is never the plan of God for ' a man
shall leave his father and mother and cleave to his
wife' and he 'made them male and female'

There is a bond when there is inter course even 'he that is joined to an harlot is one body with her'

Financial responsibility on the part of the man is a major criteria for marriage 'a man (not child/boy)
shall leave his father and mother'. You are man when you are able to 'leave your father and
mother'(able to fend for yourself). Wisdom then
demands that a man should crave for financial
independence before craving for marriage.

The ten commandments is still valid. If you want
to know how to show love, look at the ten
commandments.