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Re: Help Me Sort This Out Pls by Wendy80(f): 8:36am On Apr 17, 2015
Holywizard:
use ur head dear cos ur hubby might be worse

And how does ds help? #smh
Re: Help Me Sort This Out Pls by 5minsmadness: 3:15pm On Apr 17, 2015
prissyluv:
What of making yourself visible when next the man visits your office? That should send a signal to him you know...
Wendy80 I think u should follow this advice.

I used to be in favour of telling the unaware partner about what is going on until something nasty happened.

You'll be amazed how quickly the tables can turn on you if you don't handle it well.


My first advice is MYOB, but if your conscience won't let you then take an opportunity to let the man see you and make sure he recognises you and leave it at that. Let his own conscience judge him.

Or U can use the anonymous SIM message method to let THE GIRL know that he is married.


It's a tough place to be in sha.

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Re: Help Me Sort This Out Pls by Wendy80(f): 3:24pm On Apr 17, 2015
prissyluv:
What of making yourself visible when next the man visits your office? That should send a signal to him you know...

My Dear, I saw him this morning, it wasn't planned though and wanted to give me that you look familiar kind of look. I greeted them and hurriedly walk away. From a distance, when I saw my colleague going into the office I quickly walked back to him grin
Let me clear my desk jare. Long gist.
Re: Help Me Sort This Out Pls by tiredface: 3:57pm On Apr 17, 2015
SIDEKICK. NOTHING NEW
Re: Help Me Sort This Out Pls by Ewuro4: 4:37pm On Apr 17, 2015
Holywizard:
use ur head dear cos ur hubby might be worse

Iru iro niborun undecided

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Re: Help Me Sort This Out Pls by prissyluv(f): 6:53pm On Apr 17, 2015
Wendy80:


My Dear, I saw him this morning, it wasn't planned though and wanted to give me that you look familiar kind of look. I greeted them and hurriedly walk away. From a distance, when I saw my colleague going into the office I quickly walked back to him grin
Let me clear my desk jare. Long gist.

I have been waiting...

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Re: Help Me Sort This Out Pls by Wendy80(f): 9:37pm On Apr 17, 2015
5minsmadness:

Wendy80 I think u should follow this advice.

I used to be in favour of telling the unaware partner about what is going on until something nasty happened.

You'll be amazed how quickly the tables can turn on you if you don't handle it well.


My first advice is MYOB, but if your conscience won't let you then take an opportunity to let the man see you and make sure he recognises you and leave it at that. Let his own conscience judge him.

Or U can use the anonymous SIM message method to let THE GIRL know that he is married.



It's a tough place to be in sha.

Thanx Man. I talked to him 2day.
Re: Help Me Sort This Out Pls by Wendy80(f): 9:54pm On Apr 17, 2015
....i asked how his wife is doing that I've not seen her for a while now. He said she's good so I said I see him here often and he was like yeah, I come for business transaction and see few 'friends'
He was obviously acting cool until I told him I hope ds 'business transaction' knows he's married with 2kids grin
I told him my colleague really wants to settle down cos everyone around her s either engaged or married and she believes He's the 'one' why does he want to be a hindrance and cause her pain.

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Re: Help Me Sort This Out Pls by vickilafab(f): 10:01pm On Apr 17, 2015
^^^ just imagine him!!! I love d way u 'tackled' him. what was his response thereafter?

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Re: Help Me Sort This Out Pls by Wendy80(f): 10:06pm On Apr 17, 2015
He said I don't even know what business he has with her and I said it's even better I don't know cos the more I know the more things I have to say to my friend(his wife).
He sha tried to deny and wanted to create joke out of it.



On a lighter note, I got home and told hubby, he was so proud of me grin cheesy that I used a stone to save 2birds grin

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Re: Help Me Sort This Out Pls by Wendy80(f): 10:07pm On Apr 17, 2015
prissyluv:


I have been waiting...

There u are cheesy

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Re: Help Me Sort This Out Pls by kukuruku156(f): 10:36pm On Apr 17, 2015
Wendy80:
He said I don't even know what business he has with her and I said it's even better I don't know cos the more I know the more things I have to say to my friend(his wife).
He sha tried to deny and wanted to create joke out of it.



On a lighter note, I got home and told hubby, he was so proud of me grin cheesy that I used a stone to save 2birds grin

Good job, expertly done.

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Re: Help Me Sort This Out Pls by khatea: 3:34am On Apr 18, 2015
Wendy80:
....i asked how his wife is doing that I've not seen her for a while now. He said she's good so I said I see him here often and he was like yeah, I come for business transaction and see few 'friends'
He was obviously acting cool until I told him I hope ds 'business transaction' knows he's married with 2kids grin
I told him my colleague really wants to settle down cos everyone around her s either engaged or married and she believes He's the 'one' why does he want to be a hindrance and cause her pain.




Thumbs up woman! U r brilliant.
If U c dt he's still being serious wt Ur colleague after this converstation U had with him, U can get his wedding/family pix(d 2kids inclusive), send it tru bbm or watsapp to ur colleague wt d caption "We need to talk woman to woman". I hope dis works wonders


NB: Let Ur hubby knw U next plans

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Re: Help Me Sort This Out Pls by prissyluv(f): 8:29am On Apr 18, 2015
Wendy80:


There u are cheesy
Good job dear. Let me see how he will continue. Chai! Umu nwoke dikwanu egwu oooo. Egwu ha na-atum oooo.

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Re: Help Me Sort This Out Pls by baralatie(m): 8:41am On Apr 18, 2015
Nigga44:
Another nairaland super story? undecided
Re: Help Me Sort This Out Pls by Wendy80(f): 9:52am On Apr 18, 2015
khatea:





Thumbs up woman! U r brilliant.
If U c dt he's still being serious wt Ur colleague after this converstation U had with him, U can get his wedding/family pix(d 2kids inclusive), send it tru bbm or watsapp to ur colleague wt d caption "We need to talk woman to woman". I hope dis works wonders


NB: Let Ur hubby knw U next plans
I will just watch my colleague to see if there's any change. I know she's excited about the relationship and gist us a lot. The Guy appears unruffled, seems to me he's been into it I'm not sure sha.

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Re: Help Me Sort This Out Pls by Wendy80(f): 9:56am On Apr 18, 2015
prissyluv:

Good job dear. Let me see how he will continue. Chai! Umu nwoke dikwanu egwu oooo. Egwu ha na-atum oooo.

I pray it works oh. I don't want it getting to the level of involving his wife cos I no fit oh. Not every wife can handle such news. B4 I turn to that woman who's ear was bitten off by a wife she went to tell about seeing her husband with anoda woman grin

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Re: Help Me Sort This Out Pls by dinachi(m): 10:32am On Apr 18, 2015
Wendy80:

I pray it works oh. I don't want it getting to the level of involving his wife cos I no fit oh. Not every wife can handle such news. B4 I turn to that woman who's ear was bitten off by a wife she went to tell about seeing her husband with anoda woman grin
You have handled the situation expertly. I am also proud of your wisdom and maturity. However, you may need to give them time to disengage. Say two weeks to a month. The guy would have executed his exit strategy very well then without hurting her too much.

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Re: Help Me Sort This Out Pls by Ewuro4: 9:48pm On Apr 18, 2015
Time to disengage two lovebirds & determined grown adults who've spent quality time together 'couple style' ??

I laugh in obudu.

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Re: Help Me Sort This Out Pls by Vikky014(f): 10:34pm On Apr 18, 2015
Wendy80:
I appreciate your contributions. Just b4 I left the office this evening, I saw clearing her desk hurriedly saying her 'Baby' is coming for her. 20mins later I saw 'him' driving away with her. Its no longer picture oh, I saw him live.
I'm beginning to wonder if he doesn't know where I work or has he forgotten or just doesn't care undecided
Na wa oh
u would hv followed her and greet d said baby so dt d man will see u. nxt time pls make sure d man sees u since he knws his wiffy is ur friend.



modified* thank GOD .i saw ur recent post
Re: Help Me Sort This Out Pls by MRBrownJ: 1:20am On Apr 19, 2015
@OP
A) what would you want your friends to do if YOU were the wife in question?
B) says a lot about your husband, if he thinks in such manner and sees this as something funny.

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Re: Help Me Sort This Out Pls by nanalady(f): 1:35am On Apr 19, 2015
Okk...mademoiselle op..please figure out a way to tell your colleague at work..first..if she already knows and doesn't care..then please tell your friend..save her from a heart breaking situation..save her so she can save her marriage..save her because its right....buy d sim..throway after use..

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Re: Help Me Sort This Out Pls by Wendy80(f): 5:29pm On Apr 19, 2015
Ewuro4:
Time to disengage two lovebirds & determined grown adults who've spent quality time together 'couple style' ??

I laugh in obudu.


grin cheesy 'I laugh in Obudu' got me LoL.
The enjoyment no be here oh. She sure had fun grin

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Re: Help Me Sort This Out Pls by Ewuro4: 5:40pm On Apr 19, 2015
Wendy80:


grin cheesy 'I laugh in Obudu' got me LoL.
The enjoyment no be here oh. She sure had fun grin

Okay oh.. My hand no dey grin grin

Good morning.
Re: Help Me Sort This Out Pls by Youngpo413: 7:48am On May 16, 2015
Desperate women everywhere,and you will be wondering why her numerous exes never married her...the new man is loaded with cash and that makes her fall inlove instantly and I'm sure she has dumped her present bf because of this new man who intends to use and dump her as well,ladies,not all that glitters are gold,always use your head.
Re: Help Me Sort This Out Pls by lobell: 10:08am On May 11, 2019
Wendy80:


grin cheesy 'I laugh in Obudu' got me LoL.
The enjoyment no be here oh. She sure had fun grin

Hey, what became of your friend, her husband and your colleague? Hope you do not mind my aproko?

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Re: Help Me Sort This Out Pls by Wendy80(f): 10:00pm On May 20, 2019
lobell:


Hey, what became of your friend, her husband and your colleague? Hope you do not mind my aproko?

Aproko somebody grin been awhile oh. that man is a chronic cheat. Marriage broken since 2016 or so. I didn't need to tell my friend, she knew about his philandering ways and took a walk. My colleague (former colleague now) continued dating him even after telling her his marital status. I learnt she's married now though.
Re: Help Me Sort This Out Pls by lobell: 6:43am On May 21, 2019
Wendy80:


Aproko somebody grin been awhile oh. that man is a chronic cheat. Marriage broken since 2016 or so. I didn't need to tell my friend, she knew about his philandering ways and took a walk. My colleague (former colleague now) continued dating him even after telling her his marital status. I learnt she's married now though.

Bastard ashewo man. Women sha and 'love' especially when there's plenty chop money...I hope her own marriage is stable giving that she consciously contributed to making someone else's unstable.

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