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9 Things You Should Never Do With Your Partner...or Regret It by Eljay24(m): 7:53am On May 01, 2015
1. Taking her to guys night: She tells you
she’ll be cool. She tells you, “But your friends
love me!” She says she’ll act like one of the
boys, or that you’ll hardly even notice she’s
there. It doesn’t matter how much your boys
love your girl: the instant a girl walks into a
room of all men, a shield goes up. Men have
deeply ingrained little filters around women.
And even if those filters are slight, there is a
cloud over the night that doesn’t let them act
quite as they would if a woman weren’t there.
Don’t do that to your boys. What’s worse is
maybe their filters won’t kick in. And then
your girl will be mortified at what she hears
and sees.
2. Sexual acts you both were uncertain
about: If there is any sexual act, from toys to
threesomes, that both you and your partner
felt uneasy about doing, don’t do it. If you
don’t go into those kinds of things with
complete certitude, there’s usually a feeling
of regret afterwards.
3. Analyzing other females: Don’t let a
woman trick you into the, “Do you think she’s
pretty” conversation. Whether it’s about a
woman you both actually know or an actress,
don’t do it. Women believe they are the
authority on other women, so whatever your
opinion is, she’ll most likely tell you you’re
wrong. And your girl will pay close attention
to how you analyze other women and
immediately relate it to herself. You could
have issues of insecurity or jealousy rise up.
4. Matching tattoos: You want to prove to the
world you’ll be together forever? Get married.
Definitely get married before you’d get
matching tattoos! No matter how in love you
are, just try to imagine what life would be like
without that woman, and with that tattoo.
Even the less than 1% chance of that
happening should be enough reason not to
do it.
5. Sharing a pet: Unless you’re married, if
you’re going to get a pet designate an owner.
Of course you and your partner will help each
other out with the pet, but it should be
agreed upon who is primarily responsible for
the pet to avoid any fights over taking care of
it, paying for medical bills etc. and to avoid
major heartbreak over custody if you and
your partner broke up.
6. Starting a company together: This can
either make or break a relationship. Your
partner may love who you are as a boyfriend,
friend, son and citizen of the world. But she
may hate who you are as a businessman.
We’re all somebody else when it comes to
business and sometimes your partner is
better off being shielded from that face. This
could bring you two closer because you’ll
deeply understand the stresses and concerns
of the other person. But, before doing
something so large as starting a business
together try to build up to it by working
together in smaller capacities to see how you
get along.
7. Arguing in front of your friends: I don’t
care who started it: you end it. You’ll both feel
humiliated afterwards if you engaged in a full
on couples dispute in front of your friends.
Not only will you feel bad about putting them
through that, but you’ll also inevitably begin
to wonder who “won” the fight in the eyes of
your friends. Who do they think is the better
partner, now that they’ve seen the two of you
battle? Subconsciously, you’ll be battling to
be the better partner in front of friends from
there on out.
8. Sharing past sex stories: You have a funny
sex story from one of your exes or a one-night
stand that you know will make your partner
laugh. But guess what: no matter how funny
your story, all your partner will be thinking
about is the image of you with somebody
else. If you get really unlucky, she’ll feel the
need (to be fair, or to torture you in return) to
share one of her past sex stories. And then
neither of you will be laughing, and probably
not having sex that night.
9. Planning a big trip too soon: A long and/or
expensive trip really shouldn’t be planned
until you’ve been with someone for half a
year. And that’s 6 peaceful months. If you’ve
been fighting the whole time, it doesn’t
count. Two months in you’re still too
infatuated to have actually noticed the
person’s flaws. Four months might feel like a
long time but the pressures of life haven’t
started to set in yet. You probably still have
the energy to be going to each other’s places
late at night, just to get a few hours together.
You’re probably still shacking up a lot for the
weekend, not seeing other friends or family.
So you don’t know how your actual lives will
affect the relationship. At 6 months, the
person is probably substantially incorporated
into your life, and the excitement has calmed
down enough for you to more honestly
evaluate the person.
Re: 9 Things You Should Never Do With Your Partner...or Regret It by jamex93(m): 7:55am On May 01, 2015
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Re: 9 Things You Should Never Do With Your Partner...or Regret It by Nobody: 8:46am On May 01, 2015
START A COMPANY TOGETHER NA LIE CAMP SHE IS GONNA HELP IN PUTTING THE BUSINESS TOGETHER MOST ESPECIALLY IF CAPITAL IS COMING FROM HER PURSE ;DSTART A COMPANY TOGETHER NA LIE CAMP SHE IS GONNA HELP IN PUTTING T
Re: 9 Things You Should Never Do With Your Partner...or Regret It by Nobody: 8:46am On May 01, 2015
START A COMPANY TOGETHER NA LIE CAMP SHE IS GONNA HELP IN PUTTING THE BUSINESS TOGETHER MOST ESPECIALLY IF CAPITAL IS COMING FROM HER PURSE grin START A COMPANY TOGETHER NA LIE CAMP SHE IS GONNA HELP IN PUTTING T

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