Please help me out, this is a true life story,
As I got to the office this morning, I received a call from my wife that her sister who just came to visit us last night was complaining of serious stomach pain. It was later discovered that she did D&C (abortion) and it was not properly done. She was quickly rushed to the hospital, now my wife want me to help pay the bill, this, I don't support at all because I have never done this in my life, how can I pay for what somebody else enjoyed, she is in great pain now, at the same time I want to help save her life for my wife sake, I don't even know what to do please help me. There  are more I could have mention in this post, but time will fail me.

If her life is in danger, you should help.

If a woman came to Jesus for healing after committing abortion, would he turn her back? No!

So please help your sister-in-law because that's what Jesus would do.

Your sister-in-law committed abortion. That's past. Presently she needs help. Help her.

Compassion is part of the divine love, isn't it? Now rush out and help, please, before something bad happens.

@seun, i am surprised at ur response. that was really nice. At least u spoke like a christian and not an atheist


@adeniyi, u just have to follow seun's advise, HELP. Remeber the woman who was caught in the very act of adultery, Jesus did not condemn her. so u have no right whatsoever to condemn ur sister-in- law.

Seun thanks I really appreciate your advice, but I must confess, young people might take advantage of this by taking the risk and putting other people into problems. Well I still take to your advice I hope she will learn her lesson by not doing it again, because Christ told that women to go and sin no more.

Ugo-- I am not condemning her but I am just dissappointed and did not really expect this. But thank you all the same.

what is this thing about COMMITTING ABORTION you said it as though she committed a sin.

Coco29:

what is this thing about COMMITTING ABORTION you said as they she committed a sin.

Can you rephrase your sentence?

if somebody needs your help, then it's good if you just help, someday you'll need help too,
so just give out some help, "PAY IT FORWARD" .

u have to think about her safety first b4 u start analyzing or criticizing.

Pay the bills. am sure when she gets better she will appreciate it. if u don't help and she dies, it means u've got blood stains on ur hands all for what. u not getting into her pants first b4 someone else did.

Pls, go ahead n help her and i pray she will learn her lesson as yoruba adage says 'The Dog that will get lost shall not hear the triumpet of the owner'.

how can I pay for what somebody else enjoyed

hey thats not a reason why a grown man should not save a dicey situation, its just that they have pushed you into what you didn't bargain for, so man go ahead and be what you are called(man) .

it's another way of gaining restpect in the family

Pls, go ahead n help her and i pray she will learn her lesson as yoruba adage says 'The Dog that will get lost shall not hear the triumpet of the owner'.

@coco29, a lot of people believe committing abortion is commiting sin. aka murder

sha sha @ topic, please help her oh, because if something bad happens to her, it will be on your neck and then u wont be any different from her getting an abortion

so, aden, d' you get the conclusion?

ugonna0071:

Remeber the woman who was caught in the very act of adultery, Jesus did not condemn her. so u have no right whatsoever to condemn your sister-in- law.

what has happend has happend, most probably she could not face u guys cos of carry and illegal pregnancy
so u have to move forward and rescue her, allow it to die

the quote above shows wat Jesus did why not do likewise

eslynera, I have taken to all the advice given, she was attended to yesterday by the doctor, and she was treated and discharged today, all bill was settled accordingly. Thanks

Well done, faithful brother-in-law. Thanks for doing the right thing.

All She Needs Is Pain.

All u need doing is to safe her life, I believe she must have learnt her lesson.

Pay the damn thing. Like you haven't done it before! See this man, tryna act all self righteous and stuff.

He has already paid the money. Why don't you try reading previous posts before commenting?

Seun:

He has already paid the money. Why don't you try reading previous posts before commenting?

My bad, the thread is old. Why don't you close it? The issue is resolved.

@Seun:

Impressive advice!

I may be late, but i just wanna say thanx for saving her life and i know and i hope that she too, will help u one day when ur in need. PC

Adeniyi1st its so stupid that the reason u didn't want to help her was because it was another man who enjoyed it to use your words.
Thank God she is saved but let your wife advice her that pregnancy could've been HIV too.Naughty Girl!

no one is perfect, and none is made a judge on earth. therefore be your sister inlaw's keeper. i believe she will learn her lesson after her experience. please help her out.

If you are in a position to help then help. If that babe dies then you will live the rest of your life knowing that you coulda help saved her.

When you bein to dey see winch for ya house then you go know how far. If you no want dead body to haunt you for ya life, make you help the girl.

Bobbie Mae don yarn.

come wetin dem teach you for sunday school sef?

Pls sit her down and talk sence in to her, I guest she doesn't know how to take care of herself.

u should plz help her becuz she is going to die.after all u should warn her

Thanks and nice of you.May God bless u accordingly.

now my wife want me to help pay the bill, this, I don't support at all because I have never done this in my life, how can I pay for what somebody else enjoyed,

Shakes head.

Since when has the act of abortion [/b]been 'fun"?

You need to think why your relative had an abortion in the first place - it is not the easiest decision or act for a woman to do,

If you're hesitant in helping a relative (regardless of how close or distant you are emotionally) how hesitant would you be if your wife, kids, friends needed help? You should hope that when you are in dire need that no one hesitates to help you.

The Threefold Law: what comes around goes around.

<disappears in a puff of smoke>

its gud u paid, else u'll blame urself if u lose her to death.