Dear Nairalander

I have something bothering me, and I want to know if I'm at fault, my sister in law always says negative things behind my back, when she sees me she will pretend she likes me, I decided to stay on my own, I don't even visit her anymore, she started complaining to my mother inlaw who said I should visit her, but I have made up my mind not to go.

Pls what do you advise?

Wat shud u do to wat??

Tell her yhu know all d bullsh#t she bn talking behind ur back,,, and yhu dnt gv a fvck,, she shld go fvck herslf for all yhu care

U need not tell ur mother inlaw what's happening, but u gotta call ur sis in law and tell her y u can't visit her.

emmamrs54:
Dear Nairalander

I have something bothering me, and I want to know if I'm at fault, my sister in law always says negative things behind my back, when she sees me she will pretend she likes me, I decided to stay on my own, I don't even visit her anymore, she started complaining to my mother inlaw who said I should visit her, but I have made up my mind not to go.

Pls what do you advise?

How do you know she's always saying negative things behind your back? Who's feeding you with this information? And more importantly, why (if the story is true), would she say such things about you?

How do know she's been saying things behind you?

“Stay on your own” — How?
And why do you have to think you are at fault?

You need to grow up fast!
The world is full of azzzzzzeholes!
The best remedy for SKANKS it to ignore them and SHINE IN THEIR FACES ALWAYS!

When you begin to allow nonentities to bother you, you become a nonentity yourself!
Please, maintain YOUR CLASS and STATUS ON AND OFFLINE ALWAYS!

Avoid RIFF-RAFFS, MGBEKES AND ALATIKAS, lest you become INFECTED!

So the family section is now attending to pubertal issues
Na wa

Ignore her.
But say hello whenever you see her.

You don't owe her fraternization.
Also beware of the person telling you what she's saying about you.

Someone is trying to spoil the relationship between you and your sister-in-law. You definitely know who the person is...the person who feeds you with gossip!!

How and from whom did you learn she's been saying negative things?What's the integrity of the person and what kind of relationship do you have with the person?