There's a pending issue is I feel confused about lately:

Is it proper for a lady to have lengthy social chats with her ex and also still give him a pet name (OK, she says she still feels something for him), does it make you feel secure in your relationship? No body wants to feel wasted, but personally as a guy I, I can have a few socials chats with my ex but only to some extent and the moment I broke up with her all the pet name s*** changed.

Furthermore: Is it normal for a guy to express his true emotions to a lady cos I believe that sometimes it would be taken advantage of......

Guys what would you do regarding this?
Ladies, do you think it's proper?