I'll go straight to the point. I have a girl, here i mean a serious girl friend, but she is in her finals in one of the schools in the eastern part of Nigeria while i'm in Lagos.

On my way to the bank on one certain day i met a female who i knew from church, though we were not on talking terms. She came to make some deposits and i started a conversation with her. Meanwhile it started raining and so we had to still chill in the banking hall.

After the rain subsided we went to an eatery and had a little chit-chat. From that day onward we became friends. Not long we started seeing more often, hanging out and before you know it we started getting intimate (mind you not sex) and in between those moments she would say stuffs like "what kind of boyfriend are you? you don't call" or she will call me and ask "where re you? are we seeing ?" From what i sense she wants something serious. Its like 2 months now.

She sent me a text message just now telling me she just told a guy she met that she was in a relationship and after the guy left she started pondering on what she told him, and she ended her message with "are we in a relationship?" and if yes define it.

Having gotten intimate with her in the areas of kissing and caressing, how do i tell her without hurting or making her feel bad that i'm already in one. Don't get me wrong, this girl is a nice person, good at conversation and very knowledgeable and i enjoy her company a lot. i still want her as friend, maybe we can do away with the intimacy part, but how would she react to it?

How do i answer her question without pushing her away or letting her hate me?

wait.....let me ask *ifa*oracle

In other words ur asking how u wud keep her and keep ur girlfriend too....



I hope d Ifa guy above gives u a response.

yomi007k:
In other words ur asking how u wud keep her and keep ur girlfriend too....



I hope d Ifa guy above gives u a response.

Yup......possibility is she would change her attitude towards me if i tell her i have someone serious.

Eberex:



Yup......possibility is she would change her attitude towards me if i tell her i have someone serious.

so only u wan dey manage 2 babes.
well its possible, hope u got d finances n heart of steel cos u shud be ready 2 losr both of dem.